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is something wrong with me?
Im 13 and all of my friends have boyfriends, EXCEPT ME. Some guys come up to me and they say "i like you" and i dont know what to say. Then weeks go by and i dont hear from them again.
I think im pretty but not like the populars pretty. So is something wrong with me? why cant i get a boyfriend?
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You seem like you don't really know how to handle your self around guys. You should practice answering things that boys say to you in the mirror. If boys say to you " I like you" you should say "Really? Thanks" In a flirty way, this should attract guys. You should practice this in the mirror because if you don't you might do something you think is flirty and pretty, but it makes you look weird. That might make guys not want to go out with you. I don't think there is any thing wrong with you, if you know how to handle your self around guys, you should be able to get a boyfriend soon. If you want a list of ways to handle and talk around guys please email me and I can send it to you. If you want any more advice, please email me on AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com. IF you don't trust that I give professional advice, please go to my temporary website to see to examples of advice I gave to people, which helped them. My website is www.askalicemadisson.webstarts.com
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It's fine that you don't have a boyfriend. You really don't need to have one, you're 13 and as you get older you'll get a boyfriend. At 13 it's actually kinda pointless to have.
I got my first boyfriend when I was 14. Even now I think it was kinda stupid. We only sat by each other and talked. Didn't hold hands or anything. The most he did was give me his jacket.
Anyway, don't think anything is wrong with you because you can't get a boyfriend. Sometimes it's a lot of drama and when you're young some things might happen that you don't want to happen.
If you really want a boyfriend, don't try to rush it because he probably won't be the best guy for you. Be friends with him first and see if you really like him instead of the idea of having a boyfriend. Good luck!
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You're still 13 and "Nothing" is wrong with you because what you are going through is peer pressure and every other teenage girl has been going through that. Let me tell you this, You are not alone :) Somewhere out there, there is this girl who is wondering why she is still single when her bunch of friends are already dating or having a boy friend.
Don't rush, you're still in your 1/7 part of your life. There is more in the future. You just have to focus on your studies.
I know it's hard being left out or feeling all alone but what you need is a distraction from all these pressure. But, if you really want to have a boy friend right now then it's your choice :)
When a guy says they like you, try to get to know them better. You can't just pick one guy and become his girl friend all of a sudden, you have to start it in a slow pace. Get to know each other, hang out, be friends and then see if you like him back. If you do you can choose to tell him or to keep it from him.
But you have to be careful, there are a lot of things that could happen. You could get hurt, heart broken, cheated on, or even forced into something you don't want to do. In choosing the right guy it takes time, you have to test him. And when you already have a boy friend, you have to be ready to commit yourself to him. There are some responsibilities or rules when you enter in a relationship for example, do not cheat, always have time for him, and those things always depends on the guy. If the guy is too demanding or if the guy is just simple.
If you are really ready to enter this kind of thing then you have to be ready for all the possibilities including holding hands and kissing. But sometimes some guys don't really force you to do that, they wait for the right time. You have to be ready for the problems you'll face with your parents, friends and your relationship.
This is just one of those stages when a teenager feels pressured because she is the only one without this or that. You can choose to stand out and be proud of yourself that you're different and that you won't be pressured by your friends or you can also go with the flow and decide if you really want a relationship.
xoxo
Juliet
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