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Am I sexually NORMAL?!
Phewf. Okay. 15/f. (This is coming from a girl who has NEVER had sex...and won't for a long time)
Okay. I like guys. I like girls too, though. I would love to have a relationship with a guy. ANYTHING EXCEPT having ANYTHING to do with male genitalia....It just GROSSES me out COMPLETELY. Yet, I don't find myself a lesbian. I just CANNOT imagine being penetrated by a guy/oral sex, etc. I find it utterly disgusting (forgive me If this is offending). But....on the other hand, I would also LOVE to have a relationship with a girl..and the thing is - I DON'T MIND being sexual with a girl at all! It's like - BRING IT ON. (lol)...I find this very strange. But I get extremely aroused when I see a picture of a naked woman....or something. But, when I (if ever) get to see a naked man...I'm just grossed out. It's as if, with a guy....it's only everything ABOVE his pants, that I am "optimistic" about. AND HERE'S ANOTHER PROBLEM - I don't want sex with a guy, But I want a baby in the future! With a girl...it's flat out, straight - "BRING IT ON". Am I normal?
Help, please?
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Okay. I like guys. I like girls too, though. I would love to have a relationship with a guy. ANYTHING EXCEPT having ANYTHING to do with male genitalia....It just GROSSES me out COMPLETELY. Yet, I don't find myself a lesbian. I just CANNOT imagine being penetrated by a guy/oral sex, etc. I find it utterly disgusting (forgive me If this is offending). But....on the other hand, I would also LOVE to have a relationship with a girl..and the thing is - I DON'T MIND being sexual with a girl at all! It's like - BRING IT ON. (lol)...I find this very strange. But I get extremely aroused when I see a picture of a naked woman....or somethin...
i know what your saying, i have the same problem. im not a lesbian but i like to look at girls. if you wanna talk about it IM me anytime .. just send me your AIM address.
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Yes, you're normal. You're a completely normal lesbian. This may sound obvious, but the definition of a lesbian is a girl who is only sexually attracted to other girls. And that's exactly you. Don't worry about the label, being a lesbian can be a good thing. I know I was afraid of that label because of all of the stigma that goes with it. But some of us lesbians don't always fit the stereotype, and it doesn't make you any less of a lesbian. I hope that helps.
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I noticed you changed your question a little. If you're still confused, you can add me on myspace, the link to my site is www.myspace.com/paperbecky
or IM me on aol @ becstasyshock and I'd be happy to give you more advice/info
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i dont think you're nessecarily a lesbian but you're definatly bi. theres nothing at all wrong with you. you probably like girls more then guys right now. im bi and i personally like guys more then girls. teenagers, having a whole lot of hormones, get turned on easier so as you get older you may feel differently
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Hi,
i think ur lesbian and theres nuthin wrong with that. I mean people that are bi usually like to see both naked guys and girls and not get grossed out so i think that you really like girls. YOu can still have kids and stuff but your young yet so your mind might change. YOu might grow out of it eventually. =]
ok well if you have any questions you can write me in my inbox k
~katelyn~
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Your a lesbian.
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well straight girls sometimes feel weird around male genetalia as well, but you may be more inclined towards women. if you are - it's normal, there's nothing wrong about being a lesbian. but you may eventually grow out of it, it might just be a teen thing. just try dating both guys and girls, maybe have sex with a girl (if you're not ready to be penetrated by a guy), see if anything changes about the way you feel. and if you are a lesbian, it doesn't mean you can't have babies - there's always sperm banks and all that stuff =)
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You're definitely bi-sexual. And that's fine. It's completely normal to like one sex more than the other while being bi. As I'm also bi-sexual, I tend to go for the guys more than the girls, but I honestly wouldn't mind hooking up with either. =) You're completely normal hun, so don't even worry about it.
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