*tasha*'s

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ok my bestfriends is always in trouble and i cant go see my boyfriend with out her like i can but shes like i dont want any1 meeting him cz their related..right but i was supposed to go see him friday but now she juss called and said she may be moving bcz she juss screwed up with her mom ONCE AGAIN!!..i rly need to see him tho...should i go without her or juss wait cz i kno shes totally grounded 4 halloween!

Hey!If hes YOUR boyfriend then I think that you should go...you dont ALwAYS need your friend their holdin your hand while you guys are together..I'd make sure it was ok with my friend and if it was I'd go see him. GOOD LUCK!

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Does it look okay to leave part of your hair down and the front half pulled back in a bun?

Hey! Yeah I wear my hair like that sometimes...I think it looks cute.I have bangs that go kinda off in from of my eye so i just brush em back over my right eye and Its fast adn easy too!! Good luck!

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Theres this girl at my church who also goes to my school. No one sits with her at lunch, and im absolutly sure she doesnt have any friends. She might have some problems, im not sure. (Mentally)
Thing is i know my friends would make fun of her because she looks different. Its eatting away at me everyday to think i could be making her life better. i rate. *Megz*

Hey!I think that you should try to talk and hang out w/ her. Thats cool that your thinkin about it! I had to do that once. Well i didn't have to but i did. There was this girl and she dressed differently and her hair wasn't always the nicest and all that...but I sat w/ her at lunch and hung out w/ her on breaks. She was pretty cool and I think i made her feel a whole lot better! So I def. think you should do it. GOOD LUCK THO! And if you do do it remember your making someones life a whole lot better by giving her a friend..

:x:o: Tasha

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hey, what i meant by how did u make the layout i meant how did u get in so that the info on you is in the right corner and theres boxes in the top left with your things like ask question and stuff like that! thats what i wanted to know... is that better?
-ashli

p.s ill give u a GREAT rating once you answer me!

Hey!You go to Column Settings (left side column under "profile settings"...and then theres a bunch of stuff that says like "ur layout" or SOMETHING like that. It says like "my space" and "plain boxes" or something like that. Click preview on the side of each one and on the one you WANT click USE. Thats how i did it adn I used "my space" or w/e its called. GOOD LUCK! sry if its confusin...its hard to explain. :-/.

xOXo tasha

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Hi well I already have a boyfriend but I bumpped into this other guy and he is so hot but I don't want to break up with my boyfriend.
I don't want to break his heart!!
THe other boy likes me and we talk but if My boyfriend found out I'd break his heart!
what do I do???!!! plz don't erase this because I need total help!!

hun you need to choose. its not fair to either of them if you jsut go on like this. if you like the other guy then break up w/ ur bf. it'd break his heart more if you didnt and still liked the other guy. GOOD LUCK!!

xOXo tasha

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do people really like stick gerbils or animals in thier buttholes?

hey! i've never heard about that...but i bet sick people do.lol no offense to them but i think thats nasty...sry ic ouldn't help more.

xOXo tasha

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When I was 12 years old, I was raped, and became pregnant. I never told my daughter how she was conceived. She is 13 years old, and I just found out that she's pregnant. Her boyfriend's father kicked him out of his house as a result. Abortion is out of the question. We have to decide whether my daughter and her boyfriend will raise the baby themselves or allow me to adopt the child. So I have three questions.

1. How do I tell my daughter the truth about how she was conceived?

2. Should I allow her boyfriend to move in with us, and if so, is it okay to make them sleep in seperate rooms? (His only other option is to move out of the country with his mother.)

3. Do you think it would be better for my daughter to raise her child or should I adopt the baby? (I was unable to have any other children.)

Sorry so long, but any advice would be appreciated.

Hey!That is a hard decision but I think that you and your daughter should raise the baby TOGETHER w/ the father. Liek you should help ya kno since she's so young. Definetely make them sleep in dif. rooms. But i DEFINETELY think you should have the father move in cuz he helped make the baby and your daughter is so young and he needs to help! GOOD LUCK! tell me how it works out :)

xOXo tasha

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Okay, I'm gonna obviously make my own decision about this, but I'm curious as to what y'all think. I'm 16/f, if you wanna know.
My boyfriend and I have been...experimenting lately. In the beginning of the relationship, we'd both said that we weren't into oral, but all of a sudden he wants to...y'know, give it a try. I mean, he wants to try it on me. I originally refused because I thought it would kind of obligate me to give it to him, but he said that wasn't the case. (I'm really, honestly not into it, and I always feel like he does more for me than I do for him.)
Also, the thought of kissing him afterwards kind of...bothers me...
Should I let him or not? I mean, it's kind of an...interesting...idea, but nngh - I dunno. What d'you think?

I think that you should just do what you feel seriously. If your curious then I think you should give it a try. You might like it! And if you don't then tell him and just don't do it again.But don't feel pressured into doin anythang you dont wanna. GOOD LUCK! anymore ?'s just ask!!!!!!

xOXo tasha

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My 12 year old cousin is going through puberty. She has always been a tomboy and she's disgusted with the whole process. To make matters worse she is developing rapidly (she's already a C-cup), and she started her period. She is normally a very happy person, but has become very depressed. She wears layered clothes and big sweatshirts, in the summer, to hide the changes of her body. Is there anything I can say or do to make her transition any easier?

(I've already tried telling her that it's normal and all girls go through it, but that didn't help.)

Tell her that just because she's developign and stuff doesn't mean she has to change herself. Who cares if she has breast and stuff...its cuz shes becoming a woman and tell her she shoudl be proud. My sister is 11 and shes goin through the same exact thing and shes also a tomboy. Tell her that she'll get used to it and it won't be so bad. Also tell her to be proud of what she has,i bet a lot of girls will be jealous of her when she gets older!! Good luck! sry ic ouldn't help more :(. byebye

{any more ?'s just im me or drop one in the inbox}

xOXo tasha

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okay.. whats the difference in making out.. and french kissing and normal kissing? sorry... but i honestly dont know..

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Hey!Thats not a bad question...Well normal kissing is no tongue. and french kissing is kinda like makeing out but you are all calm and stuff. Makeing out is when you are all touchy and your totally into it. Like you got the tongue and ya got the touchy hands. Usually your sitting down or...laying down.lol but you can do it standin up too. Hope i helped. Any more questions just drop one in my inbox!!

xOXo tasha

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well i really liked the advice you gave me but i mean i get flirty but im not until a while i mean right now hes interested in me but how do i keep him interested idk what kind of things to talk about i mean things dnt even come to mind but i wana keep conversation with him so he'll want to talk to me god i get so confused sometimes i just don't wana mess up because i have plenty of times

Hmm..to keep a convo goin just talk about yourselves or what you did that day..or people. You can always talk about people!Or sports too.Guys love talkin about they're fav. football team...(or w/e sport they are into). So just keep it simple. Also when you get to know him a lot more talk about the love lifes. See if he has a gf or if he has his eye on anyone special. That'll help ya out alot! So yea...just do ANYTHING to keep him interested,it may be hard but it'll be worth it when the two of you are goin out ;). lol. Talk to ya later. hope it helps. if ya wanna talk more im me on aim!! tashaisamazing...thats my sn. THANKS for ur question. hope it works out!!

xOXo tasha.... {tell me the outcome ;)}

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i'm in 8th grade and ive been best friends with my next door neighbor since i was in 2nd grade. hes in 9th grade now, and he moved to another neighborhood in our same town..and since last year, ive had a crush on him...and he just moved like 3 months ago, and i never wanted to go out with him when he was my neighbor cause i thought that would be weird. our families are best friends, and now that they have moved and we are still really close, would it be weird to go out with him now?

NO!!Its so cool that you like ur best friend.Those seem to work out hte best in relationships. Don't go to fast tho...just tell him you like him now as MORE than a friend!! He probaly likes you too!!GOOD LUCK! (tell me how it works out :) )

xOXo tasha

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Well I met this guy we'll call him "S" and i started talking to him online about a week or so ago i met him through a friend of mine and i recently hung out with him about 5 days ago and I'm really into him but i feel like its too quick and i don't want to tell him and scare him off... i've been through some tough times with guys and i don't want to screw things up i don't know what to do and sometimes i feel i can't keep up conversation with him what do i do to get him to maybe look into me as maybe more than a friend i broke up with one of his friends about a month and a half ago too which is also weird i mean when we hung out it was obvoius we wer flirting a lot but i want a guy that won't use me for just ass i feel stupid what should i do? it seems i always find myself getting hurt

Hey!Take is sloooooow.Just wait. Flirt w/ him let him kno ya like him.BUT DONT TELL HIM! Its like a game...i kno boys dont like em but oh well.In this case ithink ya should just flirt and stuff.Wait till like amonth before letting your feelings loose cuz i do think its kinda soon.To hold a conversation just dont be shy! Talk about whatever comes to your mind. Guys like girls that aren't shy...well most do. And like thats how i get my guys. If i have to burp i will. lol and if i like a rap song when they like rock i still sing it.Just be yourself and who cares what they think.They'll get it and start to figure out that your not a high maintenance girl and he'll probaly start to see you as MORE than a friend!!!GOOD LUCK!tel me what happens!!

xOXo tasha!

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can u tell me how you made you layout like you did? cuz i like it and want mine like that.. please tell me!

-ashli

Hey Ashli!I just put the backgrounds in where it says like "url for your background" or sometihn like that! And I put colors in front of it that I thought would match and look good.So I'm really sorry I couldn't explain it better :(. IM me or email me so i can explain it better. I didn't get to look at the editing page before i answered it so i was answering it off memory.
:-/ ...BUT GOOD LUCK! I hope i helped a little and if it was only a little then email me :).. byby!

xOXo tasha

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hi every one......im Tripp...and im in a band...and we REALLY suck ass....we practice like every day and shit...but we still suck like really bad....so if u know n e thing else we could do....tell me.

Hey!Just practice.Everyone sucks at first.Just settle down and don't work on to many things at once. Slow down,find one thing to do at a time, and practice it until you get it right. GOOD LUCK!

xOXo tasha

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There is this guy that I REALLY like a lot, he's my friend and all and he said that he would hook up with me and he's hooked up with my other friend before and it meant nothing to him, I'm afraid of hooking up with him in case I get my hopes too high just to have them crash and burn. I really like this guy but I am afraid of getting hurt because it will mean nothing to him if I hook up with him and I really don't like that fact. PLEASE HELP!

Hey!If you mean "hook up" as in do stuff w/ him and then it won't mean anything then I definetely think that you should not do it!Cuz thats like giving up part of you!(thats if u had sex) but then hes just using you!!!So do whats right ;)

xOXo tasha |[tell me what happends!:)]|

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ok.. one of my best friends uncle died last nite we were all really close with him but they were like really close n shes talkin about killing herself wut do i say to her to help her try n stop trying to kill herself? help i rate high

Hey!I've dealed w/ this SO many times!Tell her how so many people will miss her!tell her how if she does do it she won't go to heaven and then that'll suck for her!Also tell her if she kills herself she'll make a bunch of people feel how she feels about her uncle dyin and they'll wanna kill THEMSELVES!So its like a chain!!GOOD LUCK!

{tell me what happends!}xOXo tasha

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Sorry I am thinknig about my life a lot today .. and well my bestest friend i love her to death but i see on like peoples profiles that omg teresa your my bestest friend and i feel like that i'm off duty of being her friend and i always tell her that and she assures me that no youre my bestest bestest bestest friend ever but then i feel like she is repalcing me with everyone else and she is always talknig about her other friends and stuff but sometimes she is prefectly fine like dana omg your like my bestest bestest friend ever but ever since she broke up with her boyfriend now like every guy is her friend and i feel like I'm the old friend getting thrown out .. somehow i don't believe her when she says i'm the most important person in her life ... like we never gety in fights so i dunno if she would cry over me i fel like testing her .. helpppp

Hey!I went through the SAME EXACT THING!But my friend is one year older than me but the same thing happend. I told my friend and i CRIED about it for like ever! Till this day she acts like she doesn't even care!!!But I moved on..the hard thing is also that SHE IS MY COUSIN. So just tell her how you feel. I think she'll care. GOOD LUCK!

xOXo tasha

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im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl....

Hey!At the beginning of this year I went out w/ a 7th grader!And I'm a 8th grader.He was hott and nice too!He was a awesome boyfriend but he went to a dif. school.So if you really like him then who gives a crap about what "they" think! If you have a good relationship w/ him they'll probaly be jealous.lol. SO good luck!!do what your heart tells ya too!

xOXo tasha

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-okay i am 14 years old and i have a b/f that 15 years old nut see i kno this guy that 21 years old he really nice fun to be around and we did stuff with each otha and i like him and all and he says he likes me too and stuff . . . i dont kno what i should do becuz i like both of them but it like the 21 year old it like betta plus he can drive and he very sweet and i get to go to colleges party while i am at it and he got hott firend and i hook up with the 21 year old all the time my parnts even kno i like hima dn he likes me they dont care what should id o who should i pikc \???????

Hey its your choice.Pick who YOU like more. If it was me..i'd pick the 15. Because the 21-year-old would probaly wanna have sex and stuff and me personally is not ready and I'm 14 too. I'll be 15 in oct. GOOD LUCK THO!Just pick who you want!Not who other people want for you...

xOXo tasha

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