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Q: Ok im 17/f .. Im about to be 18 in august and im like really wanting to have a baby..like REALLLY REALLLLY BAD..and im on birth control would it be wrong if I stopped taking my birth control without my boyfriend knowing just to get pregnant?..we want a baby just not now maybe in 5 years he said. But I want one now...
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First of all ,
you need to tell your boyfriend , that you're trying to get pregnant ,
because if you do it w.o him knowing ,
thats just basically calling for drama .
its gunna make you look like ,
you're only getting pregnant to keep him in your life practically forever .
think bout it ,
because your life will change .
xoxo .riiy a.
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Q: I was just wondering if you are supposed to shave your pubic hair?
Like do you only shave it before sex, or do you just shave it all the time!
I need help, haha.
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Shaving your pubic hair is just find .
don't do it everyday , because you can cut yourself really bad .
but everytime the hair grows back a lil thick .
then shave it .
& yes ,
you should shave before sex ,
its kinda gross .
xoxo riiy a.
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Q: hi,
im 14 and my penis is 4.5 inchs hard. is this correct or is it small for my age.
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yes that is a bit small ,
but you are fourteen , so you have about 7 more years to grow ,
you usually stop growing everything when you're about 20-21 years old ,
hope i helped
xoxo
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Q: i'm not looking for songs about love...just sex..they can be about sex or just have a good beat i don't really care but i don't like r&b very much...rock and alternative rock and punk and stuff are good...i like things with a fast pace and dirty lyrics
k thanks
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okay honestly ,
i listen to punk n stuff too .
but this song is good ,
it has rap in it
but just listen to it.
its called
Sex Out South
by: Tech N9ne
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Q: is it bad for girls to have pubes?
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nah ,
everybody got pubes babe .
but guys don't really like it if they go down on you ,
and it just looks a lil more better and pleasing when you wax or shave it .
i would prefer you to at least trim it in shape if you don't wanna wax or shave .
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Q: can you get pregnant if you have sex while on your period??
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Yes , you can get pregnant while ya on ya period ,
but its a less chance then if you were havin' unprotected sex while you're not on yur period .
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Q: i like 2 finger my self is is rong 4 13 yr old 2 do it? what can i use that feals like a dick besides frute like somethin round the house 4 plesure? help
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mm , no i don't think ya ever too young to masterbate , its very healthy , .
but you can use the handle of a brush .
or anything long and squishy .
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Q: okay so my boyfriend has fingered me a lot. i like it to a point but he like scrapes me when he does it. i know, ouch. but like on the outside to find it. how do i tell him that that DOESN"T feel good?
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well if he is your boyfriend ,
then that relationship needs honesty and communication . right ?
well don't cut around the bush ,
tell him straight up .
it might be a lil embarissing for him ,
but if you do that ,
then you can tell him what really feels good .
so you and him can enjoy it .
that last thing you wanna do is fake it .
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Q: what is making out? is it like frenching for a long time, or what?
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making out is yes , french kissing for a long time , that will possibly lead to more then just kissing .
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Q: give a hickey? It's probably a dumb question, but, I don't really know. Is it gonna hurt him?
Thanks :]
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mm ,
idk why you would wanna know ,
because they suck , seriously ,
but basically when you're making out w. him , and then start kissing his neck ,
it usually takes just sucking on his neck hard , but don't bite .
hah , hope i helped .
xoxo
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Q: Someone likes me. My friend told me that he only likes me because he probably thinks im easy. -- What makes a girl easy anyways? And how can he tell?
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well from just reading this ,
i can probably tell you aint easy cuz you don't even know what it means .
but anyways .
it means when a girl will practially let a guy do what ever he wants to her ,
pretty much being a hoe makes a girl easy .
xoxo
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Q: is it weird that i like to finger myself?
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NO .
thats called masterbation huh .
lots of people like doin it for pleasure ,
& you are one of those , theres no problem with that .
xoxo
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Q: i lost my virginity, i.e had sex for the first time but i didn't bleed(not even a lil bit). is there something wrong with me? am i alone? im really freaking out here.thanks.
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this is because he probably didn't pop your cherry . so you're perfectly fine , i know plenty of people that didn't bleed the first time .
xoxo
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Q: what does it mean when someone says a guy is "whipped"? and
what does it mean when you call someone a tool?
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When a guy is whipped that means that basically actin like hes' yur bitch ,
like he'll bend over backwards for you , when you tell him to jump he'll ask you how high .
you know ?
& and a tool means that your just using them ,
hope i helped
xoxo
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Q: Hey,
my boyfriend went to this club a couple of months ago and he said they were "grinding" I just found out what grinding meant.. not that long ago and I was just wondering : DO you think it's wrong for my bf to grind with him friends (that are girls!) like should I have been upset?
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It only depends ,
if that doesn't bother you then it doesn't bother you .
What somebody says shouldn't change your mind .
But to me ,
my opinion , i wouldn't like it ,
because boys get pretty turned on by that ,
and i wouldn't like it at all .
Next time you should go w. him ,
lol .
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Q: OK. Well I have a bf but am not planning on having sex THAT soon but I still have a question.
I have been hearing and reading [on here] that your first time hurts. And im wondering, does it hurt like REALLY bad, or is it worth it?? Because im kind of scared because I do not want it to hurt.
THANKS! any advice is wanted!
14/f
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Well people are different and it hurts for some people and others it doesn't .
Also , it depends on how big the guy is too .
If the guy is HUGE then it probably will hurt a bit , and maybe make you cry , if the guy is small or average then that only depends on how tight you are .
If you really love the guy then its definintly worth the pain , but if you're second questioning if you love him - like that - or not , then you should just wait ,
make sure you're ready .
not just like i'm physically ready .
you need to be emotionally ready too ,
like ready for the consequences and reactions and how different it will be and maybe even awkward .
you know what i'm mean ?
just be careful , and make sure you know what you're doing .
xoxo
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Q: honestly... Do you think age 15 and a half is too young to staart thinking about having sex when i'm like, 16?
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i honestly think ,
that there is no such thing as "too young"
unless you 12 or something .
but if you think you are ready ,
then thats all you need .l
xoxo
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Q: ok so im going to homecoming.
and this guys gonna be there.
and were kinda planning on hooking up
he said to "grab his balls"
how do you do that without hurting him? or making it awkward?
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Mm,
well you do it by not grabbing it really hard ,
touch it a lil bit , and rub it .
but make sure its sexy and not awkward .
don't do it in front of alot of people .
make sure if you WANT to do it .
do it when you guys are alone.
xoxo
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Q: 15/f
so me and my boyfriend just had sex yesturday. Only im not sure if its considered sex. I was a virgin and he wasnt. and his penis did go inside me but he didnt finish. It was taking a while and it kind of hurt and i was tired so we stopped. So i dont know if that counts or not.
help?
thanks
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Yes , if he stuck his penis in your vigina ,
that is consideried loosing your viginity .
Everybody has there own definition ,
but this is what i was taught , and what i believe , so yaah,
you lost it .
xoxo
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Q: For 1 I AM straight!
I'm really just wondering a couple things... haha idk why they just interest me.
1. Why do they call it a dick?
2. lets say there a lesbian who acts like a boy, and a gay guy that acts like a girl, couldnt they go out b/c they would go together! you know what i mean???
3. Why do they teach us stuff about sex in school, when at home parents dont want us to know about it, but then they put us in school???
thanks! and sorry if those confused you at all!
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1. idk why they call it a dick ,
its just slang for it , it sounds better than penis to me.
just like how we say pussy instead of vigina .
2. why a lesbian & a gay guy couldn't do all that is because a lesbian is attracted to girls and a gay guy is attracted to boys .
3. The school wants us to learn stuff that we don't know about , its health .
lol , nice questions
xoxo
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Ask me anything , and i'll be sure to try my best to give you an in-depth answer to your curiosity .
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Long Island , New York Occupation: Junior @ MVHS Member Since: August 14, 2007 Answers: 59 Last Update: June 23, 2008 Visitors: 3737
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