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boyfriend.


Question Posted Tuesday August 19 2008, 8:00 pm

I'm a female & 15.

I wanna try to tease my boyfriend and get him hard, but I don't really seem to know what to do. I have given him a lapdance before and I could feel his hard penis on my ass as I was giving him a lapdance but I don't feel like giving him another one :). I also play with his jeans close to where his penis is but I'm not completely sure if he's turned on or not.

Well, my question is, what can I do to turn him on and get him hard without oral or actual sex.

Thanks in advance! <3

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kbrown5523 answered Saturday August 30 2008, 5:23 pm:
You know, it could be that you are trying too hard. Guys tend to lose interest if the girl is only into "him". THE sexiest thing to a guy is a women who is her own person and confident in herself. Nothing causes a guy to lose interest faster than a girl that has no life outside of him.

I know from experience. If you are a person who is persuing your own life and accomplishing your own goals you can be confident enough to give him an erection without even wanting to. Your problem will be to get it down, not get it up.

It's not about what you do to him or for him, it's about what you do to you, or for you that will make all the difference.

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AskRhiRhi answered Monday August 25 2008, 9:19 pm:
Well, when i wanna get my girlfriend hot, i usually straddle her when she's sitting down. So, try doing that. While you're sitting on him like that, play with his hair and whisper things in his ear. Try kissing him on the neck and collar bone. Chances are, you'll get him hot.

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turn-n-burn answered Thursday August 21 2008, 3:45 pm:
First off I have to say be careful teasing him if you don't want to have any type of sex, but kissing him on the neck and possibly bighting him gently some while rubbing your hands up and down his back... Also you could always play the what if game that usually gets them going... But it depends on the guy talk to him and see what he likes.

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GodsGift2Writing answered Tuesday August 19 2008, 11:35 pm:
One word:
Cinnamon.

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gabbie307 answered Tuesday August 19 2008, 10:33 pm:
ask him where his spot is and then u could jerk him off orlet him see you naked

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batteredxdreams answered Tuesday August 19 2008, 10:18 pm:
Every guy is different. I used to date this guy who would get hard everytime we made out. It was just weird. Try kissing his neck.

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Celina answered Tuesday August 19 2008, 9:44 pm:
try whispering things into his ear and kissin him softly. that works really well in my relationship!! you could also try talking about sex and desribing to him what you like and asking him what he likes

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