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why isnt sex feeling good?
(17/f) I have had sex almost 10 times in the past two years. Most recently, I have had it 5 times with my current boyfriend. Out of all the times ive had sex, it never felt good. I knew at first you had to keep doing it for it to start to feel good, but i feel like it should start feeling good by now. I honestly get no enjoyment out of it. Ive tried being on top and bottom, and idk what else to do. I also dont know if i should tell my boyfriend because im kind of embarrassed and i dont want him to feel like its his fault. Any advice at all would be great.
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In order for your boyfriend help you feel the enjoyment that should be there he has to know that what you both are doing isn't working. He won't feel like it's all his fault if you expain that the things you try aren't working either. Learning what your body enjoys is going to take more than a few tries. This is something you will need to learn together. Try not to rush yourself focus on him what he is trying to make you feel. Think of what he would enjoy. Sometimes focusing on what your doing to and for him will make it more enjoyable for you.
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You will get alot of answers that sound the same to this question, so its best to make your own judgement but...
Sex does take a while to feel good, but also, if it is just ''sex'' and not ''making love'' you may find its because your rushing straight into it without any fun first.
Try teasing each other, a little foreplay to get the mind and body excited, this will ease the tension aswell, the more you think about an orgasm and feeling the good, the less you are likely to feel it, because your body and mind is concentrating to hard.
Try starting off slowly to get a feel for things, maybe take his penis out a few times to make the times it re-enters that little bit more exciting.
Foreplay is definately the answer to these situations. Good luck
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