Member Since: January 8, 2009
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Last Update: March 30, 2009
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I have a good friend, Annie. Annie's best friend is Ashley, and Ashley never ever leaves her side! In fact, she's unhappy because Annie & I are going to Panama City beach together for spring break and she wasn't invited.
Anyways, my problem is: when ever Annie and I have plans, last minute Ashley seems to have to tag along. Annie will usually say, "Oh, Ashley is spending the night. So is it cool if she comes along too?" Even though we've had these plans for days.
I've tried talking to her, she'll say she's going to fix it but never does. What should I do? (link)
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Give Annie some cool time. Back off a little bit, make her come to you, to the point where she asks ''why havent you been seeing/textin/phoning/emailing me?''
And explain because, everytime I make a plan there has to be 3, and I value our friendship so I was letting you spend some time with her so we can spend time together later or you could say, I was giving you a break and a chance to sort out this mess we are in because I really want to spend some time alone with you, 3 is a crowd, and one person will always feel a little left out, even if they don't admit it.
Good Luck
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my name is oldlugan
i am having a problem to get back into hot mail
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If you have not used the hotmail within a certain period of time (I dont know the exact amount, roughly 4/5 months) it will be deactivated.
If its not working because you cant remember your password/username as its an old account, then click forgot username/password and it will ask you a security questions, or ask you for the alternate email you used when signing up.
Please be a little more specific about why you cant get into your email, and maybe myself and others can help better.
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So, I recently installed the new MSN Live (the ass-ugly one) and none of my friends nor I can get webcams working...
It worked on the previous version of msn, but on then new one it just closes the webcam and says "The session has been ended"
Does anyone know how this can be fixed?
And I have uninstalled and reinstalled MSN.
And my webcam is in my laptop so I can't uninstall that...
Thanks! (link)
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I havent got an answer to be honest, but for a peace of mind, I have EXACTLY the same problem.
Its the MSN Live's error in the creation of the files. See if there is a way to contact MSN, have a look on there website, if enough people complain they will notice the problem and hopefully rectify it.
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(17/f) I have had sex almost 10 times in the past two years. Most recently, I have had it 5 times with my current boyfriend. Out of all the times ive had sex, it never felt good. I knew at first you had to keep doing it for it to start to feel good, but i feel like it should start feeling good by now. I honestly get no enjoyment out of it. Ive tried being on top and bottom, and idk what else to do. I also dont know if i should tell my boyfriend because im kind of embarrassed and i dont want him to feel like its his fault. Any advice at all would be great. (link)
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You will get alot of answers that sound the same to this question, so its best to make your own judgement but...
Sex does take a while to feel good, but also, if it is just ''sex'' and not ''making love'' you may find its because your rushing straight into it without any fun first.
Try teasing each other, a little foreplay to get the mind and body excited, this will ease the tension aswell, the more you think about an orgasm and feeling the good, the less you are likely to feel it, because your body and mind is concentrating to hard.
Try starting off slowly to get a feel for things, maybe take his penis out a few times to make the times it re-enters that little bit more exciting.
Foreplay is definately the answer to these situations. Good luck
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Ok, I haven't told anybody this...
It's hard to even write on the net, even though I
don't know any of you.
Here gos.
When I was 7, my uncle molested me.
I didn't tell anybody because I was ashamed, scared,
embarrassed, the list gos on!
I want something to be done about it.
Now that I'm older, and I could take it if he beat
me up, I've had my share of fights...
Actually, many people's share of fights.
But that's beside that point...
I want him to go to jail or something.
How do I know he isn't out there fuckin' molesting
some other poor soul. I don't want anybody else
to go through what I did.
So, if I told somebody, would they do something
about it, even though it's been years since it
happened??
I need to know, because if it's too late, I don't
want to go to the cops and tell them if they can't
do anything about it.
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Same here.
I want to speak out about it but I know the result, it will break my family into peices.
Also it was when I was 16, and now I am nearly 19, so its quite a big gap, but it has affected my life ever since.
I think its up to you how you go about it, but be VERY careful, because its not simple.
There is alot of law aspects to cover. I think you should talk to someone in confidence first then work from there, either a friend or just someone on the rape crisis help lines, or a child abuse crisis line.
I spoke to a particular person and she gave me two options:
1. Tell the police, make a statement, get him sent down - but this would result in breaking my family in two as my uncle is my mums partners brother.
2. Live with it for now, I am not crying every single day, and I can cope if I think about other things and keep myself busy, and maybe later in life, Ill tell someone, at the moment I know he isnt harming anyone else, I know I was a one off, so I havent got that to worry about.
Its your choice, but make the right one because its not just as simple as ''he molestered me, send him down'' they have to try to find evidence, arrest him and question him etc.
Good luck with whatever you do.
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im 15 and a girl and ive had a quite a heavyblood low the last two days, and im not due on my period for another two weeks, and im on the pill. can you tell me why this has happened please? (link)
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If your sexually active, take a pregnancy test, bleeding/spotting is common in pregnancy.
If your not sexually active, have you missed a pill or two? Because that can cause the period to come a little earlier than expected sometimes.
If the answer is neither of these, go to your local GP, and explain the situation.
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our power recently went out for a week..we just got it back today.
last night, while i was waiting for it to come on..i started messing with the setting's on my phone. and i started to play with the little lock codes..i tried to set one up, but when i did, it said that it was locked..and then it wouldnt let me do anything. it said that the " PUK " was locked..and it would only let me make emergency calls. so i thought that if i took the sim card and the battery out..and then put them back in, then my phone would work again..well it didnt.
now it say's " insert smart chip"
i have the sim card..the battery..everything in it..and where it's suppost to go. does anyone know how to get my phone back to normal..? i'm charging it right now..so would that help..?
thank's so much for you help! (link)
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Basically, you need to insert your sim card again, and when it asks for the PUK code, ring your service provider e.g o2, orange, tmobile, or whoever your sim is connected to, and ask them for the puk code, it may even just give you an option and tell you the PUK code without talking to a real person. I have done this with my phone and it worked instantly.
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Hey listen this is kinda embarrassing but one of my breasts is bigger than the other and droops lower. actually alot bigger, you can't tell when i'm wearing a good bra, but when i'm topless its very visible. i'm 15 years old, and its steadily bee bigger for awhile, so i have to know, will my other one catch up, or is it gonna stay like this? i'm already a 34C (link)
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Completely normal, I am still suffering with that problem & I am almost 19.
Nothing to worry about, your breats will probably grow into a more accurate size for each other, but you will find that 9 times out of 10, you will always have one slightly bigger than the other, and as you said, purchasing the right bra for this removes the problem immediately.
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I am a 35 year old married woman. I just started my job less that 6 mos ago. My boss tells me way too much information. He told me that he wants to "get rid" of another employee. He asked me to spy on her and to inform him when this employee has a visitor in her office. He informed me and another young lady to do things to irritate this other employee so that she will eventually quit. I think this is wrong and I do not agree but I feel like I'm stuck. He gossips way too much. I am there to do my work and I don't have time for this foolishness. By the way, my boss is over 50 years old. I am surprised he behaves this way. I have excused myself from the conversations but this doesn't seem to work. How do I politely excuse myself? (link)
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Unfortunately, you have no choice but to search for another job whilst employed at this job.
Even if the co-worker you have mentioned decides to leave under the strain, who is to say that he won't do it to you, or decide to do it to another co-worker?
You need to decide whats best in the long run, you will be stressing yourself out far too much if you keep heading to work with the same thoughts of, what is he going to do/say today.
I hope you can figure something out.
If their is anyone higher than your boss, like an owner of the site you work on, I would find out what their position is and whether they can take action, and maybe pass them on this information, but be sure to check that the other lady he has been asking to help you, will stick by you and say yes this is the case, he has been asking me to do the same things.
Good Luck. xA-Mx
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Im female 17 and my mom is very very overprotective...I dont go out at all. Only to school, saturday mass with my family, and school related things which arent many. my mom doesnt like me to go out, doesnt let me go out with friends, she even scares my friends away by calling them and insulting them. I do have one good friend though that stands it all...my mom told me not to hang out with her anymore. It really sucks cause Im in my house all day...I feel like im throwing away my youth i dont want to party all night but i want to hang out and have fun with my friends now and then. She even locks the door with a key. I can count all the bad things that i´ve done in my life with one hand. My sisters did some really bad stuff...but thats not my fault...im not like them. Im always quiet and I dont rebel...I dont know how long I can live like this. She lies to me to get me to tell her whatever it is that she wants to hear, she blackmails me, shes created problems for me both with my teachers and my friends...I could go live with my dad, but i know that she would never talk to me again. Im also afraid because of college. She´s always critizing me...everything´s my fault in her eyes...im evil in her eyes she´s told me herself...she doesnt even act like a mom giving sarcasms and harsh critics and just been plain mean.....i´ve thought about suicide...but the people that love me keep me going. Other people i know have done so many bad things and their moms arent like this. Its not my fault that we´re not rich and that she married my dad. I just cant have a day of peace because she has to make me feel like crap at least once a day. please help me i feel like im dying in the inside (link)
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This sounds very much like some problems I had, but your come accross far more serious.
A few first points you could ask yourself are:
1. Have you tried talking to her?
2. Do you think she will listen?
3. If she listens, do you think she will take action against her ways?
4. Could you cope with having a conversation for long enough?
5. Would you tell her everything?
6. Finally..is there any point?
You need to consider all of these, because before speaking to your mother, you need to make sure you feel comfortable about it and that there is some point to it.
If you feel she really will not listen to you, then don't waste your time because it will only upset you further.
If talking to her gets you nowhere, write a letter, human curiosity gets the better of everyone, even if she says she won't read it, she will. And take as long as it takes on the letter, even if it takes days, weeks, months, to fill it out completely.
This is what I suggested to a friend, and it worked well:
If you do not want to write her a letter then get a diary of some form or just a notebook, and on the front write ''your name'''s DIARY. And leave it where you Mum will see it. There is no doubt that once she has seen that writing on the front, she will want to take a sneak peak. Before you put it where she can see it, go a week filling out each day explaining how your feeling and how your Mum is upsetting you.
Hopefully when she reads it she will realise what she does hurts you.
The fact that you are so well behaved, and will listen to your Mum, says it all. She knows this, and she knows that you will listen and won't go astray. So she is playing you by your own personality. Learn to say no to a few things.
I really hope something helps because its horrible to feel like this.
Good Luck x
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Well ever since i was little Ive had depression and anxiety...Ive tried almost every type of antidepressants, anxiety meds and all kinds of therapy, except shock therapy...I've been in inpatient programs three times as well as out patient...no matter what i do and don't do, I'm always soo depressed...not a day goes by that i don't want to die...I'm 19 now, still suffering from horrible panic attacks and suicidal thoughts...i have a boyfriend and i love him so much...and i don't want to live with out him...but my depression and anxiety makes me push him away...and its not him saying it...i no i do it...i just want to be happy...i haven't not wanted to kill myself in over 10 years...Ive tried suicide 6 times and was hospitalized each time...but for some reason nothing is helping me...i don't know what to do...i'm going insane and slowly giving up...Ive tried everything...HELP ME PLEASE!!! (link)
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Reading that made me think I had written it. Its like your typing for everything I'm feeling, and I still feel like this!!
Your welcome to add my email to MSN to help talk, in the hope if we share some problems, we may have different answers. xBabiiAMx@live.co.uk Good luck x
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I just wanted to know whether you think I have mis carried or not.
Me and my partner have been trying to concieve for a while, then 2 days before my period was actually due, I came on with only light bleeding, and it was very light in colour, and quite painful, and only last 3 days?
I have read a few different articles on the internet and it seems that what I suffered was a miscarriage.
Whats your opinion? Heres some facts:
1. My period is always on time, never late or early,
2 . Always lasts at least 6 days
3 . Normally very heavy
4 . Normally pain free.
Please help me figure out whether a miscarriage was the case, it does say on a few websites, that many women mistake it to just be a period, but with the symptoms so similar, I beg to differ that its a period. Thank you in advance. (link)
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OKAY.
Thank you everyone for your answers, I would like to let u all know that you can rule out pregnancy, I have taken multiple tests, and all say negative. I'm 99% sure I'm not pregnant.
So what other chances is there?
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