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Before we have sex I get VERY wet, then when we start... I dry up?
WhEn me and my bf are having sex he gets me so wet that whn his going to put.his dick on me i get dry so fast
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It would be nice to know how old the two of you are.
I don't think there is anything wrong that needs a doctors intervention. I'm going to guess here that the two of you are teenagers having sex. It is also possible you are not on birth control and you are relying on condoms or no birth control at all.
If I have guessed correctly the problem is nerves, the fear of getting pregnant. It may not be a conscious thought but more of a sub-conscious thought. Your fine with foreplay but when it comes to actual intercourse you physically dry up.
The best way to overcome this is to use lubricated comdoms or use a lubricant that will not degrade the condom you are using.
If you are over 14 you can see a doctor and ask for birth control in total privacy without parental permission. This is a right provided under a Federal Law known as HIPPA. This law provides that anyone over 14 may seek proffesional help for their reproductive organs health without parental knowledge or permisssion.
NO ONE, NO ONE in the employ of the doctor or the doctor may release any inforation to anyone including your parents without your written permission.
If mom were to take you for a routine GYN visit you can and should ask to see the doctor in private. The doctor will honor this request and ask mom to wait in the waiting room. Whatever you and the doctor talk about, the doctor examines you for or treats you for stays between you and the doctor. A court cannot order disclosure of this information, it is privilaged and confidential. This was done so young people would seek medical treatment for questions or problems with their reproductive health. It is at this time you can ask for birth control or you can go to any womens health clinic.
So if I have guessed correctly and you would like birth control medication, it is availble to you as long as you are over 14. You do not need parental permission or knowledge. One thing if you do get birth control medication from a GYN or heath clinic make sure to tell you family doctor. The same protections and confidentiality are afforded for visits with you famiy doctor. Your familly doctor needs to know all medications you are taking so they can properly treat you. Birth control pills do have side effects that you familly doctor should know which medication you are taking.
Since this medication is covered under HIPPA the doctor must protect your privacy. To violate privacy is punishable by 5 years in prison.
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Are you still turned on when this happens? I would consider just going for it when you know you are already wet because there will be no possible way for you to become dry in that short of time. Perhaps he is too dry? Lube is a great thing to have on hand- especially the ones geared toward "womens pleasure." otherwise there is always good old saliva. It might sound gross but it's a very common natural lubricant that works great of you don't have a tube on hand.
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I don't think this is a sign of infection or anything this kinda thing happens. I would suggest using a lubricant which you can buy in most shops
hope this helps,
AskSinz
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