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I am a girl,age 23. my father has died in 2009, my mom is alive but she never take care of me. i live with my elder sister,she has 3 kids. she always quarreled with me. if i don't do any household work, she got angry with me. i have boyfriend,who never let me cry,he love me so much.i didn't meet with him for last 3month because my sister never allowed me to meet with him. i stay my room whole day lonely.nobody of my family call me or ask me anything. my study is also hampering day by day. for my condition my boy friend also feeling very bad for me and his study also destroying day by day.i cant tolerate this anymore.it is seem to me that my death is the nice solution for all.my family will get rid of me and my boyfriend will get a better life.i have no way to live.what should i do beyond this?
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DO NOT COMMIT! i repeat: DO NOT. you're beautiful! more people will miss you than you think.
I am sorry it's like this for you. You should find alternatives to staying inside all day, arrange visiting your boyfriend at his house since he isn't allowed at home?
Saying inside your room all day may be a sign of depression, you should talk to someone if you can. Your mom, your fathers spirit, your sister, your boyfriend, your best friend...anyone who will listen!
I highly suggest you seek professional help as well. You may feel they won't help, but a professional can perform reliable cognitive treatments to reverse any potential diagnosis, such as the desire to end your life.
Please please please be okay.
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I have a FAFSA loan thing that I have to do for school. Do you know how long I have until the deadline for it to be turned in? (link)
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Most schools deadlines are may 1. But the earlier you do it---the more you may be eligible for a larger award. It's not too late---send it in. A lot of people wait until their taxes are complete
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Do you have any suggestion for a birthday gift that ALL men like? I don't know him that well, but I want to give him something he will really remember. :) (link)
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All men aren't about material things. But if you feel like your man of choice is worthy of something material, why don't you find out his favorite sports team? Buy him some cheap tickets to a game, or some collectors items. But.... Keep in mind that all men like sex, if you make him an awesome dinner yourself followed by some sweet temptacious dessert ;)..maybe illuminate his or your room with little tea light candles and make it romantic
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is there any way to lose weight fast without hurting yourself? (link)
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How fast are you looking for? If your looking at more than 2 pounds a week, you're probably experiencing some sort of problem. Although quick is awesome---shortcuts and cheating yourself effects you.
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So, I need some hairstyle ideas that are cute and easy for wet hair. I am running out of ideas. Please give me some ideas and how to do them. (link)
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Hello!
Braids are always great for wet hair styles. Here is a youtube video of by girl with 5 different hairstyles for wet hair.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jb1jh-Wv2wg
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Ok so I keep having dreams about my sister and my bf having feelings for each other like one time I dram that my bf and my sister came to me telling me they were really srry and that they didn't mean for that to hppn that they really want to be with each other and hope I can understand and I felt soon bad I was crying to them asking them why why did they do this to me and it was so weard beacuse I felt the pain it hurt me so much Was crying my hart out to them and all they were thinking about was themselves and I have had alot of dreams like that about them two so I would want to know someone's ealse opinion. What dose that mean??? (link)
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We all dream of our biggest fears, whether you realize it or not. Our dreams are our imaginations, showing us what makes us happy, sad, mad, and scared.
You are scared of seeing your sister with your boyfriend and developing feelings for him. Maybe because you and your sister are so alike? Possibly look alike, act alike? I'm not sure what your situation is with your sister, whether you are very close or your just whatever.
I think it's just a dream hun. Dreams are our imaginations showing us what our happiness and fears are.
Maybe talk with your boyfriend like "haha i had a dream you and my sister had feelings for each other" and see his response, maybe you can clean your slate how it bothers you during this conversation.
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I know that some musicians do it like Tegan and sara have "car confessionals" so i was curious what kind of camera or cam i could get to set up in my car to make videos with my best friend on our road trips and stuff :) she wants one for her birthday coming up. (link)
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I know those car webcams are very expensive because people who race use them to watch their time, how fast they are going, etc. They normally require internet connection in the car that goes to the camera in order to store the memory somewhere. Why don't you try just using your digital camera and using a video editor to put them all together?
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Ok so me and my boyfriend are 7 years apart and we tlked for 2 months and then made it official 7 months ago, we love eachother alot and ive experienced so much with him like its crazy ive done things with him and for him that i wouldve never expected and he does the same, he stopped going out and talking to girls, etc.. The problem is the we are ALWAYS fighting the longest we ever went without arguing was like 4 days and thats it, we argue over everything and were so jelouse and we are constantly talking about the past, this morning we were good but then i asked him what was the name of some girl that likes him at his job and he wouldnt tell me, it got me so mad because i started assuming alot, he works in a building and she lives in the building and shes always making him food -_- but anyways we started arguing n i was like apreciate the fact i care and etc and then he kept on saying how im so annoying and how this is getting to the point where hes gonna end up leaving me and finding someone better then me.. he doesnt realize what i do for him and it kills me. i dont know what to do, i dont wanna loose him cause hes my everything but we cant continue this way either :'( PLEASE HELP (link)
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To start, maybe use some punctuation in your question because it was a little hard to read. But i'm here to help!
Maybe calmly sit him down and tell him why that other girl bothers you. Explain to him that your jealous, and ask why is she making YOU food? If it turns into a fight, tell him, "i'm not trying to fight, *his name*, i'm scared. I dont want to lose you to someone else".
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ok, for starters I'm 23 yrs of age, my current boyfriend is the same age. We've been on and off for 5 years but he was my he sweetheart. We are the type if couple that everyone says you both look good together. When were good were great and in love but when were bad we try and hurt each others feeling and despise each other. He normally starts the fights and he's aware of that, but I don't walk away from the situation I feel like i need to stand up for myself, then suddenly its a game of whoever says or does the most irrational thing wins. We have been together for so long it's like we can freely say whatever and curse at each other because we love each other well apologize later and then go back to our old routine. But some of the stuff that he says stays in my mind and I'm sure its the same with him.
We've been through 2 major breakups and I'm usually the one to break up with him. But we often threaten each other were going to leave each other whenever in a fight. Now I'm states away from my hometown I lived all my life and before we moved we were fighting - though it would change when we moved in together - our fights have gotten worse to the point we fight in front of our friends and they wonder if we beat each other up at home.
I really do love him, and he loves me. We go on dates, have movie night and cuddle every night. When were good were great. But I feel myself wanting more out of life individually. He has talked to his parents about proposing to me and we TM have talked about marriage. And he has a great job with a good salary. So we could start a life and have kids. But he doesn't want me my parents in the same state as we are even though they want to move closer to me. I left my dog who is the love of my life at home first him because his dog didn't get along with mine. If i stay with him I will never fulfill my lifelong dream of being a professional dancer in California like my dad was because he wants to move to another country for his job. And i know I'm the only one sacrificing. But I don't know what's best for me?? It's not like I have a guaranteed in bring a successful dancer - its a gamble. But I'm young and I'm okay with taking that risk. But with him, I can't do the things i want and have the things i want, because its all planned out for me.
I'm scared because the linger I wait, I'm just gonna keep sinking into quicksand and it'll be harder to get out. But I'm so list. My parents want whatever I decide but it will devastate them to know my bf wants to move to another country where ill never see them again - and I'm an only child. All my friends think my bf cheats on me though my bf reassures me he doesn't all the time yet leads me into thinking he does.
I'm currently back home for a couple of days which I feel myself again and soooo happy to be home it feels like a dream come true. My dog actually cried and was so excited to see me - more than any other time. I thought she forgot about me but she didn't and she loves me being home. And so do I. But I have to go back to Idaho with idaho with bf and deep inside I don't want to. But we have a year lease which he can't pay for it by himself. And he too knows no one out there. So if i left him he'd be alllll alone. And i have such a big heart that even if I hated him I couldn't do that to him.
HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE!!! (link)
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Hey girl!
I can relate to this, I've been in a 4 year long relationship with my boyfriend on and off with many breakups, you know the deal. I feel like were on the same page at the moment.
My boyfriend and i fight SO MUCH and yes, we can say things to each other because were so in love we can apologize. But honestly, it's not healthy fighting with someone so often. Not healthy mentally for the most part.
First off, you need to put yourself first. You have a dream of becoming a professional dancer in Cali, so do it. It's been your dream for how long? Maybe since you were dancing as a child? Don't crush that dream of yours for someone else.
It seems to me like you guys are comfortable. You guys play a "if i cant have mine, you cant have yours" game (like my bf). Prime example, your dog. Since he couldnt have his dog there due to problems with yours, you cant bring yours at the end of the day. You both live together and need to compromise things. YES your dogs dont get along, but we should have a dog in the house for company when the other is out or at work.
You guys probably are in love with the good times you had and are trying to hard to make it that way. You've been walking on broken glass with him. I feel like after a couple breaks up once and gets back together you broke a glass wall between you guys and both walk on it. Fights are easier to arise because you guys broke up, nothings worse then a breakup so you fight fight fight fight. But you fight because you are comfortable and know what words will REALLY hurt the other. You can say, "yeahhh fuck you", and know that wont really hurt him too bad. but if you say something that can personally hurt him (you probably know what that could be) you know it will really piss him off.
But back to what you should do. I think you should live your dream. Like everyone says, "Theres so many fish in the sea". Maybe youll find someone who is also a dancer while living your dream. Don't let someone hold you back from your dream, you will truly regret it when your older. I'm not saying leave him, but maybe you guys can stay together and you can go do your thing, everything you've lived for to this day, dancing. But if hes going to crush them for his lifestyle, i think it would be better to move on and find someone else.
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