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I have feelings for a friend who has a girlfriend and I told him I cldnt do
I like this guy he has a girlfriend but asks to see me and asks me to kiss him and I won't..he says his relationship is complicated. I finally told him I am worth more than a secret and we have to stop talking he acted like he didn't even care. I do want to b around him. Should I ignore him.. Help.. I think he has feelings for me as well
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Just because his relationship is complicated doesn't mean he can just go around and kiss other girls. He's pretty much showing you that he can't be trusted or faithful when things get hard.
You're completely right, he should break up with his girlfriend if he wanted to kiss you.
Then you said he acted like he didn't even care when you told him you're worth more than a secret.
Ok if you two were to get together and things got complicated, he'd probably end up talking to someone else he's interested in and tell them that he wants to kiss them too.
I'm sure you can find someone better than that.
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You are completely right and I'm glad you are standing your ground with him! He can't have a girlfriend and a little bit on the side, too. No matter how complicated his current relationship is.
If he wants to kiss you, he needs to break up with his girlfriend. and if he isn't willing to, then you need to move on. Afterall, he's already showing you he is capable of being unfaithful.. so trust would certainly become an issue if you were to be an item.
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I think he needs to decide what he wants to do first. You should tell him that he needs to think it through on who he wants to be with. If his relationship is complicated, tell him he needs to not treat you like a secret and actually commit to you. The fact that he acted like he didn't care is a little fishy to me but just tell him that he needs to make a decision because you deserve a geniunie relationship with the person you really love.
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