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First Time
I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and I didn't enjoy it at all, or the next time, or the next time. Is there something wrong with me? Yeah, the first time we did it, it hurt at first but after the pain went away I still didn't enjoy it. It wasn't pleasurable and it wasn't him I don't think I just didn't enjoy it. And I was kind of anxious to try it again to see if it'd be any better but it wasn't. Does it take time, or am I weird... or what?
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The first few times a girl has ex it normally isnt pleasurable to them, by the 4th or 5th time it should fell good, and it also will help if your relaxed, so dont stress over if it will feel good or not.
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There is nothing wrong with you. It usually takes atleast a few times before the female actually gets any pleasure out of it. Just relax and also it will be better for you if you are really in the mood. Foreplay will help, you should try that and you will be on your way.
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thats not strange. ive only had sex twice and it hurt sooo badly the first time. hurt a little the second time...and we never got to finish, so idk if i would ever get pleasure or not.
usually it takes till about the fifth time until the girl gets anything besides pain out of sex. this one girl i talked to said it hurt her first 15 times.
just breathe easy. and if you're using a condom, that also takes a bit of pleasure out of everything. so yeah.
hope i helped.
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Yes. That is totally normal. It takes time for a lot of reasons, and to be honest, some women never truly enjoy sex. It's all about the comfort level, and how well you know eachother. If it doesn't feel good, try something else! You both have to be willing to experiment and find what works for you. There are so many different ways that people find to experience sexual pleasure, and although I can't give you explicit advice on here- just know, there's something out there for everyone. If you're honest with him, you guys will find it eventually. :)
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