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My sister and my boyfriend


Question Posted Monday June 11 2012, 7:15 am

Ok so I keep having dreams about my sister and my bf having feelings for each other like one time I dram that my bf and my sister came to me telling me they were really srry and that they didn't mean for that to hppn that they really want to be with each other and hope I can understand and I felt soon bad I was crying to them asking them why why did they do this to me and it was so weard beacuse I felt the pain it hurt me so much Was crying my hart out to them and all they were thinking about was themselves and I have had alot of dreams like that about them two so I would want to know someone's ealse opinion. What dose that mean???

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MissAdvicenator answered Wednesday June 13 2012, 4:09 pm:
We all dream of our biggest fears, whether you realize it or not. Our dreams are our imaginations, showing us what makes us happy, sad, mad, and scared.

You are scared of seeing your sister with your boyfriend and developing feelings for him. Maybe because you and your sister are so alike? Possibly look alike, act alike? I'm not sure what your situation is with your sister, whether you are very close or your just whatever.

I think it's just a dream hun. Dreams are our imaginations showing us what our happiness and fears are.

Maybe talk with your boyfriend like "haha i had a dream you and my sister had feelings for each other" and see his response, maybe you can clean your slate how it bothers you during this conversation.

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solidadvice4teens answered Monday June 11 2012, 8:33 pm:
For some reason you have an irrational fear that is always on your mind. You can't let go of it even when you sleep. Dreams are nothing more than thought pictures. When you sleep your thoughts come to you as visual representations.

What you have to realize is the TRUTH that neither of them feel for one another nor have given reason to you to feel this way. Discuss with your sister or both of them these fears and put it behind you.

If it persists see a therapist to try and uncover the true cause of your insecurity and whether or not there's a more serious issue with the sister or him to deal with than just silly reasons for apprehension. If it hasn't happened in real life don't worry about it as it's just a dream based on fear.

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