about

The first impression one may get without speaking to me is that I'm the stereotypical girl in today's society. I am anything, but the typical wordly girl. From past experiences, I have come to a realization in my life that nothing will fullfill your life, except God. Throughout these times, I have grown up quite fast and act on my future, not my present. In life, I follow the direction that most people tend to forget. Many people are oblivious to the importance of life. Coming from a less-than-picture-perfect side of life, I try to correct my life and set a purpose for myself. Through the many disappointments I've encountered in my life, I steer away from being a "victim" from my past. Thus, being a stronger, wiser, & more independent person. I live the clean life, and don't fall to anything other. I am learning to be comfortable in my own skin. I have made a commitment, to live a life of purity and with a self image that is based upon God's design.



There's a time in your life when you realize that everything in your life was a test to predict your future. I've held bitterness to a lot of situations, but have come to realize, that forgiveness is what shapes an individual to be a better person. I may have been hurt & disappointed by many, but I still continue to pray for those. I still care about them. I can't hate anyone because that's not who I am. Hearts have been broken, tears have been shed, but you realize what you wanted and hoped for, wasn't meant to be; it wasn't how your life was planned. A simple clich�???????????�??????????�?????????�????????�???????�??????�?????�????�???�??�?�© : I do forgive, but I don't forget.



I find myself learning to deal with constant criticism. Many people find ways to think and say negative things, but none of it soaks it. I strive to be a better & more independent person each and every day. One of my main focus' in life is to show girls, you can be sexy, but classy, and have morals and high standards at the same time. I love and life for God, anyone who disapproves of my beliefs will only be ignored. People tend to find trust in me quite quick because I'm genuine, and hide nothing. I accept my imperfections, which therefore, guides me through life on an easier route. This is me, and everything is sincere.




Other than that, I have a fiesty & protective personality when I feel I am being provoked or judged. I immediately put up a wall. My first approach is "kill them with kindness", but if it continues, I'm a spitfire. I am very protective over my family & friends. I do anything I can to protect them. Typically with guys, I find it hard to get along with. I'm not the girl who loves to flirt and see how many hook-up's I can get. I don't need it to boost my self-esteem, I get enough attention without. Anyone who isn't aquainted with maturity, will annoy me to death. I'm a fun girl - don't get me wrong, but I'm wise beyond my years. I'm at the point where I feel I have already fullfilled my teenage years, and I'm ready for "The Real World". Life isn't a competition; it is not a popularity contest, or a game to see how many people find you attractive. It's a priveledge God gives you, that many take advantage of.









advice

do guys like it better when you like shave tha sides of your vegina and leave a pubic hair strip down the middle, or shave it all?

no one can actually answer this question with the right answer but whatever you are comforable with hun. dont change yourself just for a guy

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what is cyber sex and is it fun and is it bad to do cuz someone told me that i should try it and someone els told me not so should i or not

cyber sex is like talking about the sexual deeds that you would usually do but not really doing it just saying it by words over the internet. i personally dont reccomend it.
♥ carmen

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is there a cure for pubic lice?

yeah there its its basically the same for head lice. but try shaving the hair down there as well as giving yourself treatment && i deff think that would help.
♥ carmen

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Whats the best way for a guy to masturbate? (that doesnt involve buying anything)

basically just using his hands is they best way to do it. ♥ carmen

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ok im 13/f and ive never done anything bad but last night me and my boyfriend did a lot of stuff..it felt really gooa at the time but today i dont feel good..is something wrong with me?

no im sure its perfectly normal && im sure you have alot on your head after last nite cuz it was your first time with that stuff.
♥ carmen

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in order to qet tested for STD's.. do you have to have your parents know ? my mom would totally like freak if she thouqht i was doinq anythinq sexual.. ive been w| my boyfriend 9 months.. i wouldnt have intercourse now but.. maybe oral & i want my boyfriend to qet tested. please help, i rate hiqh !! 14\f

just go to planned parenthood and ask for a test. its simple. && no they wont contact your parents its confidential. hope i helped! ♥ carmen

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okay if someone has a std could you get it by just making out?? or what if they have one on there mouth can you that way? or what if they just have one below can you still?? ill rate fives with acuarte answers...thanks!

well you most likely could get an std if they had sores in or on the outside of their mouths and yes even below you can still get them which is another great reason to use more protection while being sexually active. hope i helped. =)* carmen

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okay i no this sounds really dumb but what do these 'jobs' mean i know a few but im confused and i need to know what they are like blow job, finger job, etc

well a blow job is when you suck a guys dick.

im not sure on a "finger job" but i think you mean fingering which is when i guy puts his fingers inside of you..

hope i helped. and btw. no question is stupid =)* carmen

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uMm...i saw my friend make a move on my bf..what do i do ?

confront her friends dont do tht.

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This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex?

there is actually no rite age to start as long as u feel ready then u will kno ur tyme is rite ok sweetie.

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