Hi, Im Sarah and Im 24 and Im married to a wonderful man! Together we have 3 kids together the first one was an "accident" as I was still in high school when I was 17. But she is now 7 and her name is Ashley Marie. Then I have a little boy who is 11 months and his name is Corey Logan. Then I am expecting the third in about a month!!! She is suppost to be a girl so her name will be Kelsey Anne. I graduated college from The University of Tennasee. I am a gymnastics coach and own 3 gyms. Then as a side job I train horses for all events. I got married on May 21, 2007!!! If you ever need help I can answer most any question... I am a been there done that type of person! I've learned from alot of mistakes too.
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Hai,
My name is lina, i just newly married last year Aug, one year ready. Ihave not consive yet, when i checked with my doctor, they took my blood test together with my husband, my test all normal ,but my husband has very poor sperm quality.
They ask me to do some procedure which will cost 17K ICSI. We can't effort.
Kindly advise whether my husband can take any tablets or traditional way to make sperm active.
Thank you. (link)
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Im, very sorry to hear that, you may want to see if there is a supplement or something out there, Im not sure what you can do because I am assuming you do not live in the US because I am not sure what ICSI is. You may want to talk with another doctor and get another oppinion on it, and talk about your other options, if there is nothing else you can do you might want to consider looking to adopt, those children always need parents too :) Again, Im sorry I cant help very much and sorry for your husband I hope you can find something.
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I'm a female & 15.
I wanna try to tease my boyfriend and get him hard, but I don't really seem to know what to do. I have given him a lapdance before and I could feel his hard penis on my ass as I was giving him a lapdance but I don't feel like giving him another one :). I also play with his jeans close to where his penis is but I'm not completely sure if he's turned on or not.
Well, my question is, what can I do to turn him on and get him hard without oral or actual sex.
Thanks in advance! (link)
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First off I have to say be careful teasing him if you don't want to have any type of sex, but kissing him on the neck and possibly bighting him gently some while rubbing your hands up and down his back... Also you could always play the what if game that usually gets them going... But it depends on the guy talk to him and see what he likes.
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do guys not liek it when ur silent during sex?or do they prefer you to be loud? (link)
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Obviously if someone is around you are not going to be making loud noises, but if someone is around you can always make quieter soft moans, but most guys do like to hear you make noise because it makes them feel like that are doing their job, and it will turn them on more.
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What are some hot sexy things I could whisper to my boyfriend when fooling around in the goal to turn him on and make him wanttt me? (link)
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Most guys, think that you being straight foreward with them is sexy like I know that with my hubby that if I walk up to him and am like guess what baby? Im really turned on. Things like that....you could always ask your guy what he likes best, because if you cant talk about it why should you be doing it? But thats how I found out what my man likes was by asking him.
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me and my boyfriend have had sex like 5 times and i havent told my mom but she wants to take me to the gyno just to get on birth controll. if ur under the age of 18 do the gynos tell your parents if ur not a virgin? (link)
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No they are not allowed to tell them if you ask them not too. They can only share things with your parents that are harmful to you. If they were to tell one of your parents they can get in a lot of trouble because there are certain rules and things that they have to follow as a doctor.
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almost 16/f please read whole thing before answering:
I have only had boyfriends. I have had many times. I don't find men attractive. I think they usually have something about their faces that make them unattractive. I look at s a lot more than I look at boys. I love the feeling of a man's arms around me and I like to cuddle with them and stuff. BUT: I don't enjoy it doesn't do anything for me and I giving head/handjobs and stuff. Male genitals do not turn me on at all. I would much rather m@sturbate with my vibe. I also like being eaten out.
As a young child I was only attracted to men. At age 12/13 I started to notice s and I would develop crushes on them. By the time I hit 15 i was completely turned on by the idea of s3x with a woman. That is what i think about when i m@st. Does this make me bis3xual? (link)
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You could be bisexual, and it is nothing to be ashamed of. Or it could be what turns you one most... maybe you should try and get with some girls and experience what its like to be a lesbian, and then see which you prefer. If you like the touch of a women better you might be just a lesbian, or if you acctually get with a woman and do not like the experience and just like fantasizing then you are probally just straight, and then also if you are enjoying both then you are most likely bisexual!
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when people say something like how long a guy lasted what does that meen?
and also what does it meen when a girl tells you that they couldnt have sex because he couldnt get hard , cause my friend was telling me oh yeah we tried having sex but he couldnt get hard so we didnt (link)
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Well in most cases how long a guy lasts is usually how long that he kept the erection or (stayed hard)
What your friend is saying is that he couldn't get an erection (couldn't get hard) In order to have sex the guy has to have an erection, if a guy does not get an erection there can be several reasons why he couldn't.... some are simple like he just wasn't in the mood enough or some can be unknown until visiting a doctor.
*Also Im not sure of how old you are, but considereing the questions you asked Im pretty sure you are younger, but in my oppinion, your friend probally shouldn't be having sex or attempting too.... Maybe if you are close enough you should talk to her and tell her that she should wait until she is older and in a more stable relationship.... warn her about things like getting pregnant, and STD's and STI's. But if she insists on having sex, then you might consider making sure she remembers to be safe!!! She may not like it now but she will appriciate it later in life! Sorry that dosen't go along with your questions but it kind of conserned me.
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i got fingered by my loving boyfriend and we both had total consent but i feel guilty and so does he a slight bit, but we both loved it. what do i do to feel better and im feel more guilty than he does.
but what can he do also ? (link)
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Well, it depends why you feel guilty I guess, if it's because of religion or something you can always ask for forgivness....If it's not than you just have to learn to forgive yourself, and tell yourself that it was ok and nothing is going to happen because of it. It is enjoyable but if the enjoyment only last during then it is probally a sign that you are not ready to take your relationship to this level, and keep working together to build a stronger relationship, but if you have guilt than there is no reason to continue doing this because the more you do it the more guilty you will feel.
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I'd really appreciate answers from people who have actually BEEN pregnant, or are a nurse or something along those lines.
I'm not trying to say that other people don't know what they're talking about. I just need a REAL straightfoward answer, that isn't a bunch of myths.
Okay, I don't want to hear 'OMG YOUR SO STUPID!' Or any kind of lecturing. I know what I did was stupid, and irresposible. But, my and my boyfriend of 3 years recently had sex, it wasn't out first time together but it was our first time without a condom, and I'm scared I may have gotten pregnant. What I'm asking is simple:
What are the first signs of pregnancy, and when do they start? I can't rely on my period as one of them, bc that's irregular as it is. (link)
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Hey, the signs can be different for everyone.... I think I had one that was the same between all 3 of my kids. With all of them I started noticing things like my eating habbits changing and having headaches, about 2 and a half 3 weeks. I had morning sickness with 2 of them, different cravings for food with them, but I did have cravings with all. My mood started to change and I could be in a great mood then on the drop of a pin I would be being nasty to anyone in sight with my first. I started feeling more tired especially with the last two.... Most of this was in the first few months. Hope this helps, if you need anything feel free!
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my mom told me that when she had first had sex it didnt hurt her cause a woman need to be pleasured before
well Im a virgin and I have done almost everything except of course intercourse...been eating out or fingered
well if you can tone me in ladys on a scale one-ten what was the pain like for you 10 being really painful like cant bare it get off of me pain to five being I can deal with it w.e and 1 being no pain at all
I have a feeling Im going to start having sex soon and I really would like to prepare myself for it even though I know that its different for everyone (link)
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It is different for everyone, and for me it hurt a little but it wasnt bad, I think it was because I was scared lol, but after you relax it gets better, dont be tense, the pain was like a 4 probally. Dont worry about it though after the pain its fun ;p but remember to be careful!
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Okay, so I’ve kinda lied about my sexual experience. Not just to one person, but to everyone I know. When I was 14, some of my friends started losing their virginity. And I didn’t want to be the odd one out, so there was this guy that they knew I liked, and he was moving. So I told them (untruthfully) that I had sex with him the night before he left. They didn’t have his number or anything so I knew they wouldn’t ask him. Anyway, so all my friends thought I wasn’t a virgin anymore. And whenever people would ask me I’d always say I wasn’t, usually because I was with my friends.
Now I’m 17 and I’m still a virgin. I’ve just never had a boyfriend that I was serious enough with to have sex with him. Well now, I’m really serious with my boyfriend and I’m totally into him, and given the chance I would definitely have sex with him. We’ve come very close a couple times, but I was drunk so he wouldn’t go through with it. The problem is he thinks I’m not a virgin, but I am.
I’m afraid that I’m not gonna know what to do when the time comes that we actually do have sex. I mean, if he knew it was my first time, I wouldn’t be so worried, but he’s probably gonna expect that I know what I’m doing, and he’s not a virgin so he’s gonna know.
I don’t want him or anyone else to know that I lied about it, so I need to find a way to make it work so that he doesn’t know I’m a virgin. I know I might bleed and that’ll give it away, but if he says anything about that then I know I’ll just say something like he’s bigger than the last guy I had sex with. So anyway my questions are: (they may be dumb but bear with me)
1. What should I do with my hands while he’s actually thrusting? Like what’s gonna be the hottest for him?
2. Should I kiss him during?
3. Should I give him a blowjob first?
4. How do I subtly let him know that I want him to lead? (most important) Because if he’s leading, that’ll probably take the pressure off me a little bit.
5. I’ve heard that sometimes the guy doesn’t fit…how do I make sure that doesn’t happen to me?
Please don’t give me any of that lecture “if you’re not ready…” stuff. I’ve been ready for a long time I just haven’t had the right guy.
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I really think the best thing for you to do would be to tell him the truth, but I cant make that decision for you. You can always run your fingers through his hair, and run them up and down his back slowly, and yes you usually do kiss a guy during sex. I know some guys like them first and use them as a type of foreplay and others want them last... depends on the guy and what they like. You can always tell him that you love it when a guy takes control they usually love that and that is a way to let him know to lead. Im pretty sure you dont have to worry about not fitting.... that would be very rare, but make sure you are relawxed when he goes in and not tense, I dont know if you do or not but you may want to try masterbating with a vibrator, or a bananna, or cucumber, or something of that shape, it will help stretch you out so it wont hurt as bad the first time, and will help you not to bleed as much.. and may make you not bleed at all depending on how big he is. But good luck , and remember to be safe ;)
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last night i had sex with my boyfriend and for the first time in like three weeks. I'm almost positive that he wouldn't cheat on me but i guess i don't know i'm really confused and kinda scared. Sorry for graphicness but i was pleasuring him orally and i felt these weird little things on him.. and i was just like what ever which was stupid but yeah. Now i have them on the opening around my holes and they burn... they look kinda like little taste buds or something.. is this an std or what? (link)
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Go to the doctor ASAP!!! The faster you get to the doctor the better!! I dont know how long you have been together but he may have or may not have slept with someone else, he could have gotten them from another girl before you two were together, and they could just now be showing up for him or they could have been there and gone away and are comming back now for him but just because you just noticed it dosent mean that he cheated on you either but he might have cant answer that question. But I really hope its not a STD the best of luck to you!
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13/f
this might be in the wrong category, but 4give me if it is.
so i had my first period like a month ago or something like that. and i know, your supposed to get a period every month. but itsz like 30-40 days now and i still didnt get it. well ive been feeling rather horny after mii first period and started to masturbate like everyday. but nothing else. is my period just irregular or could it be something else? any advice would be very much appreciated. thankx! (link)
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Theres nothing wrong with you! Its just that you have only had one and its not regular. Mine was always all over the place until I was put on birth control but you dont need that yet. It could be a couple months before you get your next one.
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Hey guys
I went to planned parenthood the other day and they told me i should be taking my pills for about a week until they work. Does this mean it's okay to be taking the pills for 2 weeks (or a little more) and to have sex? I won't get pregnant right? well of course with birth control theres always a risk but i mean, the pills will be working by then right?
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You should be safe to go ahead and have sex. Since I am not sure which pill you are taking I cannot say for sure but if the people at planned parenthood said to wait a week after taking it than im sure if it has been a week or more than you should be fine!
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Okay... I've been off the shot for nearly six months. I had sex unprotetcted over last weekend and I'm wondering if its possible that I'm pregnant. I think it is but im not too sure. My sister said it took her nearly a year and a half to get pregnant, as well as my sister in-law. My other sister that was on the shot is having a problems trying to get pregnant. Do you think I am or What? Im confused~! (link)
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You could be or you could not be, the safest thing to do is wait like a week and then go take like 2 or more of store bought tests, because they are not always accurate.
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i had oral sex with my boy friend and i swallowed his sperm,does swallowed sperm get one pregnant. (link)
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There is no way that it can get you pregnant. You are safe if you are doing this. Just make sure if you get cum on your hand or he does and then immediatly put it into your vagina, there is a small chance that you could get pregnant from that.
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okay so im 14 and most of my friends hav gotten fingered, eaten out, gave hjs and bjs, but ive only made out... like its just not my style. i only like to really makeout if i like the person.i just dont know when im ready to give a hj or bjor anything related to that. any advice/opinions would be great :] (link)
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In my oppinion 14 is too young to be doing anything besides making out. You are a very strong person to be not getting into these actions, once you start them it is very hard to quite them. I think that you need to keep it this way, you will know when it is time for you to go farther, to me you aren't going to be in a very serious relasionship at this point of your life. Also if you are starting these actions now, it might get out that you are easy, a slut..... and so on, I dont know how big of a deal it was then but, I made alot of mistakes when I was in high school and got pregnant at 17 and I got alot of crap when i was in school. Every one of those things can lead up to sex. Trust me you do not want to go through having a kid when you are still a kid, leave these things to adults:)
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please help me im really confused about my sexuality. i came out to my family a few months ago but started to feel it was to soon. i really fancy a girl i know but seriously get aroused over men . when i masturbate i think of men too. what am i???? (link)
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You might be bi-sexual. There is nothing wrong with that either! After you date around with both sexes you might find which one that you feel safest, most comfertable with. Just give it time, do some searching in yourself, and find out who you really are. You may be supprised what you find out. Good Luck. If you need to talk about it or tell something more for someone to help you out, come talk to me. I will help you as much as I can:)
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that teenagers are having sex earlier and earlier...
I sure dont want to have sex any time in high school...but I know lots of my friends are ready. to be honest it just all freaks me out...
yes, i'm afraid of having sex...and i just don't see how it would be pleasurable.
any comments or advice would help!
thx.... (link)
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Well I think it is very good that you are not wanting to have sex in high school! That can save you from a lot of problumes, such as pregnancy, std's, and just being known as the slut or being easy or something like that. Your friends may talk about it but really it is a personal thing that you do not want to have sex. If you were one of my friends in high school I would have so much respect for you! It takes alot of stregth to be not pressured into it or to not want to do it. Trust me you will want to keep from having sex until after high school and better yet after marriage!
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ive heard that instead of throwing up some people tend to get the poops (usually, i don't mean when they're pregnant) but i was just wondering if the same thing could occur with pregnancy? my boyfriend and i had sex almost 2 1/2 weeks ago and with no condom well not sex he was just inside me for a little, we're not sure if i am pregnant or not. i haven't thrown up in like 3 years, but i have been going to the bathroom a lot (in both cases #1 & 2 :P) my boobs have hurt for the past week, very tender, and i have had really bad heartburn. I was going to take a test a few days ago but my boyfriend said it's too early bla bla. So i was just wondering if that could be a symptom (getting the poops) especially since i've never had them so bad, it's like wen i wake up i have to and during the day i have to a lot.
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You could be pregnant. I don't know about having the poops, but it could happen I would think. I have never had it with any of my 3 kids. Also it is not to early to get a test either. I would get like 3 or more, they are not always accurate. But if your not then you got LUCKY!!! If you are and you need help or anything please come and talk to me! I got pregnant at 16 so I know what it is like to talk to the rents and all if you are younger! Also to go through h.s. and all so feel free to come talk to me.
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