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fingering...
okay so my boyfriend has fingered me a lot. i like it to a point but he like scrapes me when he does it. i know, ouch. but like on the outside to find it. how do i tell him that that DOESN"T feel good?
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With your voice.
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well if he is your boyfriend ,
then that relationship needs honesty and communication . right ?
well don't cut around the bush ,
tell him straight up .
it might be a lil embarissing for him ,
but if you do that ,
then you can tell him what really feels good .
so you and him can enjoy it .
that last thing you wanna do is fake it .
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Hi Darl,
Yes the best thing to do is to guide his hand or you can just talk to him, just say go easy and make sure he doesn't go deep and just make sure it's a motion where it's in then out in then out and so on.
Mandy
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If you are afraid of telling him because you think you might make him angry or embarrass him, you could guide his hand. Next time you're in the moment, take his hand and put it where it should be. Most guys actually perceive this as a turn-on.
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this is a suggestion,i do it with my boyfriend sometimes.
place your hand on top of his and guide it around,be gentle with his hand,just dont jerk it around.
guys dont know what feels good to us,unless we tell them.
hope i helped.
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Well...just tell him.Its OK, he will have to keep looking till he finds out what works for you.Its how it goes girl.
As long as you keep faking it, he will never make you happy.
You can start by just letting him rub on your clit.It might tickle like hell though but you can work on it.
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