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I'm kind of between an alto and a soprano and am not sure what to sing. I'm in to country but will also sing pop songs. A few songs I was thinking about singing were:
Just A Dream- Carrie Underwood
Let The Rain- Sara Bareilles
Think Of Me- Phantom Of The Opera
King Of Anything- Sara Bareilles
My friend stole my idea of doing think of me so I need help before my friends decide to take my songs. I want to do a song that people may not know very well, but to people who know it, its popular. PLEASE no rap songs I cant stand it!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Just a dream by Carrie Underwood is an awesome song. How about On my own by Lea Salonga, I know it's not pop but It's a cool song. Anyway my other suggestions are, how about price tag, if you look it up on youtube by Maddi Jane her version was much slower but it was awesome. It could totally blow the audience out. Or how about Break even/Jar of Hearts/ Impossible, you can also look it up on youtube and it is also sang by Maddi Jane.
Good Luck!
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for my birthday my mom is taking me and my friend to see something on broadway my mom wants to see mama mia but i dont know if i wanna see that can you give me ideas on better broadway shows (link)
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Mama Mia is an awesome broadway show. It is such a coincidence that me and my parents finished watching the musical movie of Mama Mia and it was so awesome.
How about Cats/Spamalots/In the heights
I also heard Daniel Radcliffe is staring at a broadway show titled How to succeed in business without really trying.
But the Mama Mia show is already a good one, it has an awesome plot and cool songs :)
Enjoy!
xoxo
Juliet.
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me and my bestfriend are 12 but we dont know what to do. what could you do with your bestfriend when your bored and im stuck in my bedroom.... so what?
example for something for computer, crafts or games. (link)
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Hi, todays me and my best friend are celebrating our best friend's day, we actually had a lot of plans today and she was supposed to come to my my house but there were some complications so she couldn't come, anyway we had a list of things we wanted to do:
You can play pillow fight, Record videos or even make a music video. If you can go outside you room why not make a pancake or something easy to cook. Maybe you can watch movies, then you can also make a best friend notebook, you can just cut out of magazines or if you have photos of you and your best friend you can stick it there. Or you can also talk about your dream house or even you future. You can also do a mini fashion show and try to create new ideas by combining your clothes together. Or maybe you can also prank call, if you're up for it. Maybe you can do some art with your best friend like painting, drawing or just coloring. And why not write a letter to each other and you can only read it when you're about to sleep. You can also sing and pretend you're rock stars.
i miss my best friend already, So just enjoy the time with her and tell her some of the things you don't usually tell her or show her how much she means to you.
xoxo
Juliet.
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I kno that people ask this question all the time but, which guy should I choose? I usually think that the people who ask this question are weird but now that I'm in this position.....
Guy 1- really shy but if you get to kno hm he's hilarious and talkative. He really likes me and we are currently going out but I feel like I'm cheating on him b/c I dont love him as much as he loves me.
Guy 2- one of my brothers best friends and I think he's HOTT but my friends are completely repulsed by him. He's hilarious and really flirty with me but I dont kno if he likes me.
Guy 3- really talkative and hilarious and all my friends agree with me when I say he is defiantly cute but I also like his best friend.
Guy 4- guy 3's best friend. pretty shy but super HOTTTTTT. He's always making jokes gets super jealous if he sees me with my boyfriend.
Please give actual advice and tell me who you would date if you were in my shoes. I know it's up to me but still it really IS hard to decide!!!!!! I am hiding their identitys to avoid embaressment on my part or their part. Thank you so much!!!! (link)
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Choosing a guy is one of the hardest things to decide on partly because you are certainly not sure if it would be the right guy you picked.
Sometimes we have to consider somethings first before we decide who to choose.
First you have to consider yourself, who makes you happiest the most, who has most of the qualities your dream guy possesses, probably you already have someone in my mind but you are just confused on the other three. You have to think hard, on who you like the most, I know it's hard and very confusing but you have to only choose one.
Second, here is a piece of advice. Choose the one who loves you the most because for sure he won't break your heart. If he already showed this much compassion or feelings towards you then he is already putting his heart at risk. Because since he is already showing this sincerity to you, there is still a possibility for him to be heartbroken but he risks it anyway.
And lastly choose someone who accept you for you, someone that you don't need to change for, someone who would/could change for you. Someone who will accept your flaws and not only like you for your appearance. Choose someone who deserves you.
If you really want to hear my opinion on those four guys, I would've chosen Guy 1.
Reason 1: Guy 2 is one of your brother's best friends and trust me it usually doesn't work out because you have you crush who is one of the close friends of you brother. So what if you got into a fight with your brother, it won't make things easier (just saying)
Reason 2: Guy 4 gets jealous but he still hasn't told you his feelings so technically he doesn't have a right to be jealous.
Reason 3: Guy 3 seems nice but you still have to know him deeper, he has to open up to you and show his real side like what Guy 1 did and besides you also have a crush on his best friend so it's going to make things a lot more difficult.
In the end, you will have to be th eone to make the decision, so good luck!
xoxo
Juliet.
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My dad used to smoke and I know he still does because he has about 1000 lighters and he always smells of smoke. I love him so much and want him to be around for a long time. He doesn't know that I know. He also is overweight and doesn't go to the doctor. What do I do? I can't stop worrying about him!!! (link)
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Woah. I can't believe we almost have the same situation but the difference is my dad is thin and even though he eats a lot he is still thin.
My dad smokes a lot and it came to the point that I told him to stop several times but it didn't work out. So every time he goes home from work I would get his cigarette box and hide it from him. But then he keeps finding way on how to hide the cigarette from me.
So probably you could talk to him first about his health and make him understand that you can also be affected by second hand smoking. Or you can also ask your mom to talk to him about that issue. Maybe you can suggest him to smoke tobacco because it is a lot healthier than a normal cigarette. Or maybe you can also hide his lighters or cigarette box like I do :))
If you want, you can personally consult a doctor and ask him what are other ways to to prevent your dad from smoking.
-Juliet
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okay. so me and this guy hung out yesterday and we were supposed to go to the beach to watch the sun go down and stuff. but we decided wed do that another day so we went to the park and he put his arm around me and held my hand and he wanted to get a scary movie because i get scared easily so we watched that and i layed on his chest and we held hands and when the movie was over and he was about to leave we were hugging for a long time and he was kissing the top of my head and i thought he wanted to kiss i thought it was a mutual kiss but i leaned in for it a little more then him and he didnt pull away he kissed back and then he said hmm that was random so i dont know if he likes me or not
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I can say that he does like you. A guy wouldn't just hang out with a girl alone, cuddle with her, hold hands with her, hug her and kiss her on the forhead if he didn't like her. Probably he wasn't expecting the kiss that was why he told you "that was random"
But he does like you.
If you two ever get to see each other again try to find those signs that he likes you. For example if he holds your hand again or kisses you in the forehead.
But if you really want to know if he does like you then have a friend to ask him or if you have the courage then ask him yourself.
Guys have difficulties to admit they like a girl because probably they are afraid of what the girl may think or how the girl will react. So they tend to show signs instead of telling them.
Good luck!
xoxo
Juliet
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Im 13 and all of my friends have boyfriends, EXCEPT ME. Some guys come up to me and they say "i like you" and i dont know what to say. Then weeks go by and i dont hear from them again.
I think im pretty but not like the populars pretty. So is something wrong with me? why cant i get a boyfriend? (link)
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You're still 13 and "Nothing" is wrong with you because what you are going through is peer pressure and every other teenage girl has been going through that. Let me tell you this, You are not alone :) Somewhere out there, there is this girl who is wondering why she is still single when her bunch of friends are already dating or having a boy friend.
Don't rush, you're still in your 1/7 part of your life. There is more in the future. You just have to focus on your studies.
I know it's hard being left out or feeling all alone but what you need is a distraction from all these pressure. But, if you really want to have a boy friend right now then it's your choice :)
When a guy says they like you, try to get to know them better. You can't just pick one guy and become his girl friend all of a sudden, you have to start it in a slow pace. Get to know each other, hang out, be friends and then see if you like him back. If you do you can choose to tell him or to keep it from him.
But you have to be careful, there are a lot of things that could happen. You could get hurt, heart broken, cheated on, or even forced into something you don't want to do. In choosing the right guy it takes time, you have to test him. And when you already have a boy friend, you have to be ready to commit yourself to him. There are some responsibilities or rules when you enter in a relationship for example, do not cheat, always have time for him, and those things always depends on the guy. If the guy is too demanding or if the guy is just simple.
If you are really ready to enter this kind of thing then you have to be ready for all the possibilities including holding hands and kissing. But sometimes some guys don't really force you to do that, they wait for the right time. You have to be ready for the problems you'll face with your parents, friends and your relationship.
This is just one of those stages when a teenager feels pressured because she is the only one without this or that. You can choose to stand out and be proud of yourself that you're different and that you won't be pressured by your friends or you can also go with the flow and decide if you really want a relationship.
xoxo
Juliet
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im in highschool 17/f and i need help with concentrating on my schoolwork. im so easily distracted!!!! does anyone know i can concentrate better so i dont fail??? thank you:) (link)
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Distractions are some of the reasons why we can't finish our list of things to do in time. Yeah I've been through that too, don't worry. All teenagers go through the same phase.
High School will be one of the most unforgettable experience ever, you just need to enjoy it while it's still there because once you graduate everything will change.
My advice is to try to limit the use of computer, watching tv and playing games. You should also schedule the day where in you want to go out with friends. All you need is balance :)
It's not bad to have fun what everyone needs is the right amount of it. Not too much and Not to less. Maybe you could try to do your projects/homework first before anything else then have a quick break for like 30 min to 1 hour. Then after that study for 1 - 2 hours. Then after that you can do what you want after completing what you had to do.
If you really do not want to fail then you must be willing to sacrifice time. Try to restrain yourself from using the computer too much or restrain yourself from anything else that distracts you. You have to try to gain Patience in studying, Restraint on your distraction and Balance in your life. You can have fun on friday and enjoy the whole day after school then on saturday you can do homwork and at night have fun then at sunday you can have fun a little then study.
Remember Patience, Restraint and Balance :)
You can do it, I know you can.
xoxo
Juliet
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So I have this friend. He is gay. We share a lot of laughs, a lot of tears, and we've been through a lot with each other. He's funny and a really cool person, but sometimes he gets on my nerves.
I used to shake it off, but now it is unbearable. He's depressed but pushes away my advice. He sulks and cries over breakups when he has guys all over him. He's naggy, dramatic, rude, and spoiled. My family was cleaning the house today and he sat around doing nothing. He didn't offer any help. I find him very disrespectful lately. He causes a lot of drama, too. He posts it on facebook and tries to get me in between it. I just can't stand him lately. He's my best friend, but I walk on glass to please him when he never does it for me. I am done tolerating his rude behavior. My family can't stand him, either.
Today he got mad because I was on the phone with the guy he hooked me up with. He said I was rude but earlier he said he didn't care how long I talked on the phone. He starts crap and he lies about his life. He said he was super rich and I went to his house once and it was just a tiny little shack. I'm so tired of his selfishness. I can't ever make him happy. He complains that he's fat and ugly and I tell him different and he always accuses me of lying. I just want to end the friendship, but somehow I know I will miss him if I do. I get so irritated.
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Let me ask you first, do you really want to end this friendship? I know you walked on broken glass just to please him and make him happy but then do you remember the times where in you had so much fun and you just wanted to remember it for the rest of your life? Remember when there wasn't any problems between you two and you were just messing around? Remember the time when you first cried on him and he first cried on you? remember the need for each other? remember going through a lot and still ending up as best friends? Remember seeing each others imperfections but still accept each other? Remember the feeling where he was like the only person you could run to or trust?
Remember those moments. Are you ready to give that up for this mistake/ wrong thing he made? Are you ready to give up everything after what you both have been through?
Let me share to you what is currently happening to me and my best friend. She and her boy friend wouldn't be allowed to date if it was only the two of them so I offered my family's coffee shop which was below our apartment room so that they could hang out there with some of my supervision. I never actually thought she would go to extremes without thinking.
She and her boy friend were French kissing non stop and our coffee shop was an open are so almost everyone could see it and there was a camera. And she didn't even consider what people would think of her or what would the people think of me. The guard saw , the staff saw, the waiter saw, the owner of the apartment saw and even my dad of all people saw them doing it. I never expected her to do that because she was still an innocent girl and she was very fragile and I've known her for so long that I didn't expect this kind of action from her. I'm sorry I'm sharing this to you but it also make me thinks if I should just end our friendship together. But then I remembered the old her together with all the memories. With all the things we've been through. If we survive this we will be stronger than ever.
You see, these are just challenges in life that tries to teach us a lesson from our mistakes. My mistake was leaving them alone and not reminding her what to be careful of. She told me that the guy was the one who made the first move and they just did it and she didn't why she didn't stop. She apologized several times. And right now I don't really know what to do.
But the main point here is that you shouldn't give up your friendship for what he has become or what he has done. You should talk to him, have a talk with your best friend and tell him what you feel, try to share to him what has been your experience being his friend.
You've been through so much together and I believe you shouldn't end this friendship and instead try to survive through this obstacle and your friendship will be stronger than ever.
xoxo
Juliet
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so im 15/f i know wiith all the hormones and what not im gonna get pimples but is there ANY way to stop them i dont eat that much chocolate and i hate peanuts i dont get SUPER pimples but occasional whiteheads and once in a blue moon a black head i hate getting pimples cause i just cant keep myselp from poping them but uggh it just drives me insane to have them there and after i end up with a huge scab on my face its embarressing
so any home remediies? how can i keep my face clean & soft :P? any advice would be awsome? please help me
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Well almost every teenager goes through the same thing and as much as we want to avoid it, there it is.
I also get pimples and it is so embarrassing so I just try to hide it with my bangs which is wrong because one of the reasons pimples show up is because of the hair. Our hair is dirty and when it touches our face, our face gets dirty and therefore results to pimples.
My suggestion is to keep your hair away from your face at all times. Then wash your face at least twice a day with mild soap for sensitive skin. Do not apply too much make up, you can apply at least thrice but don't do it daily. Do not eat too much oily food because the excess oil we get from the food is the reason why we have oily face. If your face tends to be too oily you can buy an oil control film.
One brand of soap that you can apply to your face is Cetaphil gentle skin cleanser. You can also apply it to your face without rinsing it anymore.
And you have to restrain yourself from popping your pimples because it would only become a scar and it will be there in you face forever. Let it get smaller and don't try to irritate it by scratching it or poking it several times.
Every person goes through the same phase so don't be embarrassed ;)
xoxo
Juliet
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Even though me and my ex-boyfriend have stopped talking ever since our breakup in March, and I'm dating someone else, I still have this weird energy when I am around him.
He broke up with me because I was depressing him, but he promised me he would still be my friend and be there for me. It was a really rather caring breakup. For a while, we were friends, laughing and joking and being just like we were. I felt very happy at first, but then, it just turned so sour. My feelings for him began to develop again. I warned him about it, too. But he insisted we be friends. I stayed his friend, and tried to be short and curt with texts and phone calls, so my emotional attachment would fade. And yes, eventually it did, but not without a few problems. He used to complain I was stubborn and too sensitive. We got in a few squirmishes about it, and since I am negative by nature, and I get depressed easily, he couldn't take it anymore. He was angry with me and told me to stay out of his life because I am a roller coaster.
Still, I try to contain my emotional self. He said he'd always be there for me. He said he'd help me work through my issues even after we broke up. But things aren't that simple. We barely ever talk anymore. The emotional attachment I had for him is gone, but I always feel so weird when we are around each other. He always stares at me but never makes any attempts to talk. I just want to say something. I don't want our relationship to be like this, silence and all. I really would enjoy being his friend, but he just doesn't want to take the time to deal with me. It's really upsetting. And I know I shouldn't care.
He put me through too much. He played games. He was selfish. He left me waiting for a decision if he wanted to get back with me or not for a week, and when he dumped me I was destroyed. A few days later he asked if he wanted to get back with me, but I told him to wait, and he said no. He refused to wait for me whatsoever, and then I knew that was it. I knew that he wasn't worth it. So I gave up. And now, I'm kinda happy we don't talk, but there's this awkwardness everytime I'm around him. We have classes together.
I hate it. Why do I care so much still when all this happens? I'm over him, but somehow there's a longing to be his friend. I just don't know what to do.
I've been ignoring him lately and it feels good, but weird. (link)
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I used to have that almost same situation before.
Well here is how mine goes, he broke up with me because he realized he couldn't take commitments and that he wanted the feeling of just having "mutual understanding" but it wasn't the same anymore. We gave each other time and space and for a while there I felt happy without him. But it still got pretty awkward when he was somewhere near me.
I told him that maybe we could still be friends and I told him that I would always be there for him but the thing is he chose to stay away and he made the decision not to talk to me anymore. I always try to approach him or chat with him but it's like even though everything's okay between us it isn't the same anymore and sometimes I miss what we used to have.
The main reason why you still care is that there is a part of you that still loves him and also a part of you that misses what used to be. I know that feeling. It takes time to get used to because it's not gonna be the same anymore. What you need is time and a distraction.
Time heals all wounds. You are lost in somewhere between two worlds, Reality and past. And maybe you just need time to get back to where you are now.
I know ignoring him might feel a bit weird or awkward but that is the chance to change your life and start a new beginning. I'm sorry to say this but maybe you have to face you reality without him in your life anymore. Because if you stick with him, it would be like not letting go of your past and it will keep you getting hurt and I don't think you deserve that, You've been through a lot right now and all you need is time to think.
These are challenges given to us in life and we must learn from these things and also we must learn from our mistakes because it will teach us not to do the same thing wrong anymore.
The reason that it feels good when you're ignoring him is because he was one of the worries or troubles you had in your life and ignoring him is like slowly forgetting or releasing the pain. It's weird at first and then you get used to it in a while and when that time comes that's when you can say that when you fell down you got back up.
xoxo
Juliet
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im in middle school 7th grade and 13. im a girl. and this guy randomly comes up to me and says " whats your name?" and i said "stephanie" and then he says "well my friend likes you, in the white shirt" and he is cuutee! but i DONT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT HIM, I DONT EVEN HAVE PERIODS WITH HIM! all i know is that he LOVES soccer. and he has a girlfriend. i had never met her but i have seen pictures of her. So weeks go by and everytime i get near him he says "sssttephanieeee!" in a wierd way. and today during drug ed. my friend,nicole sat next to him and he asked "are you friends with stephanie? because i like her a lot." and nicole said "good for you." then he said "does she like me?" and nicole said "you have a girlfriend, you shouldnt be doing those stuff." and he was quiet for a second and said "oh her? my girlfriend? nah, we are over....." and then nicole said then "why dont you take it off from facebook?" and he said "i dont want to right now, but i REALLY like stephanie." and left.
i only know because my best friend told me and i really like him too. but how do i know he is telling the truth on his girlfriend?
and i think he blocked me from facebook because i cant look up his profile.
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Wow he must have a lot of courage to admit that he likes you but then again there is no assurance that his feelings are true. Might as well get to know him as friends first so that you can both understand each other more in a deeper level and in which you can discover if he is serious about liking you.
First of all, he has to clear it out if he still has a girl friend or not. If he likes you then why wouldn't he take it off from facebook? If you like somebody you are willing to sacrifice for them.
What you have to do is to find out if he really is sincere about the things he said like if he and his girl friend are really over. Because you can't like someone when you are already committed, right? So you must make sure that they are really over so that there wouldn't be any complications or misunderstandings in the future.
The second thing to do is try to test him, see if he does really like you because a person can never be sure it's true unless proven.
And third, just like what i said earlier try to get to know him as friends :)
Good Luck!
PS. If he really likes you then why would he block you from his profile. Surely there is a reason why he did that and probably it is to hide something from you. But in any case no one knows why so you can also try to find out why he blocked you.
xoxo
Juliet
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where can 13 year olds get jobs
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Well it always depends on the place where you live.
You can always make a lemonade stand or sell something such as cookies or other stuff. You can also offer to babysit if you know someone who would pay you to do it, you could also surf it on the net, I'm sure you'll be able to find some great jobs near your place :)
-Juliet
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ok so im a girl and i know that i like guys already, but i have my bff. . .lets call her. . .nan. so nan and i have become really good friends this year and i think i am bi curious. like whenever she texts me i get all happy and she always makes me smile and shes so beautiful. . .but i dont know. i dont want to be even bi curious. i dont know if its just a phase but ive had thoughts on same sex relationships for like 6 maybe 7 months now. i mean i cant even decide for myself whether im bi curious or not because i think i might be in some kind of denial. i've neer felt this way b4 towad any girl but from what i just wrote, do i sound bi or bi curious to you? (link)
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I go to a all girls school so trust me I've been through almost what you are experiencing. Yes it is one of those phases that you go through in your life. Some of us are lucky enough to know who they really are at an early age and some of us get confused and don't really know what to do.
You have to think of this carefully because if your thoughts are sending you hints about having a relationship with the same gender then there might be a small part of you that is curious enough to know what it feels like to be bi.
Feeling confused at a stage like this is normal. You're still growing up and this is one of those challenges you will face. Your decision matters because it will be the cause of your future.
You have to learn to figure this out on your own. What does your heart tell you? What does your brain tell you? Is this what you want? DO you think it is right? Have you given any thought on the people who will be affected by your decision?
I know it is a tough choice to make but this will help you to become stronger and this is the part where you get to know yourself.
-Juliet
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im 19- f-
i have been crushing (i know sounds childish for a 19 year ol but its the honest truth) on this boy for a while. we BBMed for a while and i wasnt sure if he was into me. i found out from him that he kinda has another girl. i was heartbroken but we still would BBM. but not nearly as much.
and when we would i always would try so hard to prolong the convo. if he would start getting one wordy and short i would just keep asking questions to maintain the convo and i became the type of girl i normaly make fun of. i never in my life thought i would this.
every time i get drunk i bbm him.
one time i was drunk and bbmed him and started telling him that his current girl (there not official) is fat and looked bad at the party i saw her out. i was so embaressed that i did that. i acted like a jealous x gf when im not even close to that. we have never kissed or anything! but i clearly really am into him and he knows.
ever since that episode we dont really talk as much unless he needs like a number or if im drunk ill bbm him.
today out of nowhere he bbmed me a sexy picture i once sent him when i was drunk.
i was like haha random... and he was like ya i was scrolling and found it and thought id send it to u.
the convo died very shortly. i let him say the last thing for once and i didnt prolong it. but WTF. why is he bbming me when he knows i like him and he has a girl? i just dont get him.
i really am so into him and i hate this.
he just considers me a really chill cool girl?
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Having a crush is a normal thing and not only for kids. Based on what happened I think he was just scrolling through some of the old messages and then he saw the picture and then he decided to send it to you because just thought of sending it to you.
Guys normally don't say what their true feelings are for a girl but it seems to me that he only treats you as a friend. But if you would like to know what he does feel for you have a close friend of his ask him or better yet ask him yourself if you have the courage to do it.
I'm sorry to say this but I think that maybe there wasn't really any meaning for him when he texts BBM's you.
I'm not really sure on what he really is thinking but as how I see it, and since he doesn't show much interest in you then he probably doesn't feel the same way as you do.
There are a lot of other guys for you there. You'll find that perfect one when you're not looking ;)
-Juliet
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This is kinda long.... But I'm currently in a relationship, but for some reason, my ex always gets to me.
Our relationship was very strong, with an open trust and intense compatibility. We had such a good chemistry, and everything was going great. He was helping me with my depression issues and making my life better. Until we broke up. He didn't have the courage to tell me that he was breaking up with me because of my flaws, and instead told me he didn't want drama when his dad came to town. I ended up waiting for his decision to get back together for a week, but in the end he dumped me. He still wanted to be friends, but I refused in fear of becoming attached to him again, and I take a long time to get over breakups. A few days later, he asked if I wanted to get back together. I told him to wait. But being a big baby, he said no. I waited for him, and he didn't wait for me. That was when I knew he wasn't worth it.
We remained friends for a while, until he was being a jerk. He'd pick on me and taunt me, when he knows I am sensitive, and when I confronted him, he went to being a big baby. He told me he didn't care about me and that I had issues. I didn't let it bring me down. We tried being friends once more, and then I learned just yesterday he was writing dirty, hurtful, hateful things about me, and drawing pictures of me doing very graphic, slutty things, because he knows I am not a virgin. I ignored him and now we don't talk.
I can't fix something that has been broken so many times after so many attempts. I don't want him in my life anymore. I'm through. Still, whenever I am around him, I feel sick, upset, and angry. I drown in emotions. For instance, today, I ran into him by accident at lunch and he pushed past me. Afterwards I felt like throwing up. I let him effect me so much and I am sick of it. Why do I have such an emotional attachment to him? I need help. (link)
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I am so sorry this happened to you. You seems such a wonderful girl and I believe that you do not deserve to be treated that way.
There was this same situation that happened to me before with this guy. But the difference is that I was the one who stopped whatever it was going on between us because I felt like I was being suffocated (not literally) when I was with him and he had this dirty mind that went overboard sometimes. Then I thought we could still be friends but he was so bitter about what happened that he became mean to me. He told one of my friends that I only used him and that I cheated on him. He also said some awful things to his friends that offended me so much.
I was so affected by the things he said and sometimes it would reach to the point that I was so angry that I burst in to tears. It hurts because it wasn't true. After three to four months of ignoring each other. We finally got in touch with each other and I forgave him and he said he was sorry and we were friends again.
Maybe the reason he is being mean to you is because a part of him still likes you deep inside. And maybe he feels bitter on what happened between you two. So what he does is say this awful things at you thinking that if you feel bad he will feel better.
I suggest you give it time. I know it's hard to ignore old feelings but you can always try. Try to give each other space. Time heals all wounds. Maybe you both just need to think things out and for the mean time learn to live life without each other.
You can do it. you can survive this. There is more to life than him. You have to learn to concentrate on more important things than worrying about him for example studies, family, a job, or your friends. Try to take your mind of of him and make yourself feel better by enjoying life. Go out with your friends and just have fun. Forget him. If he hurts you and makes you feel bad then he is not worthy of you. There are a lot of guys who would be so lucky to have you as their girlfriend and it's his loss.
Don't forget to smile :)
xoxo
Juliet
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i am twelve and a girl...what kind of things attract guys? (link)
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You shouldn't worry about attracting guys because life is short and we must enjoy what we have till it is all gone. And a guy likes someone not because she forces the guy to like him but because she is herself. Be natural. Go with the flow. BE YOU :)
A guy will like you for what he sees in you such as your attitude, morals and objectives in life. So never be scared to say hi, be friendly and always wear a smile ;)
xoxo
Juliet
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So one of my friends got asked out
by this guy I really like! I mean I REALLY
like!!!! So she said yes, and they have
been dating for a while and it's killing me!
!!!!!!!!!! I was crazy about him, we texted
and talked but now nothing I really
miss it): (link)
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Unrequited love is a very hard thing to deal with. And it happened to me several times before, my advice is that if you really like or do love the guy maybe you should go for it (unless he is already in a relationship). You should try to make an effort in showing interest on him for example text him or talk to him whenever you get the chance to. And since he is just dating and there is still no assurance of their relationship then you still have a chance. Make the movie before it's too late ;)
xoxo
Juliet
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Almost 15/F Guy is 20/M...
I've been talking to a guy online and he's from a different country. I like meeting new people, but at first he came off really strong.
He would call me, and text me, and comment on my pictures on facebook, which really was uncomfortable.
I texted him back and told him that he was being stalker-ish, at that time, he backed off and we became sorta "civil".
I have trust issues with guys, A LOT of trust issues, and I can't find myself to trust this guy much, but I am still talking to him.
He acts like he's met be before, and it's not freaky, I'm only curious. He asked me if he could call me sweetie, and I didn't really care, so I told him sure. Sometimes he asks me if I missed him when we don't talk and we'll have in depth conversations, which is nice because my guy best friend doesn't know half the stuff about me that this guy is guessing about.
It is nice to have someone to talk to that really gets me.
Anyways, how should I tell him to "back off" nicely? I don't want him to say sorry, I just want him to know that.....I don't know how to explain it. Maybe that: I don't understand why he is getting so close to me and saying things to me like that. (link)
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It is quite obvious that this guy likes you. And I almost had that same experience recently that I am still dealing with now. My advice is that you should tell him that you both are just friends (unless you want something more than that) and nothing more. Maybe you should tell him some of the great things he has done for you to ease up the tension then tell him how awesome it is being his friend to send him the hint that you only want friendship.
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