I want to hear (in detail) your past sex (oral, anal, etc) experiences. How it felt, what you said, did, he did, he said, she did, he did, anything. I need ideas thanks :D
well if your looking for ideas on how to start sex with someone its easy. :) you just turn them on by dirty talking, messing around with them, or just making out intensly.
the first time i had sex was in a pool and i just fooled around and it just kinda happend. me and my boyfriend (at the time) where swimming by our selves just relaxing and joking around. and i pulled him twards me and started kissing him intensly. and after that we started fooling around with eachother and we finaly had sex.
i hope i helped. sorry i didnt go into that much detail but its something. i hoped i helped. if you need anything else just ask.
-Tamera.
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how do you turn on a 16 year old guy? with out having to touch him in places?
well you could go on top of him and start making out with him very intensly. and just add a small twist to it. if you feel comfertable with him touching your body take his hand and guide him over your body. but only do that if your comfertable with that. if you have any other questions let me know.
-Tamera.
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So i really like this guy and he likes me. He has done a lot more than i have and ive done basically nothing. I'm supposed to hang out with him sometime at his house and im very nervous. I have not kissed a guy since i was in the 6th grade and im in the 10th right now. Ive had bf's but it was always so weird and awkward until now. This is the first time in a very long time where i like someone a lot. And im very nervous with everything and i dont know what to do. Im very afraid that im going to suck at everything because im so inexperienced. So what do i do to get better or how do i handle the situatuion. I'm not planning on having sex with him but other things might come up if not when im there then some other time so i just need help on how to handle it and what to do.
the best thing you can do is talk to him about it. although you may night be going out with him im sure he will be fine with it and he will walk you through it. and alot of the things you do with guys arent that hard to do. and he can also tell you how he wants you to do the things if you tlak to him about it. well have fun and be careful. any thing else just ask.
-Tamera.
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okays sooo, ive been on birth control for like two years now, and i have never known the answer to this question, ive tried to ask my ginocologest but she didnt really answer me.
butt.. when your on birth control, can the guy like cum in you and you wont get pregnant. Like im not stupid me and my boyfriend still use condoms every single time and were still going to, but im just kinda curious casue if not then what does birth control do?
well birth control doesnt have a 100% posibility of protecting you from being pregnant. what birth control does is it has hormones and it helps with the hormones that cause pregnancy. id stick with both of them. if you need anyother help just let me know. :D
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So i know the only safe sex is no sex. but me and my boyfriend have been dating and it's pretty serious. we both really want to do it, but i'm so paranoid about getting pregnant! even with a condom! any advice? I'm 15, i'm not ready to be a mom haha.
well, the best thing you can do is get a condom and some birthcontrol and maybe the morning after pill. all though there isnt a 100% protection youll still being prepaired.
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Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 9 months. Me and my gay bestfriend hungout the other day and got drunk together alone. Me and my gay bestfriend had sex. For like 1 minute then I stopped and said I cant do this. We were both really drunk and didnt know what we were doing. And I really love my boyfriend and if I tell him he will dump me and beat my bestfriends ass and I dont want that too happen. But I cant have sex with my boyfriend now not thinking about what I did with my gay bestfriend. What should I do?
well, everyone makes mistakes. but as hard as it will be your going to have to tell your boyfriend. he will be mad and hurt and all of those lovely emotions but you will feel better from telling him. hiding things doesnt help. and if he truely loves you then he will stay with you. as hard as that will be for him to trust you he will. and you have to tell him it was an accident. you eed to tell him everything that happened. and if you and your friend didnt know what was going on then you need to include that part. you should tell him before someone else finds out and tells him because thats happened in a lot of situations. and hearing it from another person makes it worse. i hope things work out for you. if you need anything else ask me.
-tamera.
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My bf and i have been together for almost 6 months were both 15 and hes still insecure about the size of his penis i told him i love him no matter what that it didnt matter hes doesnt want to do anything sexual what can i do? why do guys worry about penis size?
well, most guys are always worried about that kind of stuff. the best thing you can do is just let him know your ready if he is and just guid him through this faze. good luck and hopefuly things will brighten up soon. anyother questions just ask me.
-Tamera
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I'm 15/F. And i'm dating a guy who is 17. We've been dating for 2 months now, and he's starting to talk about wanting to have sex. I'm still a virgin, and i'm scared to death. I told him I didn't think I was ready yet, and he got kind of aggravated, and said, "that's okay, that's not what i'm in this relationship for anyway" And he's been mentioning it more and more. Any Advice for if i do decide to have sex with him? Or anything else i should do?
I really don't want to lose him.
In my opinion you shouldnt have sex if your not ready. if he leaves you just because you wont sleep with im then hes not the right guy for you. if your not ready for sex yet and you feel like maybe you want to "play aound more" then do that, but make sure he doesnt pressure you into doing anything you dont want to do. good luck and if you have anyother questions let me know.
-Tamera.
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When did sex become so bad? I get that teenagers shouldn't just sleep around and pregnancy & STDs are a problem. But why do parents go to great lengths to make their teens feel guilty about wanting and/or having sex? If its so natural and if everyone feels the need at some point, shouldn't it be talked about more openly and embraced in a better manner?
I'm 16, thinking about having sex for the first time, but I keep finding notes from my parents saying, "Absolutely no sex. Wait until your married."
I'm not religious, but I'm not a bad person. (All A's, no drinking or drugs) So why do my parents make me feel awful for even thinking about it?
Ugh. Thanks.
I just want opinions and how other people's parents react.
well like you said most parents are afraid their children will get pregnant or catch something. my mother doesnt want me sleeping around but if i told her i was or had sex then she would be understanding about it. i would talk to your parents (or just your mother. sex talks arent realy the best things for fauthers.) and tell her that if you think your ready before marrige then you will have sex. i mean i wouldnt get cocky about it but just tell her how she/they make you feel about sex. and it is nautural, there for if you think your ready then go for it. any other questions just ask.
-Tamera.
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Hi im almost 16 im a guy and im gay my bf is 15
weve been together for almost 9 months we love each other and weve talked about coming out of the closet and im a bit nervous im a bit worried well get picked on i love him a lot he says i shouldnt worry about it what do you think?
dont care about what people say. love is love. and thats all that matters. yeah you might have some people who say stuff. but most people in highschool realy dont care about it anymore. so just comeout of the closet. and if your friends are true friends then they will except you for who you are. and so will your parents if they dont already know. just come clean, youll feel alot better. i hope things work out anyother questions just ask me. :)
good luck
-tamera
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My boyfriend is about almost 9 inches, thick as like, spray can of that string stuff. Im a 15f virgin, if we have sex, how bad should it hurt? Will it feel good at all ? If not, about how many times after should it feel good? and my cherry is already popped.
well i always say the bigger the better;) but it all depends on your tolercence to pain. when i had sex the first time it hurt for like 5-10. but after that it felt realy good. it might take him a few minutes to put his penis inside you because youve never had one inside you before. well have fun and be safe. if you need any more help just contact me. :).
-tamera
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im 15 and im a bit confused about my sexuality although i think im gay i did have a girlfriend for about 3 months but i wasnt really into it we didnt click but i have been attracted to guys more but i was a bit nervous about it because i was worried about what peoole would think and the last few months ive become really close to this guy i like him a lot we hang out togeter im a bit nervous but i want to tell him that i like him a lot he seems to like me i dont want to come on too strong i really like him how do i tell him?
well from the sounds of it you sound like your bi. i mean you might not stick to it your entire life most teens experiment around this age. and if you like this guy just tell him. just say it to him casualy and be like hey i dont want things to be accward but i like you more then a friend. and let it all come together.:)
good luck
-Tamera
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im almost 16 and my gf and i are thinking about having sex were both virgins im a bit nervous
ive got a small penis and im worried that i wont be any good or be able to please i might be worrying to much but will i be able to please her? will it get bigger?
well size doesnt always matter. the penis only goes into the vigina about 4inchs. dont worry about it. youll be fine. you are worrying about it a little to much. just try and relax and have fun, im sure you will get bigger as you finish pubirty. good luck. any other questions just get back to me.
-Tamera.
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yeahh..do you think he'll talk to me again though cause well i met him at my friends house and hes always talking about what he wants to do with me when i see him. but i think he does have this girlfriend..but still hes too shallow and too much of a dick to care about hurting his girlfriend so i feel like he'll still talk to me cause he doesnt want to do all of those things..i dont know if he was only using me for pictures..thatd be dumb since he knows i would do some stuff with him..ugh i hate saying that..i dont think i want to anymore though. that would be so slutty of me dont you think..i dont know what to do or not..sorry to keep bugging you its just that all of my other friends dont really understand..
your not bugging me. i dont mind. he will probly still talk to you. he wouldnt just use you for pictures, i think hes just trying to see what he can get out of you. if you realy want to have a fling with this kid i would wait till hes single again and show him what hes missing out on. let me know how it goes:)
-Tamera
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well..i sent the pictures..but only because he said hed be mad if i didnt. he really pressured me. but they were only pictures of my butt in jeans and a low cut cami picture. but anyways..i think he has a girlfriend who loves in new york. they WERE going out before [i didnt know until my friend told me two days ago] but now i think there togethor again..she writes on his wall "I LOVE YOU TOO!
thats exactly what happened to me. the guyu i was talking about has a girlfriend now. its going to be hard but what i would do is i would just leave him alone. hes not worth your time. just slowly not talk to him anymore. hes just going to keep using you for pictures. thats what this kid is doing to me. and now we arent even talking. hes not worth your time anymore. im sorry for the pain he has caused you because i know what its like. well good luck. keep me posted.
-Tamera
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16/f please please read this and help me..
well, you may have seen many posts about this situation i keep mentioning/bringing up. but here is something a bit different. if you havent already read about this, i met this guy at my friends house, hes chill. but hes kind of an asshole who only wants sexual things from me.
anyways, we talk on facebook and lately hes been asking almost every week for me to send him a picture. first, he wanted one of my chest. i never sent it. then he wanted one of my thong. so i did send a picture of my thong just by itself on the floor, it didnt matter. then last night i saw he sent me a text. it said hey are we still gonna do those sexual things still? and i responded, yeahh haha why do you ask? and he said, i dont know lol so send me a pic of you in your panties.
..hes asked me multiple times for this. hes really pressuring me..i feel like i cant say no because then he wont talk to me anymore or want to do those things with me and he'll find some easy slut who will. i know im being stupid but i dont wanna lose him like that..but i just cant say no..i dont want to send one though. 1.) he will most definitly show it off to his friends.
i know this because when he was texting me last night, he said he was chillin with people. and i said, so you ask me to send a pic while your with people..? and he goes, haha no im leaving now but send a pic i want it bad
..i feel so slutty talking to him. i cant believe i even say half of the things i say to him. he pretty much asks if he can play with me and asked me to give him a lap dance and moan and all of this other perverted shit like that and i said yeah i would. i dont know why im being so stupid. i do somehow still want him though..but i dont want to send a picture. people could find out..even if its just of me wearing a thong, only down there though. but still..
:/
well first off i know what your going through because the exact same thing is happening to me now. if i were you dont send him the pictures. if anything make him send the pictures. make him work for it. i know he may be very tempting but just say no. hell probly say i might send one if you send one and all this other crap. but he wont. the guy thats doing this thing to me is the exact same way. i know you dont want to loose him because im the exact same way because i love this kid that wants me to send pictures. (and i was stupid and sent them). he only wants me for sexual shit. but becareful. dont let him think your essay and dont let him know he can get any thing out of you. please keep me updated:)
good luck i hope you are ok.
-Tamera
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Okay so this is kind of an akward question
But are vaginas supposed to be wet?
I really want my boyfriend to finger me
But I don't know if something wrong or not.
dont worry about an akward question. being wet is very natural and is good. it shows that your turned on. your boyfriend can finger you but make sure his hands are clean and that you go to the restroom after words because if you dont then you can get a very painful infection. but dont worry about him fingering you. its not bad. just make sure you are safe about it. have fun :)
any other questions just let me know. :)
-Tamera.
P.s dont be afraid to let him finger you :)
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I want to give my bf a bj and am wondering if there are any signs hes gonna cum so ill be ready for it thx
well, for me theres realy no sign before he cums. you should ask him to tell you when hes about to cum, you may feel his penis get a little harder but besides that theres no other signs. good luck. im sorry if i wasnt that much of a help. :)
any other questions just let me know.
-Tamera
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Ok so I'm 15/f/virgin.
I've been fingered but lately my you know whattt has been itching and burning and there's like little bumps everywhere. Idk if it's from shaving or not? So I was wondering if I can get an STD or infection from my bf fingering me? Thanks
well when your boyfriend was fingering he could have had some kind of virus on his fingers. you could just be having razor burn. but my sigestion to you is to talk to your mom. i know it will be hard but just say you have somekind of rash and you realy need to get it checked out. the burning could be from a urinary track infection.
hope everything works out for you. any other questions just let me know.
-Tamera
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