I have an extreme crush on my teacher? what do I do?
Question Posted Friday June 1 2012, 2:05 pm
im 16 years old and I have a 28 year old math teacher She is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. She teaches my math class she is kind and sweet. I love everything about her her voice, her eyes, the way she touches her hair shes always nice to me and I think I am falling for her
she is driving me crazy I get aroused just thinking about her and just can't stop staring at her pic and she is all I think of at night. I fantasize about kissing her and sometimes more, do you think this is a problem that I should tell someone about? I have never had a girlfriend lots of friends but no one that has ever had a special bond, i feel this special bond with my young teacher and I keep fantasizing about her and crave her body, is that weird? every time i think of her
I feel retarded like i have marbles in my mouth and i can't speak she's that hot. It just makes me feel so crazy like I want to punch something, I want her so much I feel so mad I want to just punch something, if she has a boyfriend or husband I will be so jealous of him and I want him to die, I keep thinking she hates me or thinks I'm stupid as well, any help is welcome i think im in love with this girl she haunts my fantasies daily like other girls aren t good enough anymore all I want is here it ******* hurts so much
WittyUsernameHere answered Friday June 1 2012, 7:56 pm: You talk to girls your own age.
Part of this is hormones. Once you're out of puberty you can still crush on people and whatnot but you don't sit there compulsively focusing on one person and using words like "need" in reference to someone you've never had a single flirty exchange with.
The other part is you're an inexperienced guy who's being a bit obsessive about this because he hasn't really got a clue what adult self control entails. You have not yet learned to take a breath and chill out when needed.
Figure out how to let it go. Put her out of your mind as much as possible. Get rid of whatever pictures you stare at. Do what you can to pretend she doesn't exist when she's in the room. The less you indulge your fantasies, the easier it gets to pretend they aren't there.
Most guys have a high school teacher they want to sleep with or date. I know I did. I didn't obsess about her or feel jealousy about it though. I accepted that she was hot, nice, and relatively speaking did not know I existed because that's how a 27 year old woman is supposed to regard a teenaged boy.
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