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Which guy???
I kno that people ask this question all the time but, which guy should I choose? I usually think that the people who ask this question are weird but now that I'm in this position.....
Guy 1- really shy but if you get to kno hm he's hilarious and talkative. He really likes me and we are currently going out but I feel like I'm cheating on him b/c I dont love him as much as he loves me.
Guy 2- one of my brothers best friends and I think he's HOTT but my friends are completely repulsed by him. He's hilarious and really flirty with me but I dont kno if he likes me.
Guy 3- really talkative and hilarious and all my friends agree with me when I say he is defiantly cute but I also like his best friend.
Guy 4- guy 3's best friend. pretty shy but super HOTTTTTT. He's always making jokes gets super jealous if he sees me with my boyfriend.
Please give actual advice and tell me who you would date if you were in my shoes. I know it's up to me but still it really IS hard to decide!!!!!! I am hiding their identitys to avoid embaressment on my part or their part. Thank you so much!!!!
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i say guy number 4 it could just be me but i think its so cute when a guy gets jealous but only pick him if u really like him
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Guy 1, doesn't seem like he is a getting a good deal because he's into you more than you are with him. If you feel like you are both not compatible it is best to break if you're sure you're always going to be wanting someone else and that he is not enough for you/that you will not grow to love him as much as he loves you.
Guy 2, if there's a good reason why your friends are repulsed by him they may have a point and are wary of him for a reason. That being said, if you can judge character well and can see that he is a good person then you have to go with both your head and your heart.
Guy 4, the jealousy thing worries me. If he gets jealous like this then whose to say that if you both get in a relationship together that he will not get jealous if you talk to other guys and try to control you. I don't know him, and jealousy is a natural thing, but it is good to be cautious with this type of thing.
All that being said, I'd say guy 3 sounds the best. But you should pick whoever you like the most and be sure to be gentle with your boyfriend if you don't stay with him. It's crueler to stay with someone you're not that into than to break up with them and let both you and them find someone compatible.
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when you have to chose a guy its not about the way he looks first of all. it also depends on you. Ask your self these questions:
1)which guy are you most comfortable with?
2) which guy's personality matches yours?
3) which guy do you see yourself with?
The guy that you can answer all these quesions with is the guy you should chose. I hope this help good luck!
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Choosing a guy is one of the hardest things to decide on partly because you are certainly not sure if it would be the right guy you picked.
Sometimes we have to consider somethings first before we decide who to choose.
First you have to consider yourself, who makes you happiest the most, who has most of the qualities your dream guy possesses, probably you already have someone in my mind but you are just confused on the other three. You have to think hard, on who you like the most, I know it's hard and very confusing but you have to only choose one.
Second, here is a piece of advice. Choose the one who loves you the most because for sure he won't break your heart. If he already showed this much compassion or feelings towards you then he is already putting his heart at risk. Because since he is already showing this sincerity to you, there is still a possibility for him to be heartbroken but he risks it anyway.
And lastly choose someone who accept you for you, someone that you don't need to change for, someone who would/could change for you. Someone who will accept your flaws and not only like you for your appearance. Choose someone who deserves you.
If you really want to hear my opinion on those four guys, I would've chosen Guy 1.
Reason 1: Guy 2 is one of your brother's best friends and trust me it usually doesn't work out because you have you crush who is one of the close friends of you brother. So what if you got into a fight with your brother, it won't make things easier (just saying)
Reason 2: Guy 4 gets jealous but he still hasn't told you his feelings so technically he doesn't have a right to be jealous.
Reason 3: Guy 3 seems nice but you still have to know him deeper, he has to open up to you and show his real side like what Guy 1 did and besides you also have a crush on his best friend so it's going to make things a lot more difficult.
In the end, you will have to be th eone to make the decision, so good luck!
xoxo
Juliet.
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