Member Since: June 12, 2012
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Last Update: June 12, 2012
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21/F
I don't get it... all my friends have always told me that the best part of moving on is finding someone new to share my life with but i just find it depressing. Every time i start to get close to a new guy I'm with it just reminds me that they're nothing like my ex and i end up crying, even after sex i just feel this overwhelming amount of sadness that the guy i just slept with wasn't my ex and i literally start crying and have to excuse myself and go home and cry myself to sleep... All the time. the saddest part is the guy i sleep with actually is a genuine guy but idk whats wrong with me. My ex made it clear that he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore, i even sent him a birthday present and he never said thank u or anything.. When does this start getting easier and why cant i just let myself be happy with someone else? I really am tired of living in the past but it seems by moving on I'm just settling for second best since i cant have the one person I've always wanted. By the way I'm a senior in college and I've been with this one guy since my sophomore year in high school but weve always been off and on. (link)
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Moving on is the worst. It really is and I can relate because I'm going through something fairly similar. The thing is- you need to WANT to move on and commit to doing it. It's easier said than done but you need to find who you are as an individual again. He was a part or your life, surely exactly who you were meant to be with at the time, but now you have an opportunity to explore and find love somewhere else someday. Because at the end of the day, you are perfectly fine on your own. Though it feels otherwise, you are. You just need to own your independence again. Do things that make you happy. Hang out with your favorite people. Watch your favorite movies. Trust yourself to move on. You can do it. And dont go looking for love... Let it come to you.
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WhEn me and my bf are having sex he gets me so wet that whn his going to put.his dick on me i get dry so fast (link)
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Are you still turned on when this happens? I would consider just going for it when you know you are already wet because there will be no possible way for you to become dry in that short of time. Perhaps he is too dry? Lube is a great thing to have on hand- especially the ones geared toward "womens pleasure." otherwise there is always good old saliva. It might sound gross but it's a very common natural lubricant that works great of you don't have a tube on hand.
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Hi, I'm In NEED Of Help to find a Job. I'm turning 14 and I Need money for Clothes. Do You know anywhere where I Could get a Job FAST?? (link)
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Yes! You should babysit! When I was your age, I took a babysitting course Through our local hospital (not needed but helps a lot) and offering to watch kids in my neighborhood, family friends', ect. I even put up a local add and got my name on a list through the hospital. I had I consistent job that I worked 3x a week but would get calls from others in town as well. Usually, I would get paid around 7 or 8 dollars an hour but idk what it is like now. Instant money in your pocket and is completely legal. Hope that helps.
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I am trying to run at LEAST one mile a day. Usually two. I also have summer swim team practice for an hour 2-3 times a week and a meet every Saturday. I've been drinking 80 ounces of water a day and eating very healthy. No junk, lots of veggies and fruits.
I have lost 3 pounds so far and want to lose at least ten more. How long do you think it will take? Sorry, so impatient and want to see results in my body already. (link)
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I am actually trying to lose exactly that much weight, myself. Losing weight is not the same for everyone- it depends on your current weight, diet, average physical activity, body mass index, etc. As I'm sure you know, you need to burn more calories than you consume in order to lose weight. The key- you MUST do it it healthy way. There are zero room for shortcuts with losin weight and keeping it off. The most weight you can lose, healthily, in a week is two pounds. This averages to about 1200 calories a day. Eating any less, however, would put your body in starvation mode and ruin your metabolism. Don't do it! I would recommend a food and exercise diary like My Fitness Pal. It's free and was rated one of the best weight loss tools around. It uses your age, weight, activity, etc to make a plan that fits to your goals. It's helped me and a though it takes getting used to it works and is worth it.
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Im a female who is not a virgin and i dont think ive had an orgasm...even if i try to please my self i can not reach my orgasm...and if i was to have one what would it feel like (link)
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If this has been bothering you for some time it could be that you are thinking about it too much. Sex is as much a mental thing as it is a physical one and if your mind is thinking rather than feeling it could be hard to reach orgasm. I would just relax and respond to what feels great- bask in that feeling and let it grow. Let go of all of your inhibitions. Once you have one- you will know. Then, you will be able to recreate it all you want because you know how you've gotten there in the past. I can't tell you how- I'm not you! Do what feels good:)
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