I am married w/2 girls 21 & 16. My oldest doesnt ever come around and I am told that is my fault. My husband calls me names, disables my car, when I can leave he shows up so I go back again. I recently had my 3rd back surgery, cant find a job, and am pathetic to my family so my girls go to his mother even on Mother`s Day!..I just want to fall asleep and die but do not know how to do it. I have tried, so need to know what/how many do I need to take?...NOT 1 PERSON would care if I wasnt around. dont judge I get enough of that
Do you belive in the miracles of Christ. Have you ever prayed about your situations, when you are alone, just talk to god, he hear you. Pray for the angels of healing and angels of peace to surround you , ask that the lord rescue you and reign peace in your life. Because you need peace, you need to know you are a besutiful person, Tell satan to let go of your health, give back control of your, Pray that you will heal and be able to have control of your life. Im gonna be praying for you.Keep your bible open on psalms 23 read Lord is my sheppard everyday, just say it even if your husband dont like it, because ig he try to interrupt you, God will make him or break him. He need to stop hurting you,, and start loving you. He need to be your husband and not be your enemy. Tell him everything he is putting you through the good lord will hit him harder where it hurts, remind him that you love him , and that he not gonna be blessed for how he treat you. Because karma is a bad thing. He will have to answer only to God for vevetything, call your pastor or call a prayer hotline, have your pastor to come see you amd he bless your home, and he pray for you. Prayer is a powerful tool, prayer changes things.So focus on the rescue for your life. It will happen.
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I am married for 3.5 years. My husband thinks i dont deserve him. I am too inferior too him. He is a doctorate nd i am only a diploma holder. Nd moreover he thinks i am dumb which probably i am. He married me under family pressure nd now asks me to leave him. I come from a very orthodox family ehich doesnt accepts divorced ladies. I love my husband a lot nd dont want to leave him. But he is not happy with me. So i dont know what to do. Please advice. I am 26 years old.
Girl move on wit your life, live for you, go back to school get a degree and shove everything he ever said to you back in his face, As for your family, talk directly to your minister and request to rededicate yourself to your religion, if not join another type of religion , because they not a god loving religion if they do not not ever accept you back into their synagouge, you get a divorce, move foward, start living your life for you, pray and pray that God will guide you to the right people, matter of fact start allowing the lord above to be closer in your life. Trust me everything will turn out in your favor, you will shime. So move forward, Make preparations to reshape the course of your life, everything will be fine.
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We done great together gor 2 yrs. Now im being treated as a child. Cut off fro ALL money. Put down constantly as he thinks im incapable of even talking. Fight fight fight. I dont think i can take another dark path. We decided i would be a stay at home mom. Now im interested in nothing. I just miss my son. I dont rub it in his face. He hurts too. But i would never say hurtful things to him. He NEVER did. Now every time i open my mouth its wrong. How can i make him c im trying and i love him more than ever.
Sound like your husband is cheating on you. Woman for heaven sake realize you are a beautiful human being, you are a queen, get yourself together, stop trying to live for your pathetic man you call as your husband, he is a sad excuse of a man, stop trying to prove how you feel for him, the death of your son was suppose to draw you both closer,but he is acting like an ass, The best thing and the best way to hurt him, is leave, get a divorce and get on with your life. You dont need his money, contact legal aid and tell them you want to get a divorce you dont have anymoney, they can probably allow you to file for a divorce with little money. Also if you got access to a computer go online to http://www.goodwill.com on their site Goodwill have classes you can take for free, Goodwill even have a good program that can help you prepare for a jpb. Better yet,go to Google look up Allison Course, the classes are free, I recieved a certification through their program you only have to pay for your certificate once you complete your studies, your husband dont have know about your plans, let him keep thinking you all the things he think you are, make him eat all those words simpily by making him look like the smaller person. You hold the key to you destiny, start avting like you dont see him,start fixing your hair,start wearing makeup get a new hair color, the main thing to do is pray, Tell God whats going on in your marriage alkow him the Almighty heavenly Father take chsrge of your life. Everyday when your husband not around open the book to psalms 23 revite it. My grandma say sprinkling salt on the floor , and wearing red peppers in your shoes will keep problems far away for you. Everyday say things like Lord Bring me peace, Lord restore my life, Lord bless me with a job, lord bless me with a job, Say these things over and over again. Watch what will happen, Because God dont like ugly.
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He likes to have control over everything. This morning I asked if he wanted me to wash his pants. He didn't respond so I asked again.In return he said I told u no. I said no you didn't say anything. So he got mad and started yelling at me. I'm driving him to work and I asked did u want to stop at a store. He looks at me and says ain't it obvious. In return I said I don't know what you want to do.I can't read mind s and I never assume I ask. He turned and said just take me to work. I'm just agreeing with what you suggest. I'm like what I never made a suggestion I just needed to know what next. We got to an argument over that. When I have company he sits in my friend's conversations. But when he has company he tells me and my kids to to our room. If we come out we get into a big argument. We really have to stay in our room until he says we can come out. Sometimes it's for 8hours no exaggeration. I have a bucket in my room to use for the bathroom. We eat when he decided to let us eat. He has hit me on three different occasions. I told him I don't like him and he said he was moving with his mom. So I took him and I told him he will never see us again. The next day he was at my door asking for forgiveness but I don't feel like he's going to change. He still act's the same way. But now he says he don't give a fuck about anything I do.
Why you stoop to his level, You bring all that drama to yourself, you need to focus on being a mom to your children, learn to gain control in your own life and stop allowing men like THAT in your life. You are a grown woman, so really you dont need a man to rule your life and ruin it at the same time. You need to apoligize to your chikdren and tell.them as of today , nobody will hurt you or them ever again, change your locks on your doors. Get a restrain order on your boyfriend, also talk to your landlord and let him know you have been having issues with a boyfriend, have him or her to type a letter stating that nobody is allowed to live in your apartment unless that tenant pays the same ammount of o money monthly on the rent. Plus talk to a police officer have him to do a routine ride throgh or even have him to make random visit , just in case you feel uncomfortable about your boyfriend lurking around near your property. Make sure your family know whats going on with you. Buy a gun get a license to carry the gun, take lessons on how to shoot a gun, take self defense courses, these classes will teach how to protect yourself in case of an attack. Take cintrol of your life, havevyour plans in action and prepare to move forward with your head high, and dont back down on nobody not even your sorry azz boyfriend.
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My mom and dad divorced 2 years ago and she has been in a relationship with this guy for 10 months. He was always kind of off but I never thought he would actually hurt my mom. He has bipolar depression, drinks a lot, and does drugs. My mom is an alcoholic and when she drinks, he beats her. These 2 people lived with them and they told me about what he does. He would drag her by her hair across the floor, he would throw bottles of liquor at her, he also smacks, kicks, punches, and grabs her. She would stay the night at his house over the weekends and her room had no bed, she would have to sleep on the floor like a dog. Everytime she would try to sleep, he would bang on her door until she finally let him in and then he'd hit her. She has pictures of the bruises and cuts.
He is also verbally abusive and calls her names like bitch, fat, ugly, whore, and c*nt. He uses her for her money and once she gives him what he wants he kicks her out of the house and calls her multiple names.
She is "too in love" to tell the police. She is afraid he will hate her.
My dad, siblings, the 2 people who live with them, and I went to the police to report it and they said nothing can be done unless she files a report. We are trying to help her with her drinking and she won't let us do that and just says to take her back to him. She also says she deserves to be smacked. I really have no clue what to do. I really need help. I don't like seeing my mom like this.
You need to talk to somebody. Talk to the police chief, he can give you afvice on what to do, also get other people invilved, because thats your mom, call a hotline for domestic violence, and convince your mother to file a police report, because if she dont this jerk will continue to hurt her and it coukd result into tragedy.
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My fiancée is amazing or so i thought i fought him texting girls saying he wanted to fuck them and be with them but at the same time he said to them i love my woman tho ill never leave her what should i do we been together for three years hes talked to everyone with a vagina lol im sad lonely and wanna die i know he wont cheat but i cant get over the hurt he wont even admit to talking to anyone idk what to do i love him
Go find you a new man, he will be a problem down the line.
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A few months ago I started to talk to a guy online and we were talking about having a relationship. About a month ago I abruptly stopped talking to him because I was slightly suspicious if he was legit. A week later, I was alone at my house when a man rang my doorbell and when no one answered, started to look in the windows. He didn't have a car with him. Yesterday, a car stopped in front of my house for at least two minutes. I don't know if I should report this because I'm a teen and I'm pretty scared.
yez report this to the oolice. Also you can have him blocked and reported online. anytime you have an issue like this notify the police immediatly, also let your friends and family know whsts going on with you. Never go anywhere alone, you need friends with ypu. Always tell people where you going. Give them phone numbers where you can be reached, because stalkers are dangerous, some die as a result. Just protect yourself at all cost.
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