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Boyfriend and his friend.
Okay before I say anything, please try not to judge my feelings, thoughts or me. I just need advice on what to do at this situation. Okay, here goes.
So long story short, I have a boyfriend now that I've been dating for about 3 weeks. I don't really like him and I've been going back and forth on if I should break up with him or give him some chance in hopes that I find him more likable. He's a good friend but I just don't find him to be my boyfriend, I just kind of panicked and said yes when he asked me out. Silly me.
Today I met two of his friends. I've actually talked to both of them a bit on skype because we all play this online game. Now the real problem. It is sad that I find both of his friend more intriguing than my own boyfriend (granted, I don't really like him like that). Also I think I want to pursue one of the friend. I am pretty sure he is single and he was really easy to get along with and it seems like we have more to talk about. At this point I am completely lost and don't know what to do. I want to break up with my boyfriend because I don't think it's fair I am with him when I don't even like him but then it will be awkward between me and two guys that are his friends and yeah I am being selfish but someone just help me please.
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You should break it off with him. If you're not happy now, I'm pretty sure you aren't going to be happy later. You're not even thinking about him, you're thinking about his friends. It's totally wrong to stay with him, you already know that. So it's better to just end it.
As with his friend that you're interested in. I wouldn't go jump at him. He's you're boyfriends friend so I'd just give it time. If you and his both continue talking then maybe in the future you should try to pursue him because you don't want to cause problems with him and his friends.
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End it. it has been 3 weeks and you still don't feel anything. Don't lead him on if you don't like himm. the fact u said yes when you dont even like him. well iunno.
as far as his friends. give it lots of time. you don't want to go for the friend right away especially if your bf is very hurt. but if you all continue to be friends and what not maybe down the road it might work.
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