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Q: my friend told me that there is sperm in a guy's pre-cum and what I want to know if what is pre-cum and when does it come out of a guy's penis?
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yes there is..Pre-cum is actually during the whole intercurse or whatever that you are doing that it is intimate.It is sperm that releses from the penis, yes there is sperm in it.hope i helped.
grape™
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Q: Alright, so I'm 15/F, my boyfriend is almost 17/M. We've talked about losing our virginities to each other alot over the past month, and he wants me to wait until I'm perfectly ready. He said he wanted my first time [he doesnt really care about losing his] to be as special as ever and that if I wanted to plan it or whatever, for me to take as long as I need.
The thing is.. I don't care about my virginity now, but I don't want to regret it later. I love this boy, and I want to invest alot of my life on him, even if we aren't "together forever".
How can I make my first time special? It'll be at his house, most likely, when no one's home.
Also, I'd really appreciate it if you could tell me the story of your first time, and how that went.
Thanks.
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Well my first time was not as romantic as you may plan it.First off, I will just tell you that birth control and a latex condom will work but you can not always depend on a condom so that birth control is relatively helpful.and i would not just do one.DO BOTH.I BEG THAT YOU DO SO. i di only one.the condom.not so bad..but the condom did pop.and it mad me scared for months now I have been scared of ther result for later...
WEll the condom is too help protect against the STD's and pregnancy.the birth control is just all pregannacy. DO NOT HAVE SEX ON YOUR PERIOD OR SOMEWHERE NEAR CLOSE.YOU COULD STILL GET PREGNANT.
my first time was on his layed out comforters on the floor of his room because he had no bed..then it was too loud rap music..to keep moans from echoing out of the room while his grand mother..his daughter and his cousin was on the other side.then he kept getting me too hide so his grandmother wouldnt be so nosey..I started to eave but then I just wanted it o be over with..you know..i made a mistake and I wish I could take it back but see i respect the guy that is giving you your time and space, so just be careful..alright.hope i helped.
grape™
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Q: im kind of scared for sex ed because i think it will be embarassing especially learning about it with guys... and im really not looking forward to it. i think it will be akward. is this normal? and can you please share your experiences?
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I mean when they showed the womans vagina and the mans penis we all laughed but everybody kind of tensed up as if one or the other would say something..its not that big of a deal sorta i mean you are learning something you really need to know instead of using the search engines to find out info, sometimes they would give false info so why not learn from the video?
but really all you have to do is find out correct info if this gets any worse then switch from out of the class.and asks your parents or a close friend that could inform you with this matter.
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Q: If I have gone to 2nd or 3rd base (hand job, blow job, or if my partner performed oral/manual sex on me) and the doctor asks me if I'm sexually active, do I say yes?
By the way I'm not doing any of these things, but I probably will be in the future.
17, female
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I mean I even told my doctor NO.Im the same age as yu are, but if it is going that far without protection then say yes, they only ask you this because they consider birth control..so no BD.But it will be if it something such as just oral, many woman get mouth diseases now a days by just going down on a guy so choose wisely, if you will do that do it with a condom better safe then sorry right, but think of it this way, there are many condoms such as trojan that protects against STD and pregnancy, well...it is LATEX, but I would recommend a flavored condom...but on for oral and still make sure it is latex..this way there will be NO DISEASES in your mouth,as far as intercourse goes...LATEX is the way to go.YOU WILL ALWAYS NEED TO BE PROTECTED..i just answered a question before this one..it meantioned that it was the girls first time and she noticed that she put the condom on wrong then she goes and re-applies it. I mean im not saying she is dumb because this is her first time...but do not do such a thing..if the condom is on wrong..do not re-apply during intercourse..don't even re-apply it before there is a good cahnce that it may be a little rip in it after it was applied AGAIN.so im not saying do not say yes or say yes but if you feel that you need to be way protected then say yes.i hope i helped.
grape™
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Q: mostly do girl go on top or bottom?
wat do guys like best?
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either way, some guys like it when they can be able to put your legs up on their shoulders giving them better access this happens when they are on top. But when the girl is on top they like for the woman to contract her muscles of her vagina,(ryding a D*ck)this helps both cum faster, even the woman can get an massive orgam this way so you might enjoy this yourself.
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Q: I just lost my virginity yesterday and I used a condom but some precum did get in my vagina because I put the condom on the wrong way the first time then I switched it to the right way and reapplied it.
I'm on the 3rd day of my period now and I'm pretty scared that I'll get pregnant.
How long do I have to wait before I can take a pregnancy test that will give accurate results?
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Well yoou can still get your period during pregnancy so I feel that you are scared.the best time to take a test is now. Well depending on how you re applied that condom, you could be, not to even scare you but by reapplying that condom you put yourself at a greater risk of pregnancy, STD, or a disease.Not to say that your partner did have tose two. ut you would ever know.But do not re use or reapply a condom. Throw it away and do it the right way.If there is not another condom then dont have sex. wait another time.but it depends really on how long it took you too have your period after you have had sex.because a week or two, the fertilized egg i think they told me enters the uterus.I mean you can google it.because I have been through this same thing except it was not my frist time and I did not put on the condom, he did, but it still popped, which really got me angry.All i can say is either take the test now and see what it says and then take another when your other period comes, and that is if it comes during the next month.hope helped.
grape?™
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Q: both me and my fiancé have bad knees from old high school sport injuries. they're good some days and horrible other days, both right knees are the worst. what positions for sex are best that put the least amount of pressure on your knees.
thanks
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The person under me is right.always a side ways position helps best.and it actually increase pleasure.so the woman most likely will cum as well.
grape™
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Q: So I'm pretty much the most good goody you have ever seen. I'm 16/f. I have a 4.0 GPA. I am chosen to be in senior classes even though I am a shophmore. I do everything when I am suppose to do it and how I am supposed to do it. I have never drank, did drugs, or had sex. But I am so sick of being the same old boring me. All of my friends believe in no sex before marrige. Well now I'm starting to think sex before marrige isn't so bad as long as it's with someone you care about. Well I really want to change into someone who has a little more fun. No drugs though. But will I ruin my reputation? Is it worth the risk to ruin something like that? I am really tore. But I know I'm not one of those who wants to go out every night and get wasted. I just want to live some of my high school years in fun. It's not like I'm a dork either. I was prom queen my freshman year. I was homecoming attendant our first year. I'm "popular" I guess you would say. But anyways should I try it? Or should I just stick to the goody goody I am?
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Well. For one.just let loose. a little.tad bit. you shuldnt stay locked away in your good ole days all the time.have a little fun. And im not saying. go out and have sex either.or get wasted.or stoned/high.Just do some parties.every once in a while.hang with your friends more often.and try to find a guy to hang with for time being.guys are alot of fun.and im not talking just friend.hi.bye.im saying.more like.wanna be my boyfriend.maybe sex would come up.but keep your stance.remember.the guy wears the pants in the relationship.but u most certainly CONTROL THE zipper.feel me?
And yes to your question. its okay to have sex wth some one you feel you care about. ust as long as you are protected.you will be fine.and i really doubt that this will ruin your reputation.only you can ruin it if you decide to over due FUN.try not to pu all the partyng and friend and boyfriend in front of your reputation. because who knows could go wrong. and please i beg u to not rush into sex like i did.hope i helpes.
grape™
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Q: is masturbation different from fingering someone?
or they both the same?
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completely the same.
grape™
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Q: 17/m
okay, long story short my girlfriend and i want to start having sex again, but the problem is we have absolutely nowhere to go, the car is okay, but its cold outside, (freezing!!) and both our parents are always home. Is there anyone who could think of somewhere we could go, aside from like a hotel or something???? Thank you so much!!
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okay, sometimes(it may seem weird)you could ask a friend. And not just any old friend. But some one you really connect too.ask them is there a room you could use. Hang out. you know..really that is all i could tell you.cause your parents are home and the car is just not doing it.hope i helped.
grape™
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Q: having alot hair around vaginal mean can't get climax? and also while i am pregant still can get climax?
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well both are no.hair has nothing to do with your climax.and more than likely.alot of pregnant woman will climax more than the average non-pregnant woman.becuase their hormones are going wild.hope i helped.
grape™
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Q: 15/f
alright so me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on nov30 and i was suppose to get my period dec4 and i didnt.. and so i took a pregnancy test on new years day and it came out positive.. and then on jan4 i got my period and i had it for 6 days so i know it was my period and so my boyfriend told me to take another one today and i did and it said negative.. so how is that possible do you think the first one i took was just wrong? or do you think i really was pregnant and it just died? but i dont drink or smoke so i dont know how it would die? im just so confused. help? any advice is great
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okay well.you say you took a PT before your period.well.you were not supposed too.you supposed to wait and see if u get your period.because if you are in a hurry to take one before your period. there is a big chance you will get a false statement.you need all the hormones and stuff in your period to predict whether you are pregnant.truth be told.you were never pregnant.sometimes it will come out positive.but the second test was right because you actually had your period.hope i helped.and if your not to sure about my info.ask a doctor.or search on google with the wuestion.HOW LONG DO I HAVE TO WAIT IN ORDER TO TAKE A PREGNANCY TEST?.this question also works good on wikianswers.com
grape™
aight girl...i aint trippin off no damn ratings.dont act shitty.you are 15.dont know shit about pregnancy better yet sex at all.if u wanted real info.u needed to see a doctor.bitch i can read.believe me i know exactly what im talking about.feel me?.get your game right.ask a doctor.YOU DONT NEED ADVICE IF U GOIN GIVE A CRUMY ASS FEEDBACK LIKE THAT TO SOME ONE TRYING TO HELP YOUR SILLY ASS...peace.
grape™
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Q: What is it called when:
-the guy is completely naked.
-the girls only has her underwear on.
-the guy is on top of the girl.
-the guy's penis is on the girl's vagina.
-the guy really treats it like it were real sex. (he fingers, lick, etc.)
is this really sex? if, so is there a specific name? thanks in advance.
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foreplay.something you do before sex.its sex.but not intercourse.feel me?
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Q: if you are masturbating with your shower head (not like sticking it in there but like using the water and having high pressure) , can that be bad for you?
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No.your just pleasuring yourself with water.no harm in that.hope i helped.
grape™
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Q: Hey, My friend is having a tough time convincing her mother she's still a virgin (she's not).. but the problem is that the boy.. well man.. is 24 and she's 16. But, anyway, that's not the issue at stake. She was thinking about telling the gyno that her hymen was broken by a tampon, not a penis. But I'm not even sure if that's possible. Can it be broken by a tampon? Also, can being fingered break it?
Thanks so much
xo
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yes and yes.both questions are yes.because they were inserted into her.your hymen is so small that anything can easily break.evenriding a bike or sitting down wrong.
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Q: okay so i only had sex once and it was just a few weeks ago.. and i didnt bleed and it didnt hurt during or after.. and i have been fingered before that ..so how do i know if my hymen broke already? oh yah i also use tampons if that helps
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Well.Tampons couldve broken your hymen.No doubt about it.and not everybody will experience pain during their first time.and fingering(masturbation) already took over.so that is more than likely why you didnt hurt.hope i helped.
grape™
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Q: ok well im gona be giving my boyfriend a blojob soon or i think im gonna and well ive heard many rumors that you can get pregnant from swallowing cum is this true?
and like is it ok to just keep doin my thing while it comes out or will it like idk and is it gross?
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Ma.who ever told you that straight up lied to you.how the hell does sperm interact with the egg in the stomach.thats all in yo vagina.thats why its protection(rubber) for the penis.Not the mouth.and if you are concerned about getting diseases in your mouth then use a condom while giving head.its normal.dont let that rumor scare you cause thats exactly what it is.a RUMOR.and i dont know if i understand what you asked in second line so i'd give you my best advice.are you asking if sperm comes out of your mouth should you keep doing it?
only you would decide if you wanna stop.like i said before.it is normal.all you are doing is spitting it out.that is all.and only you can decide if it is gross.only because.you might or might not like the way sperm tastes.hope i helped.
grape™
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Q: i dont kno if this is a dumb question or what, but i was wondering where i can get pregnancy pills?? you kno ones that arent unhealthy for you and that you can get them without going to a doctor, and your parents finding out and all that.
thanks!
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sweetie.google a clinic near you and take you health insurance card.that should work out.depending on how old u r.hope i helped
grape™
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Q: hey so i am wondering some good ways of giving a hand job. i have never before but i think i am ready to when then time comes. what are some techniques or basic things to know?
thanks : )
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hey...good Question.Basically no bull.I learned all on my own.only your partner.would know how they liked to be touch.for say...sometimes.your partner would give you directions.and ima tell you to take it slow.cause all that force grabbing aint goin do nothing.unless your partner is a overall freak(like me ha!),your partner will be like "rub it" or even "grab it". so do both and slow.they will let you know to do it faster..harder..gentle..roughly.hopefully i helped.
grape™
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Q: how can you tell if someone is a bad kisser?
how can you tell if yourself is a bad kisser?
without people telling you i mean.
thanks!
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well.let me let you know.a bad kisser is when some one sucks up your whole face.literally.they do not know what the hell they r doing and on top of that they are sloppy ass kissers.if u think u are a bad kisser...basically follow their lead.except the whole sloppy art.believe me you will know.cause this person will get or be rough at times when they try to kiss you.hope i helped
grape™
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What can i say??? I love 2 give ADVICE!!!
On here errybody calls me GRAPE its just a profile name thats all.
I love 2 give advice about anything you would want to ask me about. But the only thing I want you to do after my advice is to rate it. Thats all I ask 4. If you would juSt want to talk to me then you can look me up on myspace, my URL:
www.myspace.com/yeauknome
im on there alot and u can add me as a friend if u like 2 i dont mind. Also e-mail me if u need anything
dischikisphat@yahoo.com
hope 2 here 4rm ya'll soon
*THANKIEZ* ....
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Washington D.C. Occupation: Student Age: 16 Yahoo: Member Since: September 25, 2004 Answers: 116 Last Update: March 15, 2008 Visitors: 10659
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