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ok um when im giving my boyf a handjob do i just slip my hand down his pants and do it there or do i actually have to take it out?..hehe i know this s a weird question im sorry:P

Eiither way. It doesnt really matter. I've given it both ways
Hope I've helped.

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I've been having suicidel thoughts leatly, I think it's because I came to a conclusion that I'm a worthless nobody, I'm not good at anything and that I really have no reason to live ,no goal in life or will living.
Please give me some advice how to get this thoughts out of my head...

18 year old male

DONT KILL YOURSELF! I have been through the same things and had the same thoughts but then I realized alot of people do love me and care for me. I realized I am a somebody I am me and im fine with that. Just realize people do care about you are somebody.

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Hi, I have this really great boyfriend and we both are really into each other. I am 14 years old and was just wondering, is it slutty if I let him finger me and if I give him a handjob?

Not at all in my opinion. If you both like each other and are ready for that step go for it.
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okay me and my friend fantasize about doing things with girls...but we like guys....are gay???

Your most likely Bi. Which is when you like girls and guys. :-)
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hey ok i wondering if anybody knows some good sites for doll makers (ya know like dollpalace.com, dollidol.com) do ya have anymore?? thank you!

www.dollzmania.com
^Thats the best site eva ^

is it possibly to get pregnant if you have sex without a condom but the guy didnt cum

Yes it is very possible
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Hello
i really need an answer by wednesday night becuase i am very scared. im 15/F and i am going to the gyno for the first time and i am not a virgin anymore and i was just owndering if when they ask do i have to tell them and if i tell them will they tell my mom or can i ask the doctor to not tell my mom. or can i jsut say i use tampons? im reaslly scared becuase i do not want my mom to know! PLease help me..i rate high!
thanks

Idk I guess you have to tell them. You can ask them not to tell ur mom. good luck
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ok well for school we have to wright a persusive essay about something we feel strongly about adn i choose to wirght about abortion..well i was thinking that i dont really no that much about it but that it kills an innicoent child adn what it says on the internet..but i really need peoples opinions about why they are for or against it...i really need this nad its due tomorrow yes i no stupid to do things last min. but you no i forgot..

so whay would you be for or against or both on abortion?
please help!

Im against abortion I think its really cruel if you can't keep your baby there is always a family willing to adopt a new baby.
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im 16.. im in love with a guy that is 15. we went out for 4 months. but ive known him for almost 3 years now. i lost my virginity to him. one day we did it and everything was normal. the next day he calls me and says, "lets take a break, then when i think we are ready to make this a serious thing ill ask you back out." i was just like um okay? well then a couple days later i hear hes going out with some chick from his school. so hes "taking a break with me" to go out with some other chick. that really hurt me. because im in love with him. well i saw him and he didnt say anything to me. he kept like 10 feet away from me. and i was pissed off about the whole situation. then the next day i call him to talk about everything going on and he called me a b**** and i was like why are you calling me that? and he was like i heard what you said to people last night about me. i was like what did you hear? hes like you just trash-talked about me the whole night to my friends and family. and he hung up on me. so i call him back and left him a message, because he didnt answer, and i was crying and i said "the only thing i said to anyone was that i was in love with you". and that is the first time i told him how i felt about him. ive never told him i was in love with him before. and i havent heard from him since. what should i do about this whole situation and the next time i see him? and i see him quite often because my mom works for his dad. i dont know what to do PLEASE help. this may turn into suicide. he was the only thing i had.

DONT KILL YOURSELF!!! Ive been through the same thing and had the same thoughts I thought I was going to die I loved this guy alot and he ripped my heart out, I thought I would never love again. I didnt date for awhile but then I moved school because I started failing classes and skipping class. I found one guy but broke up with him cuz he wwas a weirdo. Then I dated a guy named James who I broke up with after like a month. Now Im with Stephen and Im starting to love again. You will get over it. Listen hunn DO NOT TAKE YOUR LIFE OVER A BOY!!! You will move on just like I did, Please dont hurt yourself
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This is embarrassing im 15 almost 16 and my penis is not that big 3.5 inches long and my girlfriend
laughed when she saw it it was really embarrassing
i like her a lot im not sure if well stay together
does size matter that much to girls?

I dont really care about the size of someones penis i mean if i like the guy i dont really care about the size of his penis. If she really liked you she wouldnt care.
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me and my boyfriend went to a party and all I remaber is like dancing and all but then the next day I woke up next to my boyfriend and we where both naked and we both didnt remeber what happenend

I am pretty sure you had sex i mean u dont just wake up naked next to ur boyfriend

My boyfriend and I had sex about 2 weeks ago almost and on Monday (This passed monday) He didn't have a condom on the first like 10 seconds we did it but then after that he had one on and we didn't finish because I was scared we just stopped. It was a total of about 5 minutes at the most. I woke up on Monday and I went to go to the bathroom and it would burn when I'd pee. So I went to the doctor and she took a urine sample and I just got the test results back today and she said that it was positive for a bacteria. I'm a little scared because I don't know if there is a chance I could be pregnant at all. I was at my least fertile the day we did it but I'm just scared. I've been trying so hard to get information on it and I'm fed up searching countless sites for the answer. Can ANYONE, for the love of GOD PLEASE tell me if coming up positive for a bacteria could be that I am pregnant? I've talked to my boyfriend about and he said that the chances were very low and this was before I got my results back. Can you Please please please tell me if getting your urine sample back as POSITIVE for a BACTERIA could I be pregnant? Thank you SO much if you can help me!!

I think your pregnet!. Good luck!

So, My really good friend just commited suicide and I really wanna read up on reancarnation. Does anyone know any really good books about that?

Twenty Cases Suggestive of Reincarnation: Second Edition, Revised and Enlarged, Many lifes many masters. There is tons of books. I am sooooooo sorry about your friend

is it right to make love when there is no love?

no that is like one night stand. It makes you look bad

My bf and i are 15 and his penis is almost 6 inches long is that about average? he's a bit shy about it.

Ya thats pretty average as long as you two are happy thats all that matters. XoXoLexiXoXo

Okay. My boyfriend and I are thinking about going for the whole oral sex thing...and something about the whole subject really weirds me out. Like, I can't imagine giving a guy a blowjob, but it weirds me out even more to think of him going down on me.
For background, we've been together over 11 months, we've had sex, and we've usually kinda skipped over the oral issue. If it matters, I'm 17 and he's 18. I know I should just wait 'til I'm comfy with the whole idea, but I don't think I'll be comfy with it until I figure out what it is that's weirding me out. Anyone have any ideas?

if you already have sex with him its not the end of the world. Yay if he pisses in your mouth you can freak. But this is just what i am saying dont go to far you are 17 you could gets aid's or something dont ruin you life over sex

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