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when do you ovulate? i have a very irregular period, is it before the white stuff comes out of you or after........is after the stuff comes out then you can become pregnant really easy or before ? (link)
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you usually ovulate right after you get your period like 10 days long
but if you plan on having sex and your period is regular wait to have sex right before your period it is the safest time.
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ok....this is hard to talk about but im going to try to get it out best i can.im in college, and i really like this guy( ill call him rob) for a while. we never hooked up or anything, but talked dont the phone here and there.sometimes he use to joke around about things he wanted to do with me sexually,but i always just thought he was kidding because we were kinda friends.so this one day, i was really drunk and he called me to come over to his apartment. i was so excite because i really like him and he alwasy told me what a great girl i was and how he liked me alot. i thought one day he was really gunna get serious with me. Anyway, i went there and he told me he wanted me to listen to some song in his room, i went in and when i did his roomate was in ther and i kind aheard him tell him to leave, then he left rob locked the door. i started to get nervous because i wasnt really expeting to hook up with im or have sex, but i just went with it because i was so drunk. we end up starting to hook up and then it just got bad. we started to have sex, which was ok with me because i thought he really like me and it was going to be so great.it ended up be the most hurtful thing i have ever gone through, pyshcially and emotionally. he was having sex with me really rough, and it hurt really bad, i was very drunk but i managed to say your hurting me, so he would stop, but then he would just do the same thing again. he was throwing me around the bed like a rag doll, and i was crying inside.i said stop it hurts, but he took that as "stop for a sec then start again" this went on for a good 20 mintues till i fianlly made up some excuse to leave.when i left i cried the entire way home. i got home and i had bruises bewtween my legs already.i was so hurt because i though he like me and he treated me so terribly....but what i always wanted to know was...is that considered rape or something close to it???sorry so long, i just pushed it out of my mind for song long becauseit really screwed me up in the head to the point i cant trust guys anymore and talk of sex with a guy totally scares me...advice please what do you think??im i blowing this out of poportion? because i didnt exactly say or scream stop like i was being raped....i dunno please advice (link)
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omg im sooo sorry it would be considered rape because even if you are under the influence and u do have sex if you say stop at anytime then he has to stop. even if he did stop for a second and then start back up again you shouldnt be treated like that. o my gosh my stomach just dropped reading this i feel so bad that you had to go through this being throughn around like a rag doll. there are plenty of anonomous hot lines that you can call and ask and tell your story too. i really hope everything get better for you.
write back if you need anything.
love Brittany
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Are girls scared of erections? I mean if you're making out and they feel one, would they be freaked out? (link)
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no, i mean we might be like ewww acting like its gross but joking but actually think, " man! i must be doing sumthing right! lol"
hope it helps ask again (im always on)
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Hey girl! You seem really cool but anyways
ok i have a boyfriend im 14 and he recently
asked me to have sex with him. I REALLY want to (not to sound like a slut or anything) but i dont want him to go on and tell everybody and stuff i want to wait til summer though what
should i do, and since you are around my age (i think) i want to know what you would do in this situation
x0Lindsey
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thanx you so much! i added you as my favorite if ever check! i think i can really help on this topic it was never new for me so i have expirence ok...
lindsey, you have to first and foremost be able to hadle the emotions of having sex. because there are so many risks involved. i have had family and friends who went through this. tell your boyfriend seriously but not to scare him that you love and you trust your relasionship enough to have sex and that he needs to know that this is you and your boyfriends choice not his friends and no one else. but you have to realize that he might tell his friends which is normal trust me. you just have to trust him to tell people who wont tell others (if you break up most likely he will tell other people, and then chances are you will be called a slut but thats normal and most people our age are having sex protected and unprotected dont worry it will blow over.) so if i were you i would tell him what i told you about what to say and make sure he wont ditch you after you give him yourself.
BTW how long have you been going out with him? might make it easier to answer
TELL ME HOW IT WORKS OUT {you can email me i have AIM its all on my page (email adress and AIM!)
stay safe
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my boyfriend and i have been together for a very long time, we've talked about it, and we're ready to have sex. the thing is, we both think its disrespectful to do it at eachother's houses (especially because we always have people home) so where is a nice, romantic, PRIVATE, place to go... where we won't get caught? i honestly cant think of anything. be serious. and thanks. (link)
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maybe a hotel thats would be the best idea but if you dont want to spend money u would have to do it at one of your houses but you said you didnt want to do it at eachothers houses because you thought that is disreaspectful. so then you would have to do it at a friends which wouldnt be a good idea because then you would be seen as a slut or using your friend. remeber its a rollar coster of emotions and i hope your able to control them because it makes everything more of a risk.
stay safe ask again im always on
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i want to have sex for the first time. what are some procosions to take. and does it hurt? i also heard that you bleed your first time is this true? thank you i rate well. (link)
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make sure you are ready emotionally, because sex is a rolar coaster of emotions. so make sure you feel safe and that you trust this person with your life because they could be risking your future. and it does bleed for girls and it most likely will hurt. so just think to yourself if you r ready at this point in your life to become mature and have sex.
tell me how it works out
luv britt
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Is it possible to be suicidal, but to not have attempted suicide...? (link)
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yes because it means that you thinking of attempting suicide. which means you r distressed or haveing a really hard time. friends r the best to talk to about it first so go to them. they r always there for you.
tell me how it works out
luv britt
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Does anyone have some questions like:
"If a person with split persionalities thretened suicide, whould that be considered a hostage situation?"
anyone got those?
my friends and me love to talk about that wierd stuff!!
Thanks In Advance!
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yea me and my friends are like that to. we walk to 711 with oranges on the way and through them at eachother just because we are so random like that. but for your question chances are you can just want for him to switch to one of the other personatilies somewhere in him and by chance i dout they want to comit suicide.
{ask again if u need anything im on always!!!}
luv britt
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hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm 13 going on 14 in a couple of months, and i belive i have met "the one" and he wants to um finger me, and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it behing my parents back, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my mom is the one whos conserned my dad doesn't care. i've already talk to them about it, have you ever got fingered of done ti to someone? if not then how old were you when you did it, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate! (link)
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you ask your parents these kinda things. im 13 and i never ask my parents these kinda things i think you should keep it quiet because i dont really know one person who asks or tells there parents things like this.
hope it helps stay safe!!!
luv Britt
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im 16 and my bf popped my cherry while fingereing me about 3 days ago and its still bleeding a little is that normal? if so how long does it take for the bleeding usually to stop? (link)
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yea it is totally normal. even though i am a virgin i know. it is probley that it is leaking still. so it should go away soon.
stay safe
luv Britt
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if you had the opportunity to have sex with someone you weren't dating but have hooked up with a lot over the past few months would you? i guess im just wondering because everyone says sex is supposed to be a "special" thing you share with someone you love. I think i'm ready but i'm not even dating the guy let alone love him-so if i think he is the right guy to have sex with is he worth the risk? My friend told me, "if you like him don't do it, if you don't like him then go for it"
also on a side note-if you were my friend would you lose respect for me if i made the decision to have sex?
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is he the one you think you would give yourself to. because if he isnt than dont because if i were your friend i would think you were a whore. im srry i bet you didnt want to hear that but do it for the right reasons
hope it works out stay safe
Luv Britt
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