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My boyfriend has been avoiding me.
Well, me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months now and, he suddenly started avoiding and ignoring me. Everytime I get on Skype my bestfriend (male) invites me into the chat and so on my boyfriend leaves the room, it makes me feel guilty and sensitive. My bestfriend is also his bestie. he told me he is jealous on our friend relationship with my bestfriend. There is also another subject, it's a girl. They've been besties for 5 years and, I also get jealous. Since then, I have been lonely. I have not been able to contact my truster for this talk so,I had an option here.
-Millyboo
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Talk to him about it. Don't make it into a fight or anything. Just flat out ask him why he's avoiding you. Once he tells you the problem, see if you both can fix it. Jealousy can ruin relationships. You don't want that so try to fix it. Not by controlling who you both can be friends with but by controlling yourself.
You both can be friends with whoever you want, it doesn't mean you see your other friend as something more. Don't get jealous of his friend because he is with you, he chose you.
Same with him being jealous about your friend. You're with him, you chose him. If you wanted to be with your friend you wouldn't be with your boyfriend.
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You need to talk to your bf. Plan and simple. It will be hard. But you need to find out why he is avoiding you and get everything on the table.
Plus you need to trust him. He is with you for a reason. It's the same with u and ur bestie. You aren't going to cheat on him. and he isn't either. if either of you do.. you don't deserve to be together.
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