almost 16/f please read whole thing before answering:
I have only had boyfriends. I have had many times. I don't find men attractive. I think they usually have something about their faces that make them unattractive. I look at s a lot more than I look at boys. I love the feeling of a man's arms around me and I like to cuddle with them and stuff. BUT: I don't enjoy it doesn't do anything for me and I giving head/handjobs and stuff. Male genitals do not turn me on at all. I would much rather m@sturbate with my vibe. I also like being eaten out.
As a young child I was only attracted to men. At age 12/13 I started to notice s and I would develop crushes on them. By the time I hit 15 i was completely turned on by the idea of s3x with a woman. That is what i think about when i m@st. Does this make me bis3xual?
Additional info, added Friday July 18 2008, 3:11 pm: NOTE: whenever you see an "S" it means "gurls". my comp bleeps out the world Gurls. and "i have had _____ many times" means interc0urse.
Try focusing on love as your primary objective. Try not to focus on the gender of the person, but more so on their personality. This may make the strain to discover your true sexuality less demanding.
Cux answered Friday July 18 2008, 10:24 pm: By definition, since you are attracted to women, and see yourself having sex with them, you are most likely a lesbian.
If you see yourself having sex with both men AND women, and you are attracted to both, you are most likely bisexual, though I see that as a state-of-mind rather than a forever type of thing.
If you see yourself having sex with ONLY men and you are attracted to only men, you are straight.
Your sexuality is determined mainly by which sex[es] you engage in sexual activities with. But don't be in a rush to figure out you're sexuality. You're only just a teenager and you have your entire life ahead of you.
Vegalicious21 answered Friday July 18 2008, 9:23 pm: It could mean you are bisexual, but that would be if you were attracted to men, and it seems like your not.
You are most likely a lesbian. You should try being with a woman, and see how you like it. If you dont likke it , you are straight, if you do like it, you are lesbian, and if you like both men and women you are bi.
It eally sounds to me that you are a lesbian, but you have to try being with another woman and see how you like it. Try with a few, and figure it all out.
turn-n-burn answered Friday July 18 2008, 5:02 pm: You could be bisexual, and it is nothing to be ashamed of. Or it could be what turns you one most... maybe you should try and get with some girls and experience what its like to be a lesbian, and then see which you prefer. If you like the touch of a women better you might be just a lesbian, or if you acctually get with a woman and do not like the experience and just like fantasizing then you are probally just straight, and then also if you are enjoying both then you are most likely bisexual! [ turn-n-burn's advice column | Ask turn-n-burn A Question ]
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