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Hey Y'all! I'm Jessica. I'm 16 and a Junior in high school. I found this site and thought that since I usually give pretty good advice, I figured I'd try to help other people. I hope I can help y'all.advice
Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :)
It's supposed to hurt and not everyone bleeds their first time.
yesterday i had sex with mi bf.we have had sex b4 but we hadnt ad sex in about 3 months.he is quite big.it hurt when he entered me and after we finished the condom has split and the end had came off n gone inside me,im not worried about bein pregnant because i am on the pill but this mornin i went to the toilet and the condom came out and i was bleedin like it was mi period.i had mi period like a week ago so i dnt no y this is happenin.please can someone explain this too me.thanx.
I don't think you should worry, at least not yet. Most likely, he just stretched you + maybe tore you a bit. It should be fine, especially since the condom came out. IF the bleeding DOESN'T stop, then I think you should go and see a doctor.
ok my friend thinks she may be pregnant because her stomach is really warm, and the smell of food makes her sick and shes ALWAYS hungry. She has had her period but shes still scared and she also told me she is taking a depression medication called lortex (i think) and she doesnt know if its because of that or if shes prgnant and shes too scared to ask her parents! Please help asap! Thanks!
Has she had sex? Then there might just be a chance she's pregnant. Why not go to the store and buy a pregnancy test...then she'll know for sure.
ok well lately ive really had the urge to have sex. im a female and gonna be 15 soon and i know its too early but i dont know what to do. i dont even know how to have sex but ive been having dreams about it and everything. i dont want to be a slut! please help
It's normal to have these urges, but that doesn't mean that you need to act on them. Don't have sex just because you might be horny. If you don't have moral/religious issues about it, you could masturbate instead.
hey well i'm really nervous about the first time i have sex. im nervous about becoming pregnant, like if the condom breaks. so i was wondering if its wrong/weird for the guy to wear 2 condoms (one on top of the other)... is that really pathetic? i know im supposed to use lube but i'm still scared so could i make him wear 2 just in case?
No! Do NOT EVER make the guy wear two. Two isn't better...two is worse. It will make the condoms tear and will lead to a much bigger chance of the condom breaking. And, sweetie...if you are THAT nervous about having sex, maybe you shouldn't take that step yet.
I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think..
You are nuts. Have you even been around kids at all? I have two nieces that are under five that I have taken care of since they were born. Taking care of kids isn't an easy thing. How in the hell are you going to provide for this child? You needs thousands of dollars just to DELIVER a baby. Think about how much it's going to cost for all the pre-natal and neo-natal care, not to mention providing for this child for the rest of its life! And, kids aren't all fun and games. You have dirty diapers and being up all night with them and not having any freedom. You need a serious reality check. Oh yeah...GUYS LIE.
Ok! Well I have to go to the doctor tuesday with my mom to get birth control. Im just really stressing out about the papsmear. I shave down there and Im not sure whether or not I want my mom in the room when they do that. They also have to ask you if your sexually active and I really dont want my mom knowing all that either! Any info, advice, etc.?
Your mom does NOT have to be in the room with you. You can ask her yourself not to be in the room or else get the nurse to. If you are worried about what she'll think, just explain to her that this appointment is embarrassing enough - you don't want her in there as well, adding to the embarrassment. I'm sure she'll understand.
please dont delete this question..id really like 2 kno. well im a freshman in high school and ive been having my period since the middle of my 7th grade year. my friend told me that she had discharge before her period but then it stopped. i still have discharge. is there something wrong?
A little discharge is okay. But, if it's *really* bad ((like it makes your undies soaked)) or you are just fed up with it, go to a gyno. I went for that + other things and she prescribed birth control. It helped both my cysts and the discharge.
what are sex bracelets
Sex bracelets are those little jelly bracelets of every color. Some kids think that they are *sex bracelets*. Personally, I think that they are just bracelets. But, these sex bracelets are said to mean something...like if you break one you have to do a certain act to someone.
hey. how long does the pleasure last when ur having sex? i hope it lasts longer then masterbating cuz the pleasure only lasts lyk 15 seconds when i masturbate. i rate high!
The length of your orgasm depends completely upon you and the guy/girl you are with. But, sex itself should be pleasurable. You should enjoy the entire thing, not just the orgasm.
I've been with this guy for 3 years and were really close and I am ready to have sex. So is he. My parents know what we are planning on doing and they don't really care. We are going to use a condom and everything, I just wanted to know if it hurts or what it feels like. Also do u think I'm too young? 13/f.
Hold up...your parents know that you and your guy are planning to have sex, and they're OKAY with it? That in itself is crazy. But, my opinion, you are way too young. You will regret it later on.
Sorry... this is a sex question and there are somewhat graphic content. Not really bad but if you're young, you might not want to read this. Please only OLDER columnists answer this. I don't want advice from an inexperienced 13-14 year old. Someone who knows what I'm going through would help. And so... here's my question....
Hey, I'm 14/f and my boyfriend is 16. Yesterday I was at his house and we were doing sexual things and then I told him to go get a condom. (he uses them normally for self pleasure so it doesn't get anywhere...) So he went upstairs and got it but when he came back down I was crying. I don't know why I was crying. I really feel like I'm ready to have sex with him. We've been together for 2 years and we love eachother very much. It's weird though, I know that I'm physically and emotionally ready to do it it's just that, whenever we are about to, I get scared. Is this normal? Can anyone help me out?
PS- I'm a virgin and so is my boyfriend and we both want to lose our virginity to eachother.
I'm sixteen and my guy's almost nineteen. We were both virgins until about five or six months ago. We realized that we really love each other and want to spend forever together. I didn't get emotional the first time, but I have after that. I don't know why, but I think that I was just overcome with emotion. You are a girl, after all, and all girls are known to be emotional at times. Don't freak out, it's normal.
This may be kinda long, but I need to ask someone. I just started taking birth control pills 3 weeks ago. I think I may be pregnant but, I havent missed my next scheduled period. Since I just started taking the pill, that messes up my cycle for this month. I have other signs of possibly being pregnant. Being on my pills the nurse told me I should be getting my period around the 13th of this month. My boyfriend and I are very sexually active..in fact every night. I know we shouldnt do it, but it is unprotected each time. Is there a way that I could find out now if I could be pregnant..like take a pregnancy test tomorrow and find out? Im really nervous and want to know if I am now. I need to know what to do soon. Thanks.
In order to be accurate, you have to wait at least 19 to 21 days to use an at-home pregnancy test. I'm not going to preach to you about not using a condom...I've done the same thing myself and I know that stuff does happen. But, you do have to wait and ideally it should be AFTER your missed period. Try to wait it out to get accurate results.
can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old?
Besides being totally immoral, it's against the law. It's called statutory rape. The 18 year old is considered an adult, while the 13 year old is still a child. Even if you both are willing to be together, the law considers the 13 year old too young to make responsible decisions. If this is a personal question that is happening to you, think about this: Why is a 18 year old considering going out with a 13 year old? Why can't this person be with someone closer to his/her age?