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Not talking to my mom
its all started out of my mom saying that I'm not a perfect daughter to her, and i told her so many times that i cant be a perfect daughter to her.
she got mad at me and after a couple of days i apologize to her, then went to green bay with my boyfriend.
I'm guessing she got mad at me, she was thinking that i only apologize to her so i can go with my boyfriend, but its not true.
she is trying to break my relationship with my boyfriend and I'm not liking that.
i know my mom is worried about my past because i was married once, but i mean if she except every guy that i date is going to failed me, then why am i even with a guy.
that's what makes me so mad at her is because she doesn't understand me at all.
i apologize to her because i loved her and didn't want that awkwardness between us, but i guess she didn't understand that.
so not she is not talking to me and i was fine not talking to her too, but she cut off my cell phone line cause she pays it.
i mean i don't know what to do, right now I'm having evil thoughts saying that i should pay back because i don't want to talk to her either.
i know I'm not that mean towards my mom and i don't plan to do anything to her.
but right now i felt like she hates me so much that she is willing to take away everything from me.
what do you think i should do?
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family counseling i am 14 and had that horrible problem too (some what) it wasnt a normal teenage girl with her mom problem eigther hehe.. no matter you wanna keep your mom and your relationship i promise and my mom and i got over it it feels muches better i promise but yeah counceling helps there are free places trust me altapoint patient here counceling helps-hope this helped :)
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I don't think your Mom hates you at all, she gave birth to you and that starts a very strong bond. Whatever has happened since then, I think your Mom has your best interests at heart, even if she appears to be going about it the wrong way; she can't bear to see you getting hurt, just as much, if not more than you don't really want to hurt her.
Before talking about this situation and show her the letter you've written; agree to talk quietly and with respect for each other's feelings; give each other time to explain why you feel as you do. I think you may find you're both on the same side; you both want what's best for you, at the centre of this situation.
Hope this helps a bit, let me know how it goes?
Best wishes X.
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i know this is going to be very short haha but if you want me to just message me and i can go into complete detail or message me if you have any questions...
but what i would do is everything you wrote on here, tell your mom, but in a nice way. if shes being mean to you and starts yelling DONT yell back and DONT give attitude, just truly listen and shake your head and continue on what you want to say and try to come to a conclusion!
thats what i would do if i were in this situation! :)
hope i helped... at least a little!
good luck!
melissa.
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