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boy advice for a girl
im 19- f-
i have been crushing (i know sounds childish for a 19 year ol but its the honest truth) on this boy for a while. we BBMed for a while and i wasnt sure if he was into me. i found out from him that he kinda has another girl. i was heartbroken but we still would BBM. but not nearly as much.
and when we would i always would try so hard to prolong the convo. if he would start getting one wordy and short i would just keep asking questions to maintain the convo and i became the type of girl i normaly make fun of. i never in my life thought i would this.
every time i get drunk i bbm him.
one time i was drunk and bbmed him and started telling him that his current girl (there not official) is fat and looked bad at the party i saw her out. i was so embaressed that i did that. i acted like a jealous x gf when im not even close to that. we have never kissed or anything! but i clearly really am into him and he knows.
ever since that episode we dont really talk as much unless he needs like a number or if im drunk ill bbm him.
today out of nowhere he bbmed me a sexy picture i once sent him when i was drunk.
i was like haha random... and he was like ya i was scrolling and found it and thought id send it to u.
the convo died very shortly. i let him say the last thing for once and i didnt prolong it. but WTF. why is he bbming me when he knows i like him and he has a girl? i just dont get him.
i really am so into him and i hate this.
he just considers me a really chill cool girl?
idk. whats the point i just dont get him.
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Having a crush is a normal thing and not only for kids. Based on what happened I think he was just scrolling through some of the old messages and then he saw the picture and then he decided to send it to you because just thought of sending it to you.
Guys normally don't say what their true feelings are for a girl but it seems to me that he only treats you as a friend. But if you would like to know what he does feel for you have a close friend of his ask him or better yet ask him yourself if you have the courage to do it.
I'm sorry to say this but I think that maybe there wasn't really any meaning for him when he texts BBM's you.
I'm not really sure on what he really is thinking but as how I see it, and since he doesn't show much interest in you then he probably doesn't feel the same way as you do.
There are a lot of other guys for you there. You'll find that perfect one when you're not looking ;)
-Juliet
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