Um so well I had a dream 5 nights ago and it was about me having sex with a girl who lives next door to my grandmother. But my problem is she's 8 and I'm 13 and I want her so bad but I think it might be rapist so should I have sex with her or not and if so what can I do to make it happen because she likes me to (no rapist jokes)
Definitely not. She is WAY too young to be having sex and you're a bit young as well. Sorry.
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my boyfriend and I have been together for a long time and we've had sex and we have done all that kind of stuff. my boyfriend has fingered me many times. It never really does anything for me. Like i have NEVER gotten and orgasum from it but it dosnt hurt or make me uncomfortable or anything so i let him do it. but the other day we were making out and he slamed me up agenst the wall and he lifted me up so i could like wrap my leggs around him. Then he put his hand down my pants and started fingering me. He was doing it for a little while and then something wierd happened. I got like a VERY intence orgasum. is it wierd? do you think it was the position? Or what?!?
could have been the position... it's a lot easier for girls to orgasm if their gspot is being touched and in that position it sounds like he'd be making a lot of contact with your gspot haha... also you could have just been turned on from it being rough like the person before me said.
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Okay let's say you're having sex with a girl and she cums, can you still continue having sex with her? I know for guys it's different because after they cum they go soft and need some time to get it together again. So basically can you keep going or do you stop? Btw...I'm a girl and was wondering because my guy and I plan on having sex soon.
ok so i'm a girl too.
For me, its not a problem to continue having sex after I cum, but i've heard from other girls that they like lose the desire to continue to have sex after they cum. I guess you could still continue to have sex even if you didnt have the desire to but it probably wouldnt be as fun haha. But yeah just go with it i guess. If you cum and you're still feeling like you wanna have sex then go for it but if not then maybe you should ask to take a short break.
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19/female. i've had the biggest crush on my friend probably for about 3 years now. i let him borrow my handcuffs and whip haha yeaaah, and so when i get them back from him i kind of want to say something sexy. i dont want to be like "did you have fun??" because obviously he did, and i dont want to know or need to know what he did with them!! but i dont want to make it all awkward and be like .. "i'll use them on you next time" or something really obvious. when i gave them to him i said .. i have three instructions. DONT LOSE THE KEYS TO THE HANDCUFFS, THEY BETTER COME BACK CLEAN AND HAVE FUN!:) and he just kind of smiled and said no worries ;) i know hes attracted to me, we talk about sexual things all the time but have never done anything yet. i dont know what i could say that would be cute/sexy when he gives them back. and i dont want to just be like "thanks" and then leave, ya know??
any suggestions? i mean i'm also pretty new to this whole thing too like the handcuffs and stuff so also any ideas i could do with those tooo! thanks:)
um this might be a little too much info but you could say something like, "I'm just starting to get into trying new things with props and i was wondering if you had any pointers for me?" or something like that... it's honest and not too nosy or anything and then if he answers you, you could say something like "oohhh id love to try that" or "that sounds fun" or something.
just a thought.
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Okayy so I'm 16, and sexual active.
I feel the need to be on birthcontrol , better to be safe. But my parents are not aware that I have sex. & I dont plan on telling them, well at this moment. My friends said that I can just go on base & theyll give it too me. But I don't know if thats true. & i'm not 17, like legal age. So can I have some help please?
or you could go to a planned parenthood.
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So I had a miscairage 3months ago and I want to get pregnant!!! Im 15 and need tips on how to conceive. Thnx (:
Having a kid when you're 15 isnt a good idea. Your hormones arent totally in balance which could lead to problems for both you and the child. Some of the common problems are miscarriage and SIDS. SIDS stands for sudden infant death syndrome, which is exactly what it sounds like. Your child would also be more prone to physical and mental developmental issues. Not to mention that most 15 year olds aren't emotionally ready for a child and this could cause the child to be raised in an unfit environment. I know you might really want a child now, but try to wait until you're at least 20. By then all of your hormones will be in balance and you will not be putting your child at a high risk for issues.
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15/f
It's embarrassing to admit and I feel like a complete moron but I just learned that you're supposed to wear a condom while preforming oral sex on a guy. I've just started having sex and have gone down on the guy three times without protection and am freaking out. I never knew you were supposed wear a condom and somewhat assumed that it was only necessary during vaginal or anal sex. I never thought of oral and now, the more that I think about it, the more I feel like a complete idiot for not thinking of it earlier. I plan to use a condom from now on but am worried that I could have caught something? Also, would it be strange for me, now even after I've gone down on him three times without, to from now on ask him to put on a condom? And I know I probably sound completely naive but do most people use condoms while preforming oral because out of all the people I know who are sexually active, they've never said anything about it.
thanks.
Most people probably dont use condoms for oral. It's definitely a good idea to though, especially if you don't know the guy too well. If i were you i'd get tested for std's, although if you have something serious it probably wont show up. You should also talk to the guy about it if you're comfortable doing so. Like how many other girls he's messed around with and what not. And if you're the only girl he's doing sexual things with now then there isnt really much of a point in starting to wear them because if there is damage than it has probably already been done. But thats only if you know he's not doing stuff with someone else, so it might be a good idea to have him start wearing one if you dont trust him. He'll probably be annoyed by it but dont let him persuade you to not use one if you're not comfortable with it.
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My boyfriend and I have gone to third base, where he's fingered my vagina and clit. But the problem is, I can't orgasm! This makes me feel bad because I have to fake so he doesn't think there's something wrong with me.
I can bring myself to orgasm by fingering my clit but am usually only success while I am watching porn.
Why can't I orgasm when he does this to me? It doesn't hurt or feel bad, but it just doesn't really do much for me as far as pleasure. Is there something wrong with me? What can we do so that I can orgasm? (PS - I don't want to have sex yet. I'm not ready.)
16 years old, female
For one, i always thought that third base was oral lol but whatever not that important.
Well if you like watching porn then maybe you need more visual stimulation from him. Have him be naked if you dont do that already. Um i dont really know what else he could do to make it more like watching porn.. maybe you could watch his fingers go in and out of you if you're into that. Or maybe it's just that porn turns you on and you dont get turned on enough before he tries to make you orgasm. You should try messing around with him a bit before he fingers you to get you more turned on. But other than the porn factor if you can make yourself orgasm and he cant make you orgasm than its probably him not you. Give him suggestions on whatever you do to make yourself orgasm. Personally, what always gets me to orgasm is three fingers inside me (i'm not a virgin and a guy still has to put two in to stretch me to be able to fit three so you might wanna try one or two instead) and the guy rubbing my clit. Make sure you get some wetness on your clit before the guy starts rubbing it though. Oh and if your laying on your back have him put his finger(s) in so that his nails are facing down and have him curl his fingers up and rub your gspot.. that feels so good! Hope that helps some.
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So I've been having sex with my boyfriend and everything is fine. We have done missionary or just me on top, and there have been no issues.
But if we try a position from where he is coming from behind, it's extremely painful! I feel like he's pushing into the front of my belly [like a painful cramp]. No matter if we go slow, fast, nothing changes. It just hurts.
Any idea why???
maybe try arching your back more. Not like a cat when it's scared but the opposite of that. I've never had pain while doing that but it feel sooo much better if i arch my back. haha but hope that works for you. Good luck. Oh and also maybe if he has a rather large member then ask him not to put it all the way in and see if that hurts any less haha
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During the summer, I met this guy. And for months we have been hanging out, and our relationship is growing very strong. The problem is, I'm 14, and he's 17.. And he's leaving for university next year, so we've decided that we're not going to become boyfriend and girlfriend, just be a couple.. Well, the thing is, he wants to go all the way with me.. And I don't know if i'm ready! I'm still a virgin and I don't know how I can be sure that I trust him enough, to know he's not just using me for a piece of "skin" please help!!
I'd say that if you're having these doubts, its probably better not to. I wish i waited for a guy who really cared about me. If he's 17 and your 14 and he knows you're a virgin and he doesnt want to be your boyfriend then my guess would be that he just wants to bag a virgin. Especially if he's like pressuring you into it. I guess I have a pretty negative view because of my past experiences though so he might have totally good intentions. See what happens if you say you dont wanna have sex.
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Ok so I am a guy and obviously I know what climax is for a guy but what is climax for girls? What happens?
(Can you tell I am a virgin?)
Thank you!
haha thats kinda a hard question because it's really different for every girl... like some girls will like cum and others wont.. and it's really not a question that only virgins ask.. haha i had a bf who would always have to ask me if i climaxed or not... i guess maybe the best way to tell is if a girl is all like worked up and moaning and her face is all weird and then she like shakes a lil bit and then relaxes haha.. kinda hard to explain.. sorry
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I am thinking about how things will go when I have sex and I know it hurts when you have sex for the first time, but I really want to know: did you have an orgasm the night you lost your virginity??
Is it possible if it always hurts too?
i did :) but not from sex. The guy ate me out first and it was amazzinnggg. You should have your guy do that for you because it will also probably make the sex hurt less since you'll be relaxed and wet.
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for people who get really wet when they're turned on does sex for the first time hurt?
didnt hurt me.. but my hymen was already broken before i had sex so thats probably part of it. If you still have your hymen than its pretty much gonna hurt no matter how wet you are... being wet doesnt help having a guy pushing up against it until it breaks :-/ sorryyyy
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I know this isn't about sex but i didn't no what to put it under lol.
So I think Obama should have never became president
I think hi is an idiot.
So i want to know people who did vote for him why you did what were your reasons?
Cause if you think hes ganna pay for your bills and provide for you hes not.
I just wanna know everyones reason for why they voted for him or why you didn't vote for him.
Also a lot of people including me, Think he manly won cause he is black and i think if that is true witch i think it is i think thats wrong.
My resons are because I think racism is wrong and if people vote for him only because he's black just means your being racist. Now you might note be but your basing your decision on the color of his skin i and i think thats horriable.
I bet if he was a white man he would not of one or he wouldn't of one for the reasons he did.
PLEASE DO NOT TAKE THIS OVENSIVLY IM JUST SPREEDING MY OPINION ON WHAT I BELIEVIE AND I WANT TO KNOW WHAT PEOPLE BELIEVE OR THINK.
I totally agree with you. Theres no way he would have even been in the running for president if he was white. Which is very unfortunate. I'm not sure i would call him an idiot, but i'd definitely say that he's book smart, not street smart and he is way under qualified to run our country and has made very bad decisions and will probably continue to do so.
The only explanation that i have for him being president other than that he's black is the alternative.
McCain is VERY old, already slightly senile, he could easily get worse or even die in four years (what he would have been president for). And i think the possibility of sarah being president scared a lot of people. I dont know whether or not she was dumb, but she was a horrible speaker which kind of made her come off that way.
There is also the independent party, but the media was so mad at the independent party for letting bush win that they got almost no coverage and no one knew about them so it was pretty much impossible for their candidate (i dont even remember who it was lol) to win.
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i'm 19 years old, female.
i've never had sex before, never been fingered, havent done anything really! only made out, and i havent done that in like three years, ohhhh god embarassing! i've been really really horny lately and i really just want to be sexual. now i'm not saying i just want to go have sex with random guys but i would like to get pleasured:)
i'm not into the whole dildo/vibrator thing either...not for me! i just dont know how to go about doing something, and letting my hormones go crazy. i dont even know why i'm like this! i'm on birth control, but probably because i havent really done anything sexal before right??
i hear about my friends having alot of fun and getting frisky haha and no i wouldnt do it because my friends are! i'd do it for ME. i'm 19, i know how to make wise choices, and i think i have so far! but would it be bad to have a guy finger me or to just have some fun with a guy?
You're young and you should be allowed to have some fun with guys haha so id say go for it. Just make sure to have him wear a condom if you decide to do anything that involves his dick touching any of your orifices (lol). You never know what these random guys can have and im sure ud feel pretty silly if you got an std like the first time you did something with a guy. So just be careful and have fun!
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so how do guys like the area to be shaven down their? completley shaved or what?
ok so im a girl but all of the guys who ive been with have liked nothing there. Thats probably the safest bed. I'm sure different guys like different things like shapes and stuff can be fun but you should ask the guy who's going to be seeing that area of you what his preference is.
Word to the wise: dont do anything that you dont feel comfortable with and you're not willing to maintain. If you let your hair down there grow out after shaving it all completely off than it will itch REALLY badly.
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im 17 and ive been dating my guy for 3 years. he's been my best friend through everything and i honestly love him alot. i want to have sex with him and i know hed stay with me if something like a baby came along but i reallllyy don't want that, since we're only 17 and seniors in high school. i plan on getting on birth control soon and obviously we're going to use a condom and hes gonna pull out. and we're gonna do it right when i get off my period. so my questions are how long should i wait after i get on birth control? and are there any other precautions?
you should specify what birth control you're going to get because it's different for every different kind of birth control.
also if you want to be extra extra safe you could use spermicide too. You put it inside you before you have sex and it stops the sperm from moving.
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my boyfriend and i were carless and got pregnant, we were planning on keeping it but due to complications with the baby its heart stopped and we had to have an abortion.
that was on june 11th ..
for the last four days i have been feeling like im pregnant, like mood swings, lower back pain, and when i take a bite of something it feels like i hate a whole pizza and then 20 minutes later it feels like i havent eaten in days.. that was my worst symptom when i was pregnant and it came back about 4 days ago, my boyfriend and i have been careful we use condoms everytime now except once.. we did the pull out method i have had my period since we did the pull out method.. i havent said anything to anyone because i dont think i could be pregnant again.. let alone its so soon? am i just being paranoid?
It's very unlikely that you are already pregnant again especially since you've been careful. You're probably just being paranoid but if it will make you feel better than you should pick up a pregnancy test just so you know for sure and can stop worrying about it.
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me and my boyfriend play around alot, like sexually . but i can never get wet, like even when we're having sex ,and he takes it out for like a minute, im dry . is there anyway i can change that ? or is there somethings he can do ?
maybe try lube. If you can't get lube or don't want to then you could try having him go down on you or just other foreplay to get you turned on. I don't really know what you've already tried so it's kinda hard to give advice on it. Hope that helped a little anyways.
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so i kind of know what this is but i dont like i think you use it if you didnt take the pill and know your prego but you have 48 or is it 72 hours to take it after sex but how would you know if your prego in that amount of time? but say i have sex and i use a condom but i dont use birth control but the day after i use the morning after pill would that work? what are the chances of me getting pregnant if i used the morning after pill? how affectvie is it? overall just tell me how it works and if its good to use or not !!! :]
the morning after pill can be taken up to 72 hours after you have sex, but the sooner you take it, the more effective it is. You are right that you can't know if you are pregnant that early. You take it if there's a chance you could be pregnant. If you used a condom and then took the pill right after that and then took another one in the morning like the directions tell you, than it would make it alot less likely for you to get pregnant, but there is no guarantee that you wont.
If you're 16, you should get a prescription for it at the doctor, and it's usually cheaper that way. But for adults, you can get it at pretty much any pharmacy without a prescription so if you know any adults that would do that for you...
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