im in middle school 7th grade and 13. im a girl. and this guy randomly comes up to me and says " whats your name?" and i said "stephanie" and then he says "well my friend likes you, in the white shirt" and he is cuutee! but i DONT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT HIM, I DONT EVEN HAVE PERIODS WITH HIM! all i know is that he LOVES soccer. and he has a girlfriend. i had never met her but i have seen pictures of her. So weeks go by and everytime i get near him he says "sssttephanieeee!" in a wierd way. and today during drug ed. my friend,nicole sat next to him and he asked "are you friends with stephanie? because i like her a lot." and nicole said "good for you." then he said "does she like me?" and nicole said "you have a girlfriend, you shouldnt be doing those stuff." and he was quiet for a second and said "oh her? my girlfriend? nah, we are over....." and then nicole said then "why dont you take it off from facebook?" and he said "i dont want to right now, but i REALLY like stephanie." and left.
i only know because my best friend told me and i really like him too. but how do i know he is telling the truth on his girlfriend?
and i think he blocked me from facebook because i cant look up his profile.
what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? JKA answered Friday April 15 2011, 10:35 pm: Hey, i'm 13 to and guys have done this befoe to me and my friends. If i were you, i would become his FRIEND only, just for a little while and get to know him. Talk and joke around, if he starts sayign stuff about how he likes you change the subject or say you have to go. Find out from him if he still has a Girl friend or not. If he dosn't and you get to know each other and like him a lot then maybe you guys could become boyfriend and girl friend. but get to know him frist, and maybe ieven talk to his friends about his girl fried things, if you want. But take small steps, rember you can't judge a book by it's cover.
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Julietcapulet answered Friday April 15 2011, 10:31 pm: Wow he must have a lot of courage to admit that he likes you but then again there is no assurance that his feelings are true. Might as well get to know him as friends first so that you can both understand each other more in a deeper level and in which you can discover if he is serious about liking you.
First of all, he has to clear it out if he still has a girl friend or not. If he likes you then why wouldn't he take it off from facebook? If you like somebody you are willing to sacrifice for them.
What you have to do is to find out if he really is sincere about the things he said like if he and his girl friend are really over. Because you can't like someone when you are already committed, right? So you must make sure that they are really over so that there wouldn't be any complications or misunderstandings in the future.
The second thing to do is try to test him, see if he does really like you because a person can never be sure it's true unless proven.
And third, just like what i said earlier try to get to know him as friends :)
Good Luck!
PS. If he really likes you then why would he block you from his profile. Surely there is a reason why he did that and probably it is to hide something from you. But in any case no one knows why so you can also try to find out why he blocked you.
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