hey everyone! i am 17 and a senior in highschool. i live in alabama! i am a member of clearview baptist church and i am a christian! if you have any questions about my faith, IM me and i will be glad to talk to you about what i believe... i love going to church, hanging out with friends, the computer/internet, singing, and just having fun!
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My GPA is a 4.1 something, and I am very proud. But this semester, I'm taking an AP class and it's extremely difficult. I don't know if I can even pass and I'm getting worried. Please answer the following questions:
1) Is getting a D bad?
2) Is failing one class bad?
I know that I'm not aiming for a D nor an F, but I'm just wondering. Please don't be mean or discouraging, yet be honest, too...=(
-Highschooler (link)
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i think that if you try hard enough.. most likely you will not get a D or an F. usually that means you put forth no effort whatsoever. but if you are trying your best, you will make the grade you deserve. and you will have the satisfaction of knowing you did your best.
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I have 2 kids no husband. I have made alot of mistakes in the past escpecially being premiscuous. I have compltly turned my life around now. Is it too late for or will God forgive me and except me into Heaven. Please someone who belives in God or is a Pastor or something help me. (link)
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it is ever too late to ask God for forgiveness. just tell him that you believe that he sent his one and only son to die for your sins, and that he was raised from the dead on the 3rd day and that you know you are a sinner and you want him to forgive you and that you want him to come into your life, and he will glady do that. then find a church home somewhere near you so that they can help you grow in Him.
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My best friend just passed away :-[. she was only 13 and she died of cystic fybrosis. i miss her soo much! we have been best friends since the day we met .. when we were 3! every night i cry myself to sleep because i miss her so much! She passed away last week. PLEASE HELP ME! what can i do to keep her with me and what can i do to make me get over the fact that im never gonna see her again!? thanks a lot .. (link)
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hey samie,
i lost a good friend from cancer when i was about 11 or 12... i know how you feel and i know that it's hard... just remember the good times you had together and that'll hopefully make you smile... be happy b/c she doesn't have to go through the pain of cystic fybrosis anymore... all you can do is keep her memories close to your heart and use this situation as a way to grow stronger!! God, your family, and your friends will help you through this... if you need anything, IM me or email me... *stay strong*
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OK I am a little young but please take this seriously! My best guy friend, he's 13, his dad died today. He has a heart attack =( well I know he probably doesn't want to talk to me yet but how can I comfort him. I really don't know how to appraoch him. I might write hima letter tellign him how much he means to me and how special hsi dad was... is that a good start? Any ideas.... I want to make this as easy as I can for him. Thanks for your time. (link)
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my dad died when i was 13, so i know how he feels... yes, it is a sensitie subject to talk to him about, but in time he will want to talk about it more, i promise... but to send him a card or a note and say how much he means to you and that you are thinking about him means alot, although you may not know what to say, just a simple way of letting him know that he is in your thoughts and prayers can say so much... *hope i helped*
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Hey Ash, you know me.
Well the problem is throughout the past few years I've liked all these different girls and I try really hard but they never seem to like me back or I don't get them in time. The girls who usually like me are ok but are most of the time fat,younger,or have some weird,bad flaw and I don't want to set my standards at that. I feel I'm a pretty good looking guy, but sometimes at the wrong place (prodominently white school) to get girls for me. Tomorrow I feel is my last chance to talk to this senior cheerleader, but I'm not sure if she has a boyfriend or anything but I tried to get somebody to give her a note today (they forgot) I still have the note and all. So what I'm asking is what should I do to get the girls that I want and also what can I do to maybe get this girl tomorrow.
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well, this is a tough one... i guess all i can really tell you is to be yourself and be sincere, and girls will be more likely to like you than if you try to do something to impress them or someting like that... if you do that, i think you will find more girls that truely like you for you and not just like the "character that you're playing"... you'll find a girl that you like and that likes you back, i'm sure of it.. just be patient
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Theres this guy that i like. All his friends thinks he likes me and i think he does too. But hes real shy about it and wont admit. Well last night his friend invited us all over and a couple of my girl friends came over. The guy i like lives right up the street and they called him to come over but he never showed. Then today he was supposed to come to a party but he never showed either but his friends went. Does this mean he doesnt want to see me or what? (link)
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don't take it so personally... maybe he had other plans.. and maybe he just didn't feel like coming, it may not have anything to do with you... maybe you're just overreacting, find out the details before you think that
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I'm never really sure what to say to the question "I love your shoes! Where did you get them?" or any other clothing item because I really don't want to say anything to incriminate me. The popular kids will laugh if you answer anything like "target", "payless shoe store", or some other department store, and the kids that I'm friends with call me stupid if I tell them that I bought them at Hollister. What is a generic answer that I can say that will satisfy everyone? (link)
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ok, first of all... why worry about what other people think, i think i've said this 10 million times... too many people worry about what other people think about them to focus on what really matters... if someone thinks your shoes are cute, then they will still be cute whether you got them from target or hollister... so just smile and answer their question and be confident about it, don't worry about what they think, because 10 years from now, that won't matter at all
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;;well for starters.. i think i might like my best guy friend. We get along so well &&__ could honestly talk for hours on end. He's always there when i need a laugh or just a hug. However___ he does drugs.. & drinks. but not all the time, but to the point where it gets out of hand at times.. :-( i really am stuck. All my friends think he likes me. but he always babbles on about this girl from arrowhead, but his friends say he does that just to make me jealous.. {i would really love your opinions..}
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ok, if you really like him, tell him... and if you don't want him to get hurt, then help him with his drug problem... ask him to do something with you and friends that you know don't do that instead of going with his friends that do that...
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ok so im 13 im 5,3. im not fat but i think i have big thighs my mum says i dont but im really self consious of it. but whats really bugging me is the stretch marks on them they look horrible i no you can get cream and things but i dont think my mum would let me. can anyone give me advice??????????????????? (link)
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get up and do something! exercise, something! if you are self conscious, only you can do something about it! run around your neighborhood or run on a treadmill... and don't take this in an offensive way, i don't mean it like that, but i just thought that it was common sense that if you werent happy with your weight or whatever that you needed to exercise and change your eating habits...
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So, I'm in 8th grade (im a girl) and recently I geuss I have begun to be really good friends with a 5th grader (boy) (i go to a SMALL Catholic school in the middle of no where). Now I like him much more than a friend, but i dont know if it's wrong to like him more, or what i can do about it?. (link)
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ok, i think that age doesn't matter so much say, when you're older, but right now, that may be too big of an age difference b/c you are probably on two different maturity levels... i guess it just depends how on how mature you think he may be and whether or not you think that is on your level... i guess the ultimate decision is yours
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Okay, two friends Brooke and Anne. Anne likes Eddie, and Eddie likes Brooke, and Brooke and Anne and me are great freinds. Thing is, all Anne ever does is talk about Eddie, and when Brooke and Anne and Eddie are online in a little "buddy chat" Eddie will say that Anne is pretty, and funny, and then outside of the "buddychat" he will i/m (instant message) Brooke and say, "she's not pretty, She's not funny" its so horrible. Now, all Anne says is that she really likes Eddie, but Eddie likes Brooke. All the time she talks about him, and she always asks questions like, do I look okay, and do you really think he likes me? and I always say yes, but its like I have two people telling me things, one through each ear. Anyways, heres the huge part, Anne and Eddie are going to be working together this summer, as life guards. And, so Anne thinks she has a shot with him. Now, two nights ago, Eddie and Brooke went to the movies, and they made out. Anne would NEVER make out with anyone. But Brooke wont go past that. I know this is really confusing, but they both come to me about it. And Anne and her boyfriend recently broke up, so Brooke and me think thats why she likes Eddie, because its the first guy that she thought of after they broke up. At first, the first time i had heard of Eddie was through Brooke, she was going to bring him to six flags with me and My boyfriend. But now Anne likes him. and she says that he asked her out in 6th grade but she said she had to think about it. last weekend, Brooke, Anne and I went to a movie, and Eddie was there, and Brooke was very social, and was striking up and conversation, and Anne wasnt, she just said hi, and was asking me if she looked okay. So I dont know what to do any more.
Any sugestions? Brooke and I know we have to tell Anne, but we have dropped every hint, and I even told her that we think its because her and her boyfriend broke up, and that she should stop liking him. she asked me the other day what I did when i liked a guy that didnt like me back, and i said just move on, and i told her that was the story of my life, until now, i have a great boyfriend, and Brooke and Anne both wish they had a guy like him- we've been together over 15 months!- anyways, and i toled her it was pretty much the story if every other girls life too!
Help Please!
I Know you guys hate these types of questions!
Sorry, I tried to make it as least confusing as possible, but it is confusing enough to live.
Thank you guys so much in advance!!
-KeLsA-
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if it matters, I will rate and leave feedback! :)
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hey kelsa,
the best thing to do is be honest with anne... just tell her that eddie likes Brooke and not her.. sometimes the truth hurts... i don't mean to be so blunt, but sometimes you've just gotta do what you gotta do
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What is the biggest beauty secret? (link)
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there are no beauty secrets... this world worries too much about how they look and what peopler think of them... if you just be a good person and be yourself, then your inner beauty will shine through and make you more beautiful than any beauty secret ever could
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Im in chorus at my school. I love singing and the class is sooo fun..my teacher is the best and i love singing at concerts. We just did The Phantom of the Opera and it was fun! I know that sounds corny but i really like it. I love being on stage. Well we had to sing for the graduates this yr and i felt embarrassed. We had to wear these lame chorus shirts and blue skirts. Everyone was laughing or snickering why we were singing..i felt soo embarrassed. All my friends make fun of me and im tired of it. Should i just quit chorus or what? (link)
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ok here's the thing: if you really love it, then you shouldn't care what other people say or do about it... most people miss out on so much b/c they worry too much about what others think about them
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my parents yell at eachother soo much its caused me to start cutting...i dont want my friends to know...so if anyone ask im gonna say my cat did it...i wanna stop but it feels like i desever(cant spell) the pain...ive thought about killing myself but that will make my parents more crazy (link)
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you don't deserve any pain no matter what... it won't help to put yourself through any amount of pain b/c that won't make it better or make the bad things go away... and killing yourself isn't the answer to any problem... i don't know if anyone has ever told you about jesus and what he did for you... but he died on the cross for you and took away all your sins, and paid the price for you so that you don't have to... he will give you peace beyond your understanding, and the thoughts of suicide or cuttng yourself won't cross your mind if he is in your life... he is my everything and my reason for living... if you have any questions about it IM me or email me and i will be happy to help you and talk to you about it...
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this is driving me crazy...all my friends have bf's besides me..yet im not the prettiest girl in the world..but every where i go someone says something about their bf's or how they hate being single..and i am 15 and never had a bf...can someone help me? (link)
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having a b/f isn't as great as it looks... you think you want one, but the case is for most girls, you just end up liking the thought of having a boyfriend better than actually having one... as for being 15 and never had a b/f... don't worry, your chance will come... you will find a boy that doesn't care whether you're the prettiest girl in the world or not, he'll like you for you... so don't let it get you down that all your friends have b/f's and you don't... it'll be fine *hope i helped* :)
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There's this guy @ school, Derek, who I'm friends with, and I've known him for a few years.. and I've been in love with him for the past 2 years. School just ended, and I just can't comprehend the thought that I won't see him again for another 3 months. The thought of it makes me nauseus, and I get depressed. Last night I cried myself to sleep because I missed Derek so much.. and school just ended yesterday. He doesnt have a cell fone, but I have his house #. I wanna call him, but I don't wanna sound dumb. Ive never called him before, and he doesnt have my number. I dont know what to do.. I just really wanna see him, or atleast talk to him. I'm going to go crazy this summer if I dont. What should I do? Btw im really shy :/ (link)
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go for it! call him... most people miss out b/c they are afriad to say how they feel.. you've got to overcome your shyness and just talk to him, you'll feel better if you do
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I was going out with this boy for 2 months and I decided it was best we brake up and stay friends but when I broke up with him I thought he was going to doit and the same day we broke up he got together with his ex.When I found out I fell and started crying I still do cry about it when something reminds me of him I really want to stop and move on but I still see him at school and all I want to do it get with him again but I don't know what to do I miss him so much and I still care about him as much as I try to find a reason to hate him.Please help!!! (link)
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my advice would be to move on.... there are so many other guys out there who you will like just as much or more... you may think that your heart has broken and will never be fixed, but you're still young and have plenty of time to find that special someone... hang out with your friends to get your mind off of the situation and eventually you will meet someone else who will make you forget about him.
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Today at lunch we had these chicken nuggets in a gravy kinda sauce.It was really messy and I went to eat one and my so called friend shoved it in my mouth.It was all over my face and I got so pissed off at her.I kept saying to her` that was really mean, i would never do anything like that to you` I mean how could she do something so cruel to someone who is her friend?! We always get in arguments, but sometimes she can be nice. I can never get her to apoligize though, even when she does the damage I end up apoligizing.It makes me feel weak that I gotta give into her, so what should I do? She makes it seem like I'm being overly sensitive but a while back she could have done anything to me and I wouldn't of cared.I'm just sick of being treated the way she treats me... (link)
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i've had a friend that is in the same position as you... she was being pushed around and she just finally got sick and tired of it... there may be a reason behind that though, she might be insecure with herself or may be having problems and she takes it out in the wrong ways, or she may just want attention. .. talk to her about it and tell her that you don't appreciate it when she pushes you around and that you wanted to be treated with respect. *good luck* :)
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hi, i'm chloe
This boy asked me to go out with him as in be in a girlfriend, boyfriend thing. I wanted to say yes but said no instead because, I wasn't sure I knew how to be someones girlfriend and would like more to go out on a couple of dates with him than start a relationship. But my friend had set the whole "asking me out thing" up, so I'd have a boyfriend and is now saying "he's probably the only boy who'll ever like you" which is making me regret doing it.But I'll look stupid if I ask him out now plus he's being a bit out of order to me at the moment. What should I do? (link)
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you don't have to "know" how to be someone's girlfriend... just be yourself... if you feel comfortable going on a few dates with him first so that you can get to know him better, tell him that . i doubt that he will be the only guy that will ever like you... there's plenty of great guys out there that you'll meet that will like you... but just tell him that you want to get to know him better and then once you're more comfortable being around him, he will probably get the hint. *hope i helped* :)
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okay thers this guy i like alot alot alot!! and i think he might know.. but im not sure... well we were talking online and we got along so well!! and then i talked to him on the phone for a little bit (maybe like 5-10mins) and he seemed sorta mad/iritated/tired...so i told im id talk to him later... but then i called him the next night and he never answered... i saw him in calss and he completly ignored me!! i was like ummm hello?! so i was really upset!! well i like him a lot and i have no idea what i should do to make him think of me as a really good friend/ girlfriend... any tips?? and also how can i keep him interested??
*he broke up with his girlfriend of eight months in like dec i think... so hes gettng over an ex (possibly)
but please help me out on this!! despreatly need help!! thanks!!
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it might help to tell him that you like him,.... maybe he wasn't trying to ignore you on purpose or didn't realize that he was doing it... just talk to him and see what's up... hope i helped :)
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