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She never leaves her side!
I have a good friend, Annie. Annie's best friend is Ashley, and Ashley never ever leaves her side! In fact, she's unhappy because Annie & I are going to Panama City beach together for spring break and she wasn't invited.
Anyways, my problem is: when ever Annie and I have plans, last minute Ashley seems to have to tag along. Annie will usually say, "Oh, Ashley is spending the night. So is it cool if she comes along too?" Even though we've had these plans for days.
I've tried talking to her, she'll say she's going to fix it but never does. What should I do?
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Give Annie some cool time. Back off a little bit, make her come to you, to the point where she asks ''why havent you been seeing/textin/phoning/emailing me?''
And explain because, everytime I make a plan there has to be 3, and I value our friendship so I was letting you spend some time with her so we can spend time together later or you could say, I was giving you a break and a chance to sort out this mess we are in because I really want to spend some time alone with you, 3 is a crowd, and one person will always feel a little left out, even if they don't admit it.
Good Luck
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Maybe Annie doesn't want to hurt Ashley's feelings. Have you asked her this? If Annie is afraid of hurting Ashley's feelings then maybe you could help her find a way to tell Ashley without hurting her feelings. I don't know the whole story of you 3 so I won't offer any more advice than this but feel free to e-mail me a bout it later if you need more help.
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