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I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and I didn't enjoy it at all, or the next time, or the next time. Is there something wrong with me? Yeah, the first time we did it, it hurt at first but after the pain went away I still didn't enjoy it. It wasn't pleasurable and it wasn't him I don't think I just didn't enjoy it. And I was kind of anxious to try it again to see if it'd be any better but it wasn't. Does it take time, or am I weird... or what?
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The first few times a girl has ex it normally isnt pleasurable to them, by the 4th or 5th time it should fell good, and it also will help if your relaxed, so dont stress over if it will feel good or not.
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i am completelyyy in love with my boyfriend. i know this for a fact and am not afraid to say it ! so i have a few questions i hope i can get solid honest answers to. i admit to being very unexperienced, but hey, you have to start somewhere.
1) we are both virgins, does this mean we can't get an STD?
2) when giving him head, do i HAVE to swallow?
3) also when giving him head, would a condom be useful?
4) i hate asking this but it has to be asked: wtf do i do with the pubic hair on both me and him?
haha thanks (link)
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1. yes you can get an std but its doubtful.
2.you dont HAVE to, but i would recommend it, guys like it (=
3.i guess it would, but it would take away a lot of the pleasure for him.
4.if i were you i would shave your pubic hair.
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When my boyfriend fingers me, eats me out or we have sex, I always end up having a really intense orgasm where my legs shake and it's the whole arched back thing. Though... afterwards, I get like... after shivers? Is that normal? (link)
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Yeah, thats completely normal(=
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When you are giving a handjob to someone while they are fingering you, does that have a name? Thanks. (link)
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mutual masterbation(=
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Does sex hurt the first time you do it? I've never done it, but stories of pain sort of make me nervous. Does it? (link)
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yes, it will hurt the first time.
but normally itll only hurt for a couple seconds.
the pain won't be unbearable though, so dont worry.
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me and my boyfriend have had sex like 5 times and i havent told my mom but she wants to take me to the gyno just to get on birth controll. if ur under the age of 18 do the gynos tell your parents if ur not a virgin? (link)
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If you ask your gyno not to tell your parents then they won't.
But since your mom is taking you to get you put on birth control she probably already thinks your sexually active, so it shouldnt be a big deal either way.
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so i was in the ocean the other day and my boyfriend was fingering me and i started jacking him off but i told him to finish it so that he didnt cum near me cause in the water its harder to control where it all goes... so i went away from him and then a little while later he fingered me again... is that bad?? that cant cause pregnancy right? (link)
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if he still had cum on his hands then yes there is a possibility, but its a VERY low chance.
and if you were in the ocean, it probably would have gotten washed off of his hands.
so i highly highly highly doubt you are pregnant.
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recently this group of immigrants from africa came over and i was to show them around school...a couple of them were girls and i ended up dating and having lots of unprotected sex with them...they were about 17 so theyve deffinetly have had sex in africa...i always puilled out in time but do u think i might have AIDS or HIV? what should i do i dont want my parents or anyone else to know. (link)
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the only thing you can do is get tested, just to be sure.
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Iam going to the gynocologist tomorrow for the first time and iam scared i might have something what am i suppose to do if i have an std? (link)
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if you were to find out you have an std while you're there your gyno will tell you everything you need to know about the std you have, and what to do about it.
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So you think its fine to shave your pubic hair off? Because Im a little freaked out that guys will get weirded out by it...Do they? (link)
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go for it!
most guys prefer it shaved
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i'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is 22 and he wants to have sex but i dont and he sead ''if we dont then we have to stop going out'' but truely love him and we have been going out for 2 years but if we did have sex he it would be rape right cuz i'ma minnor and thats why i dont want to and i told him that but he still wants to i would have sex but it's illegal so i dont know what to do should i have sex or not (keeping in mind we love each other)????
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if he really loved you then he wouldnt have said if you didnt have sex with him you guys would have to stop going out. thats not fair to you and it shows he doesnt care about you as much as you might think.
so in my opinion, i wouldnt do it.
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I masturbate alot with this vibrating tooth brush I dont put it in the whole I just play with my clip a bit and this is like 2 times a day and well
will this take away from me having orgasims when I have real sex will masterbating often take make the feeling feel less good lol
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it wont take away from you having orgasims, but it may not feel as good while having sex, because your used to your touch, and the feeling of the toothbrush.
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The last time my boyfriend and I had sex was about 3 weeks ago, and my period is now 5 days late. We did use a condom, but I've always been regular before. I also felt very naseous for about an hour yesterday and about an hour this afternoon. I'm waiting a few more days before I get a pregnancy test.
Should I tell my boyfriend that I suspect I may be pregnant before I take the pregnancy test? Or should I take it first to confirm/deny my suspicions so I don't worry him? (link)
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in my opinion i would take the test before mentioning anything to him, you wouldnt want to scare him.
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btw im a female
i shaved down there and there is still little stubs of hair and they wont go away no matter how much i shave
am i doing it wrong?
or is it just because i shaved the wrong way or just because i shaved? (link)
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do you sue a fresh blade every time you shave down there? it helps a lot (:
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prom is coming up and so is the 4 day after prom weekend.. I've decided not to go to get waxed cause its expensive and I dont have time.. so I'm gonna do it myself but I need advice on the best method out there if anyone has tried any of the store bought kits or whatever... I shave regularly down there so I dont think it would be severely irritated by like waxing or whatever but I just want something easy that works.. thanks so much! (link)
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nair bikini removal cream.
it might burn a tad afterwards.. but not to the point where its uncomfortable, it works.
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what can i do if i get really bad discharge? some days its like, a puddle in my pants. but thats an exageration. (link)
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wear pantyliners :)
itlll help a lot!!
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okay so i really want to be fingered im old enough and i have a boy friend but i have some questions ive been felt up givin him a handjob and of couse made out
do i need to shave right my vagina before so its smooth?
do i take my pants off or do they just go down?
and what do i do like while hes fingering me??
please answer me quick!! (link)
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you dont have to shave if your not comfortable doing that, most guys prefer if you do though.
it will be easier if you take your pants all the way off.
while hes fingering you just do what comes natural to you, dont think about what your doing to much.
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I was just wondering if you are supposed to shave your pubic hair?
Like do you only shave it before sex, or do you just shave it all the time!
I need help, haha. (link)
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everyones different if you dont want to have pubic hair then shave it, i for example dont like it because im in a bikini alot, and its extremely noticable on the sides, so if you dont want to shave it all off just shave a lot off the top, but if you want it all off then go for it!
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i heard that if you count the days from your period and have sex on a specific day then you cannot get pregnant because there is no egg in there to fertilise...if so how do you do this?
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that is so far from the truth.
and never listen to 'i heard' advice.
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(17/f) Ok, so I lost my virginity in 2006, and I've been with two guys sexually total. The guy I'm dating now and I have had sex a total of 3 times since we've been together. Well, last night we had sex and afterwards we noticed I was bleeding a little from my vagina. It looked like spotting, but I had my period about a week and a half ago. It stopped after a few minutes but now I'm kinda sore down there.
I know I didn't pop my "cherry" cuz I bled when I lost my virginity. So what could it be? It was embarassing and I'm afraid it'll happen again.
If it helps any, I've never had unprotected sex, and we didn't do much last night that was different or new.
Any ideas? Thanks!
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well if he fingered you before the sex it might be from that.
was it rougher than usual?
maybe it was to rough.
i wouldnt worry about it too much but if it happens again id look into it some more
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