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Cant reach it
Im a female who is not a virgin and i dont think ive had an orgasm...even if i try to please my self i can not reach my orgasm...and if i was to have one what would it feel like
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Alright. You probably didn't have the best partner if you didn't orgasm. Men can get there quick, but for women it takes time. I personally have experienced many climaxes just by rubbing my clit. It feels so good! Next time you sleep with someone, make sure you do a lot of fore-play. A LOT. Because as a women, you need the firting, kissing, massaging, etc. to become turned on.
It feels like a build up of pressure. You want to stop rubbing, but at the same time you know you should continue. There is a slight pulse, and you can feel your muscles tighten and loosen qucikly. Really, to me, the build up is the best - then the orgasm comes and I can almost feel my hormones just flooding my body. Good luck!
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If this has been bothering you for some time it could be that you are thinking about it too much. Sex is as much a mental thing as it is a physical one and if your mind is thinking rather than feeling it could be hard to reach orgasm. I would just relax and respond to what feels great- bask in that feeling and let it grow. Let go of all of your inhibitions. Once you have one- you will know. Then, you will be able to recreate it all you want because you know how you've gotten there in the past. I can't tell you how- I'm not you! Do what feels good:)
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If you had one.. you would know.
It's not something that's really describe-able.
Because it is defferent for each person.
Try researching different tecniques.
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