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So I got this new boyfriend. We've been going out for two weeks. I asked a question before about sex, with my other bf. We broke up and now i have this new bf. I was so used to having sex with my other bf and I havent started having it yet with my new one. I dont wanna sound like a slut, I don't wanna ask for it. There has been opportunities, but i don't know what to do? i don't even know if he wants to!!
Please help!
well i would wait a little and just get comfortable with him for awhile first because its not always good to start having sex with your bf so soon. talk to him about it and see how he feels about it because thats all you can really do is talk about things and see how both of you feel about everything to make sure you are both on the right page ya know?? talking is the best thing to do because you dont even know if he really wants to at all well he probably wants to because hes a guy lol but like if he just wants to get to know you more or whatever just for know. ask him these quesions. then you will feel better about things and then youll know what to do and so will he.
ha alright so the other morning me and my boyfriend woke up and we had sex and after we were just laying there like cuddling.. and all of a sudden hes like oh damn do you have your period and i was just like uh no.. and then i looked down and i was like oh damn i do ahh and i got it a week early so idk i was getting it and we both had blood on us and we ran to the shower and took a shower and then we also realized after that the condom was broken and that he probably came inside me .. so now were both kinda freaking out because im only 15 and hes 18 and so we dont know what we should do.. should we just wait it out and see if i get my next period.. or since i had it will i not get pregnant?
take a test 10 days before your next period and then it will tell you dont wait to long. and its possible for you to be pregnant even though u just got your period because you got your period while having sex and so he still came in you so that period basically doesnt count kinda if you got pregnant it would show the next period. your greatest chances of getting pregnant is before you get your period and after your period thats when your ovulating but you can get pregnant at anytime but the chances are lower. well if you have anymore questions write in my inbox and il help you out with anything..
My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and we are totally in love. He's 17 and is still a virgin because he wanted to wait for a girl who's still a virgin also and has all the other qualities he wants(which is me). In the beginning of our relationship he told me that he would never ask for sex but things are changing now. He'll be 18 this month and he wants us to have sex on his birthday. At first i was fine with it because there was no way that either of us would catch anything since we've never done anything. But I've realized that I want to wait until marriage and he is kind of mad but tries to hide it. He said that he still loves me and nothing will change. But i know he is extremely disappointed. I want our relationship to be awesome without sex. so I just dont know what to do....any advice would be helpful
do what you want to do and if he loves you he will understand your decision and respect it. having sex isnt all that great you dont have to do that to prove that you love eachother. my friend for example told me that she was goin to have sex with her boyfriend because she says that having sex means you really love that person. So she means you have to have sex after you have sex with your bf/gf then that means you truely love them but i think that you can love someone without having sex with them. Everyone thinks that having sex seals the deal with things but it doesnt you can be in love with someone and care about them fully before having sex with them..sex is just an act like showing that you love someone isnt bein physical with them tell your bf that and see what he says. tell him how you feel about it and talk to him maybe he will realize why you dont wanna have sex right now. if he gets mad over you not wanting to have sex with him then he doesnt truely love you like he says he does. and dont just do it because you wnat to keep him as your bf because you might regret having sex with him in the long run. i hope everythin works out and dont do anything you will regret in the future...think long and hard about everything and i hope i helped out a little bit because i regret having sex before marriage and id ont want people to make the same mistakes i did...if you think your ready then have sex but if you have any doubts about anything which i think you do since your asking for adive you shouldnt..well let me know how things go for you..
write me in my inbox if you have any questions...
15 ½ \f\ virgin
okay I wanna go on the pill, but I don't know how to tell my mom! I know i'm young... I just don't know what to tell her.
Please, what could I tell her? Or any excuses? like bad cramps becuase of pms....
thanks in advance!
I say just tell your mom the real reason why you wanna go on the pill. Most moms might get mad at that and asks tons of questions but just answer them because that will show your mom that you can trust her and thats what most parents want their kids to do is to trust them and to tell them things. I know its hard to tell your mom or dad or whoever in your family about that kind of stuff but getting close to your mom and talking to her is better than lying to her because if she finds out the real reason she might be even more mad at that than the fact that your having sex. But do what you feel comfortable doing.
i am 4m india. mujhe muth maarne ki aadat 4 saal se hai.jiske kaaran mein bahut weak ho gaya hoon .age-18 . plz give me a suitable advice.and how to enlarge my testis and penis yo normal size?
umm.. i cant read it but the normal size of a penis is 4to 6 inches
Hi. I am a 17-yr-old female & I've only had sex twice: about 8 months ago (my ex used a condom) and 5 months ago (again, he used a condom). I've been on the Yaz bc pill for about 9 months, & about 2 and a half weeks ago, I started spotting just about a week after my period. I guess its spotting, b/c my discharge is REALLY light tan, like a little brown tinge, but it smells the same & has the same consistency. I don't know what this is, but I spotted all the way up to my period, which i am on now. my period is normal, except for more brown blood than usual. I am really paranoid about STDs and I am going to the ob-gyn in the next few weeks or so. does this sound like a disease?
to me it doesnt sound like a disease...and if he used protection than you shouldnt be worried unless you gave him oral and he didnt have a condom on that could give you a disease but not down by your vag. but just to be on the safe side make sure you get checked out because it could be something else like wrong up there ya know. Well let me know how things go and how you are.
hi..me an my gf have been haveing sex when my penis goes up i put the condom on and it jus goes down again i really want to hav sex but it just goes down is there any way i can make it stay up an i dont wana use those pills that make it stay up..is there any oher way??..thanks
well how old are you? and does it go down as soon as you put it on? idk why it would do that you must have a problem or something...and does it do that all the time i mean have you even had sex yet?
19/f
Okay I'm kinda in a bad situation. This 23-year-old man and I are friends, well more like friends with benefits. He has a girlfriend, but he and I have been messing around since February. It started off as him giving me a massage, but it developed into something I didn’t expect. I know that it’s wrong but it feels so right. LOL!! I'm a virgin (by intercourse), and he knows it, but he is not. He says he doesnt't mind it, but i dont believe him. We have gotten as far as oral sex. Sometimes I feel like I want to have sex with him so bad, and other times I feel like I should wait. My question is should I have sex with him since we already gone so far?
2) When we get together to mess around, he calls me “baby”. Well he doesn’t call me anything else but “baby” when we mess around. Is that just because he is into the moment or am i blowing things out of proportion?
3) He asked me did i miss him over the summer, and i said no but i miss what we do. He said me too, and asked me why I didn’t miss him. i told him that i just didn’t and then he got mad. Does that mean he wanted me to? And does that mean that he missed me?
4) Should I stop messing around with him? Please give me a reason!!!
first off i woulda never agreed to be that with him because hes cheating on his gf thats so wrong. I dont think you would want to be cheated on so wen she finds out how do you think she is goin to feel? Dont you feel weird and bad that your doing that esp. since he has a gf? i would. well i think the baby thing is just when hes in the moment alot of guys say that when they are messing around with a girl. I think he missed you if he got mad at the fact that you didnt miss him as a person but missed what he was doing to you. i think he thought there was more to it as just that and that you actually cared about him and that you missed spending time with him not just messing around. if he didnt care about you as a person then he wouldnt of got mad at the face that you didnt miss him. How can you not miss someone that your messing around with esp. if you didnt have sex yet? Most girls care about the person that they are messing with but the guys are the ones who dont care about the girls so that was shocking for me to read. I think that maybe he is getting attached to you and wants something more than just to be friends with benefits because most people who are friends with benefits dont really care but it sounds like he does if he missed you over the summer. I would talk to him about it and see what he is feeling, tell him to tell you the truth about it and if i was you i would stop messing around with him because
1. he has a girlfriend
2. You dont want anything more than just to be friends with benefits.
If you have to ask about having sex then your not ready and your having doubts about it so i dont think thats a good idea because you may regret doin it in the long run. Let me know wat happens and i hope things work out the way you want them too.
Why do young girls come on here to ask about sex when they can't even spell right? I find this to be a very sad look at young girls in american society today. Do you agree?
i agree with you 100% because i dont think its right for these 13 yr olds to be asking about sex they are wayy to young to be having sex. i dont know why girls cant wait i mean at a young age no one knows wat love is and they always say i ''love'' him and they really dont and the guys dont really love them either they are just sayin that to have sex with them i wish some girls were a little more smart and i wish they would realize that there isnt a rush in having sex i mean its not that great when your doing it with a random person that you really dont care about.Having sex should be special when you love someone and care about them deeply most people say they care about them but they really dont and they realize that after they have sex. All young girls should wait for that stuff. soo i agree with you and i wish girls would realize that they dont have to do that at a young age because everyone else is doing it everyone should be their own person adn shouldnt follow people.
But the guy i want to do it with is 10 years older than me what should i do
well if you love him i dont see a problem in it but it really depends on your age. but i wouldnt do it with him if you dont really like/ love him because when you do that there is alot of feelings through it all and if he doesnt really like you then your goin to get hurt. How old are you and how old is he?
15/f
ok so i went out with this guy for like a year and then broke up w/ him like right before summer. we got in like a huge fight and we stopped talking and stuff. now were like friends again and we talk.. not like a lot but we do talk. anyways we wanna like hang out soon.. but he wants to like hook up and im like fine with that. but he like wants me to give him a bj too..but like should i? or is that really slutty? i was really close with him i mean we went out for like a year. and like its weird bc now when we talk its like its the same.. like i still trust him & everything its weird.
hey, its all up to you really you have to feel comfortable with him. If you think that its slutty then dont do it but just go with your gut feeling and if your asking us about it then your not ready to be doing that with him at least not right now. I think its kinda weird but i understand that you tlak to him and its like the same as when you were going out but dont be his bitch dont let him think he can run to you for anythin at anytime because alot of guys start to think that and if you let him do that you will just get hurt. if you do that he will probably think wow i can hurt this girl but i can go back to her at anytime just by sayin sorry. that happened to my friend and he just kept hurting her soo watch out girl i wouldnt want you to get hurt. tell me if i helped you
im 15 male and well im very small downstairs
and im really worried im not sure if any girl will want to be with me will it grow?
hi, dont be worried it will grow but not that much every guy is different and if a girl really likes you then that wont matter to them. but if you go out with a girl for sex then that will be a problem because alot of girls that only want sex they want a big penis but i really dont care if i really like a guy its for him not his penis but after awhile i would probably say something. Just find a girl thats not shallow and not a whore and you will be fine. and if u dont mind me asking how big is it like have u measured? Your 15 you got soooo much time to have sex and grow
im 16 and decided to have sex with my bf its our first time but he had trouble getting his penis in
it hurt a bit when he pushed in it happened a second time his penis is about the average size im worried i might to tight what can i do?
well you cant really do anything yu just have to have sex a couple more times for you to stretch out. you can try masturbating and having sex for it to stretch that will help out it will hurt like 5 more times or so then it should be ok are you using tampons?
My boyfriend is 17, and i'm almost 16. We've been dating for 4 months, and I really love him! I know he will wait as long as I want to wait until we have sex. But I dont want him to wait to long? How do I know he wont leave me? If he wants to.. should I? HELP :(
if your having doubts about it and you have to ask people if your ready then your not ready. you'll know when your ready believe me and your young yet and if he really loves you or likes you then he wont leave you he will respect that. But if he leaves you then he definately didnt like you or love you he was just using you to get in your pants. When it comes down to it if you end up doing it which most girls do and they regret it you wont know if he was using you until you do have sex with him. If he leaves you after thtat then you didnt deserve him and hes an asshole. But if you have any doubts which i think you kinda do then i wouldnt do it. I had the same problem too and i realized that sex isnt everything i mean do you want your relationship to be all about sex thats not a good relationship if its all about that. Most girls i know after they have sex their bfs think they want it all the time and the girls end up doing it everyday even if they dotn want too because their afraid of their bfs leaving them and the guys know thats how they feel but some guys are heartless so i would be careful with that. I know your probably sayin that you wouldnt have sex all thte time but thats what every girl says and it ends up being all the time. So that could happen and i dont think you want to be in that kind of relationship and if you do just to have your bf stay with you then thats fine have sex with him but i would wait for a little longer 4 months isnt a long time and your 16. if you have anymore questions cuz ive been through it all and im sure i can help you or try you can write me in my inbox or heres my sn
xoxokatiebabiixo
my penis is very small i.e only 4".Actually it was not the same size as earlier. earlier it used to be longer and thicker.But daybyday it is becoming smaller and i ejaculate soon also.please don't gimme any washy-washy answers but please be honest and advice me.If i suffer from any kind of diesease?
i think you should go see a specialist and see wat they say i mean no one on here can give you a perfect answer which i think you need in this case. so thats my advice for you. srry but i cant help anymore than that ok if you have any more questions on somethin else you can write me in my inbox
-katelyn
okay. so im 15. nd my boyfriend wants us to go farther than what we have.. and so do i. but i know like your gonna orgasm and stuff. but i dont know if i'll sound stupid. what do i sayy like when im about to have an orgasm? yeah i know i sound dumb. but i just want to be aware. oh and what are some "techniques" i guess to giving head. does anyone have any suggestions. i'm an only child soo i kinda need advice with this stuff from someone other than my mom. cause i think we could all agree that would be awkward. thanks guys.
well usually you just end up making a noise. Every person has a different sounding noise so no one can really tell you wat noise to make because it comes down to when your having sex. Dont worrying about sounding stupid because hes the only one hearing you and im sure he will enjoy the noises you make. I usually just say anything that i think of that moment. lol
about giving head, every guy likes different things if you have given him head already then ask him what he likes. Do different things and ask him if he likes it and if he likes a certain way you do something then do it. Its really all about communication. If you guys tell eachother wat you guys each like then if will be more enjoyable for the both of yins. I mean i dont think anyone wants something done to them that they dont like. That wouldnt be any fun. So just communicate with him and talk to eachother and remember dont be worried about sounding stupid because if you get all worried then you wont be able to enjoy the moment. Ok well i hope i helped if you need anymore help you can write me in my inbox.
-katelyn
my boyfriend and i were doing it one ngiht and i didnt know he taped it. and he showed it to all his friends they write whore on my locker and my desks and they always stare at me. i yelled at my boyfriend for it but he said i have a nice body and should show it some more. what should i do?
Im sooooooo sorry that happened to you! thats just so terrible. I would dump his fucking ass!!!! Thats sooo wrong to do that to a girl. Thats sooooo embarrassing. I would press charges right away. i wouldnt care that he said you have a nice body if you wanted to show it to the whole world you would be a pornstar! he had no right to video tape that without asking you. Im sorry again and i hope everything turns out better for you! Try to ignore those immature boys. its hard to do that i know but if they say soemthing to you kick their ass's haha!
ok well if you need anymore help wih anythin or need someone to talk too you can wrtie me in my inbox :]
-katelyn
Hello, out of interest, what is the average unerect penis size?
Thanks
hey i would say 4-5 inches. But if you find out the exact answer let me kno lol.
xoxo
-katelyn
Phewf. Okay. 15/f. (This is coming from a girl who has NEVER had sex...and won't for a long time)
Okay. I like guys. I like girls too, though. I would love to have a relationship with a guy. ANYTHING EXCEPT having ANYTHING to do with male genitalia....It just GROSSES me out COMPLETELY. Yet, I don't find myself a lesbian. I just CANNOT imagine being penetrated by a guy/oral sex, etc. I find it utterly disgusting (forgive me If this is offending). But....on the other hand, I would also LOVE to have a relationship with a girl..and the thing is - I DON'T MIND being sexual with a girl at all! It's like - BRING IT ON. (lol)...I find this very strange. But I get extremely aroused when I see a picture of a naked woman....or something. But, when I (if ever) get to see a naked man...I'm just grossed out. It's as if, with a guy....it's only everything ABOVE his pants, that I am "optimistic" about. AND HERE'S ANOTHER PROBLEM - I don't want sex with a guy, But I want a baby in the future! With a girl...it's flat out, straight - "BRING IT ON". Am I normal?
Help, please?
Hi,
i think ur lesbian and theres nuthin wrong with that. I mean people that are bi usually like to see both naked guys and girls and not get grossed out so i think that you really like girls. YOu can still have kids and stuff but your young yet so your mind might change. YOu might grow out of it eventually. =]
ok well if you have any questions you can write me in my inbox k
~katelyn~
what does it mean when a guy bleeds from his penis ?
WOwo i dont know but that doesnt sound really good to me. If your bf is bleeding from his penis maybe he should go see a doctor or something. Sorry i couldnt really help but i hav no clue. ok if you hav anymore questions please ask me!
~katelyn~