Member Since: June 12, 2012
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Last Update: June 12, 2012
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we have become close friends and even few times came very close to kissing, but nothing ever happened.
what am i to do? (link)
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Yes thats normal because age is just a number. Love can occur with anyone at any time place or age. :)
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Hi there!
So I have been dating/together with this guy (mike) ever since January. When I met him ,he was crazy obsessed with me. He would text me nonstop. Try and hangout all the time. Beg for me to date him,etc. I wasn't really into that,but I decided to give him a chance because he's a verry nice guy. As we began dating,I started to Act more interested than I did in the beginning. I guess I would be more clingy,expect lots of texts and hangouts. Basically I just craved his attention. As I started doing that,he began to show less interest. Since its summer,we both had to go home(we go to the same university). So we planned to stay together but we were gonna be two hours away for the summer (in the fall we live like a mile away from each other). I guess you could say I expected lots of texts,"I miss yous " and attention. I didn't really get it.. I would tell him tht he needs to show he cares and blah blah. I would complain to him all the time. Especially when I was drunk. He would get super annoyed and tell me to stop bringing it up. One night I went to visit him and I ruined it. I brought it up again. At that point ,he basically told me that was my last straw and that it's over and that we can just be friends. We had a calm talk and he ended it. He cried his eyes out and watched me walk out. We had bought tickets to go on a Disney trip and we said we would still go as "friends". The breakup was exactly one week ago and he has barely texted me at All. He texted me once asking how I am and if we are still going on the trip because he still wants to go with me. The trip is in a few days and im hoping that I make this trip my one and only chance to get back with him. He doesn't know that I'm heartbroken because I fake that I'm having a good time. Help! (link)
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First you need to try to realize your relationship is ended. A lot of times when we fall out of a relationship we think why this? why that? In other words when we break up with someone we always end up saying to ourselves what if....we got back together? While some people do get back with their ex's i would advise you to not. There is a reason behind every break up. THeres a reason why your not with him right now. So maybe try to think that there has to be someone out there better for you than this guy mike. There is someone out there for you i promise. But if your boyfriend dumped you there's a reason why you are not meant to be. Its almost like your both a puzzle pieces but you're not meant to match together. My advice to you is to decline the invitation to disney world and try to figure out what you want. Enjoy life being single and maybe consider moving forward from mike. If you go on that trip i dont think he's going to want to get back together so i think its best to move forward. Take care :)
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