Member Since: September 15, 2014
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Last Update: September 21, 2014
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Hey I'm a 14 year old girl and I feel like such a loser. I'm just so different from all of my classmates. They like to pretend that they don't care, and that they're too cool for things, and stuff like that so it makes me feel stupid when I get enthusiastic or excited about something. I also watch sci fi shows and read too many books and excel in science and history class. I correct the teacher a lot and go into long winded explanations because I get excited about the subject. I apologize too much even when I didn't do anything. I write poems that I never show anyone because not even my own mother would understand my depressed inner thoughts. And to top it all off, I have a dreadful case of social anxiety, so I replay and disect conversations in my head until my thoughts about how stupid I am eat me alive. How can I fix myself? What's even wrong with me? (link)
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oh wow, I think ive just found my twin. Im exactly the same way, and neither of us are losers. theres nothing wrong with you, you seem like a very bright girl. i can totally understand where youre coming from, as I am 13 and have the exact same issues at my school, feeling like I dont fit in. but honestly, dont worry about it. youre not a loser, youre just different from those kids, youre smart and youre into different things, who cares? flaunt it girl! Most of your classmates are probably the most boring people you will ever meet, but, you on the other hand seem very interesting. trust me, you do not want to be like them. Im in the exact same position as you are, but I stay myself. I dont try to be someone Im not. if other people dont like it, its their loss, not mine. I correct people all the time, I watch Pokemon and Adventure time, I wear way more makeup than all the other kids, I read fanfiction and Im just overall a weird kid,and oh dont even get me started on the social anxiety. but, Ive found friends who accept my weirdness and you will too. maybe talk to people you normally wouldnt talk to, you might have something in common? Id say youre way cooler than those other kids in your class, so theres absolutely no need to fix yourself, because youre fine just the way you are.. Xx
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My name's Melisa im 15 and my best friend jose is 16. We have been friends for seven years and im starting to like him. Last year i told him and he didnt feel the same way. Now i really like him and he always holds my hand, we walk each other to class and we always make each other laugh. Im confused weather he likes me or not. We are really close and cant go on without each other. Does he like me? Im afraid to ask him because i dont want to get rejected again. (link)
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I think you should be honest with him, really tell him how you feel. You don't even have to tell him that you have feelings for him, but just that your'e confused as to whether or not he likes you. even if you do get turned down. at least you'll know, right? as others have said, he may be homosexual and doesn't know it yet, or is afraid to come out.
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