i am 22, i love helping people. I have been through alot even though i am still young. I know alot about friend problems, dating, meeting people online, seriouse realtionships, sex, computers, and even parenting. i dont know anything about music that would be one thing i am not good at. I am more than happy to help any one who needs it.
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Occupation: at home mom kind of
Age: 22
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If my boyfriend just touch my vagina with his panis and the liquid is fell into my cloths and on my thies than three should be any possibility of getting pragnent. He is only touch my vagina not pussing and his penis is not going inside me.
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cosmo last month had that answer in it, i think it said yes there was a small chance not big but very small.
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hey sry this is personal, but i wana know if u and/or ur friends shave.. "down there" should i? or shud i not? thanks ;) (link)
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i do, i have heard good and bad about it. I always hear go get waxed or leave it but i do shave. I havent had any problems, if you get a cut i would go to the doctor if it didnt get better with in a week.
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Hey, so I have a question about my orgasms. In my previous relationship, I was fingered and eaten out but I never orgasmed. Partly, I blame this on my ex because he stopped after about 30 seconds, so I didn't really have time to build up to that point. I think he didn't realize that it takes a little bit of time and effort.
Anyways, when I masturbate, I have really nice orgasms and when I keep going, I can orgasm many, many times in a row. The thing is, I can only reach orgasm by squeezing my thigh and butt muscles together while I stimulate myself. I've tried to orgasm without doing this, but I have to tighten at least a little otherwise I can't. Is this abnormal?
I feel like this is another reason that my ex couldn't make me orgasm, because I wouldn't be squeezing those muscles. If we were still together, I could probably explain what I needed to do so I could orgasm, but I'm a little scared that with the next boyfriend I have, he will think its weird or something. So I'm just wondering if its normal?
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they may not notice. are u like clintching or litarly hands on squeezing. If its just clentching they will think its a reaction to you getting off but ifs its hands on maybe tell them you love the pressure and its a trick to make it awesome guys wont mind at all they will be happy you told them so they can make you happy.
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So, my boyfriend and I have been dating almost a month, but we've been together for about three and a half. We've never had actual sex, but we are close. We hang out a lot, and we have a lot of alone time. I do a lot of sexual things for him, and he enjoys it. But i'm often let down, cuz when I think he's going to do something sexual for me, he doesn't. He almost never does, and I feel like i'm in a one sided sexual relationship. Not only that, but it makes me feel as tho he's not really attracted to me. At first he was really into it, but recently he never seems to want to do anything for me. I know I need to talk to him, but how do I start a conversation like that? What kind of things do I say to him? I just need help. Please? (link)
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i know this answer will probley be booed. but if i have a question for my bf i dont want to ask him i text it to him. immature maybe but it makes it easyer. maybe he is comftorable enough with you that he feels like you enjoy doing it idk. good luck.
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well i can't just go out and buy a vibrator, so i use a back massager. i have underwear on when i'm doing it and even shorts most the time. but could i get an infection from using that as a vibrator? (link)
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it should be ok but make sure you wash it if its just your panties on because then there could be a small chance of getting an infection. i think just wash it.
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ok i am 22 and been with my fair share of men sexually and maybe more then needed. i have never had a guy that can last over a hour which is fine with me because that is about my cut off as well lol. i recently got together with a friend from work who is 18 and i was figuring you know being that young would be a 30 minute go and be done. 3 hours later he had still not "got off" and i just had to give up lol is this normal because maybe ive just always been with guys that have no clue what they are doing but who knows. i really dont see this being normal especially for a 18 year old. (link)
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some guys just try to last longer. they have there little tricks maybe he was showing off it not WOW
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Does anyone know a site where I can ask a question on sex. I believe my question would be too graphic for this site because of how young most of the people here seem to be. :\ Or maybe a girl that would be old enough to answer my question (im 16) (link)
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you can write me if you want i am 22 female with exsperence. ( who cant spell lol ) but girlsaskguys.com may be what you are looking for good luck
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15 m well i have been dating tgis girl for awhile but she is really prude all she will do is makeout me... i really want have some sort of sex (link)
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you are to young for sex go get a you or something she isnt a prude she sounds like she is very smart. you dont want babys at this age so wait :)
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well me & this guy were messing around. & he was talking about how tight i was ,cause he could barely fit one finger in me. he eventually loosened me up enough ,but not enough for his dick to go inside. just the head was going in i guess. idk. anyway ... it hurt really bad ,but in a good way? haha. now sometimes i even crave that pain . i mean it did hurt quite a bit ,but i really liked it. does anyone know why i'm like that? (link)
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some people love the thrill. it gets your adrelian going alot of people are like that. its normal but dont go to far and get really bad hurt.
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What can happen if i take plan b and i didn't have sex? i dont remember if i did or not... But i want to be sure.
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it will have the same effect make you sick and get rid of everything that lets you become pregant. its ok to take it better be safe then sorry
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I have a problem. I'm 17 and ready to have sex. I WANT to have sex. I mean, I don't want to do it just to do it. I really WANT to. I'm completely ready. Problem- I don't have a boyfriend...agh! What do I do? (link)
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just wait till you are in love sex isnt something you rush into you will get hurt in the end. maybe just masterbate.
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me and my boyfriend have sex alot, but i can never seem to have an orgasm. I was to be able to scream with pleasure. How can i have an orgasm while having sex? (link)
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get on top and take control or maybe use a toy. foreplay always makes things better some times girls rush into it and arnt ready for sex. so tons of flore play and relax.
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i am a 18 year old male and i need some good advice with my girlfriend? :/ recently we have been experimenting with four play, but everytime i try to stimulate her clit, or finger her it feels good at first but then i have to stop cause it always hurts her. i tried using my tongue, but even that eventually started hurting, i always stop when she says it hurts. i just want to figure out how to pleasure her, without hurting her?... please help? (link)
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maybe let her show you how. she may not be comftoralbe doing that. i used to say stop it hurts if i was uncomftorable or it was taking to long and i was nervouse that something was wrong with me. but if it really hurts she may need go to gyno.
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lately whenever i'm around guys, no matter how old, i'll try to look better; letting my cleavage show a lot more, more sway in my step, smiling, flirting, etc. today we had a substitute and i did the same with him. i have a boyfriend and i'm very happy with him, but why am i trying to get basically ever male i come in contact with to lust over me? i'm really not that self-absorbed. (link)
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maybe your bf isnt giving you enough attintion. nothing is wrong with wanting some guys to like you or want you just dont get any of them in trouble and dont cheat
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I NEED HELP... i HAVE REPEATEDLY ATTEMPTED TO END MY LIFE....I NEED ADVICE,,, I HATE MYLIFE... I FEEL AS IFF U GUYS HAVE TO BE IN MY SHOES TO KNOW EXACTLY WEA IM COMING FROM... ITS NOT EASY LIVING THE LIFE THAT I AM LIVING...... ETC, (link)
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things may suck now but there is always something in everyone future. so dont its not worth it just be strong now and let life run its course maybe you should go talk to some one. i was misserable and i figured out that i was bipolar and depressed gave me meds now i am happy. good luck please just wait for the future it will be wonderful
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((I'm 15/f))I think i am ready for sex but im not all that sure cause sometimes i think about it and think that i might regret it in the future. I REALLY like this guy tho. Also, I'm kinda scared that it will hurt really bad and i'm scared that i might not know what to do. What do u think? (link)
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take it from me if you really like a guy and you not dating dont do it. unless you are in love not like its not the best idea for your first time. your young becareful , are you on the pill if not then you need to wait till you are.
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well a few weeks ago a friend was going to commit suicide. so me and my bff decided to take her moms car while she was asleep to go to the girls house n make sure she was ok. and this was all at 3am. well my friend crashed the car n we got charged with grand theft auto and were both in hospital for a week n a half. now my mom wont let me see my best friend anymore and its killing me. this girl is like my sister and she didnt mean to crash the car. whether my mom lets me or not, im still gonna see my best friend whenever i can but id rather not be getting in trouble for it. i think its stupid to have to lie but i dont know hhow to convinve my mom to let me see her again. please help, its killing me (link)
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maybe your mom is right you could of been killed. it doesnt sound like she is very responsible friend. just be safe
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lately i've been thinking about suicide. I cry every night and im always sad. i keep trying to find things to make me happy. But nothing works anymore. i feel like theirs nothing really to live for. nobody loves me. and I don't think anyone ever will. im just unlovable. I want to be happy so bad. please just tell me what could make me happyy. or why I should live. i just need something, anything. I don't want to die but I don't want to feel this pain anymore. i just can't do it (link)
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you should feel happy to be alive everyone has rough patchs some longer then othere. but there is a future and no telling what will be in it. there is a chance you just need to go to a pychratirst and talk about things. medicine can help and do wonders i know first hand. good luck and life is great and there is always mysterys in the future so dont look down on now cause things will get better.
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k so there's this guy that i've liked since 8th grade(i'm going into 10th).He's been going out with one of my good friends for about 11 months. She went out of town for 2 weeks and the other night, i snuck out to meet this guy at his house and we got drunk. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex.He and his girlfriend havent even had sex yet. We haven't mentioned it to each other since. Do you think he was using me for pussy? because we've been like bestfriends for awhile now. should i feel guilty? because i feel bad for what HE did to her not for what I did to her...please answer this-i really need advice (link)
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the guy does deserve to feel bad but you should to. its not fair to do that to your friend. if one of your friends did that to your i know you would be pissed. you should be ashamed of your self. and most likely a guy that would cheat isnt up to any good so he probley was just looking for a good time. not trying to sound rude or anything but you really need to grow up and learn that friends are hard to find and very hard to be a good one and you need alot of work.
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I recently started the pill(almost two months ago), so I'm still spotting.
However, last night I had sex with my boyfriend without a condom (we're both clean when it comes to STDs and so on; both been tested) and I'm slightly worried whether the pill is still effective, even if you're spotting?
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if you take it at the same time each day and dont miss one your fine. but if you are really worried in the future use a condom.
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