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um how do you give a blowjob!? haha i think it would be kinda gross tho..the boys penis in your mouth!? hmm..but i hear about these girls doin it all the time. but what else is kinda fun/sexual haha. well thanks..ne thing will help!

http://sexuality.about.com/od/oralsex/ht/fellatio.htm

theres the best answer i could give you!

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ok so i was at a sleepover party for my friend and it was all girls.. at we started to play truth or dare. it was stupid little dares at first but everyone kind knew we wanted to do naughty dares. so yeah then we started daring each other things like you know make out and then it got worse cause we started u know um.. lets just say we used whipped cream and we DIDNT lick it off ice cream. wink wink. the worst part is i actually found it enjoing and we stayed up all night. im kinda confused cause i loved it so much but i dont get crushes on girls i just fantasize about doing things with them?? am i lesbian or what?

it doesnt mean your bisexual it just means that you like to have fun with other girls and stuff.. a lott of guys think its hott haha but dont worry its not a huge deal or anything so have fun c ya!

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should girls shave thier pubes? and if so how much? and how are you saposed to get the hair wwaayy down there.. since its pretty much.. surrounded..?

i think you should, either all of it or trim it if your not confertable with getting it all off. just use a razor and be very careful.. also guys like it more when its shaved soo yeah haha

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ok well im 13 and i like this guy and me and him have been hanging out alot and he was my first kiss,first makeout,first person to finger me,first person to eat me out all this in like 3 months that we have known each other. he isnt a virgin and he told me that he wanted to be my first everything and i said ok because i really do love him and he claimed that he loved me and he swore to god that he wasnt using me. well the last time me and him hung out was like 3 weeks ago and that was like the 4th time he fingered me and i swear im not a slut but now hes ingnoring me because one of my friends got him really mad so he took it out on me and now he doesnt like me anymore but i want him to and i try to get over him but i just cant.
what should i do??

aww i am so sorry. are you guys dating? because if you arent thats not really a good idea because he could just leave you like that..but if you are dating when i had to get over my first everythingit was so hard but you really get over them when you find someone new. it will be hard for a while youll think of him a lot but once you find a new guy he will come running back and you can see if he's worth it or not and if you want to stay with the new guy or go back to him.. its your choice depending on how much this guy means to you and if hes not a asshole. hope i helped good luck ♥

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u helped me b4 and gave me great advice...but i have another question thats kindof personal that i didnt want to ask just anyone. Is the fingering expirience woth it? What do i need to do in return to make him happy?? If there are any suggestions please help! Its pretty pathetic that im on advicentors for help with my sex life!!

thx!

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hey... what question did you ask before? its alright because i ask question like that on this too! haha... but yeah i do think the expierence is worth it, i mean you really have nothing to loose unless the guy has stds and gets it on his hands or something.. and dont go around and let everyone do it to you or you'll get a rep. Also, if the guys good at it its really nice :-) hehe to return the favor you could give him a hand job... or a blow job depending what your comfortable with. if your not into that you could just give him a massage or kiss his neck or somethin, but if you want to talk more then you can im me if ya want ericaclarica789 well hopefully i helped talk to you soon maybe!

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 months but have been friends for 5 years. Even though were young weve been discusing marriage because of the amazing bond we have. Just recently we started having sex. I wouldnt know any other kind of sex but to me it seems really hardcore and more about the sex than the love. Weve never done any oral, but he told me this morning before he went to his am classes that when he comes home he is going to give me the best sex I ever had. He left a note saying this along with little clues about "tonight". This has really been grossing me out and concerning me because he said ... "My fingers will be up there along with my tongue,baby"!!! I dont now whatt to do because Im still new to te sex scene and those words coming fom him shock me!!


HELP!!

hey... i bet you really like this guy... and he really likes you..and he wants to make you feel good..but you guys have had sex so maybe you should try it, you dont have to if you dont want to but from my expierence its amazing haha, you could tell him you dont want to go that far and just let him finger you, or whatever you want to do. good luck and let me know what happens! lol

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When I'm giving my boyfriend a hand job or head, how do I tell if he likes it? I don't know if I'm doing it right or not..

look at his facial expressions and stuff see how hes reacting and if he jizs then you kno you got it haha but if you wanna learn how to do it then hit me back up and ill sned ya a website or something

xox- erica

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Me and my bf have been dating for 6 years and everytime he takes me out to a romanctic place and we come back home he always tries to have sex with me. I tell him sometimes I want to wait til im married. He says he understands and all but then he tries it again in a week. I mean I don't blame him for being horny but I gave him a handjob once but it was like a couple months ago. Now for some reason everytime I see him this month he seems to get depressed everytime. I ask him whats wrong and he says nothing. We still kiss and stuff but I feel like Im doing something wrong. So I gave him another handjob and have been but he still seems depressed.
Is there anything I can do to get him alittle more happier?
and don't think about saying hes gay or something

give him head, let him finger you and eat you out do kinky things haha its been 6 years how old are you? dont have sex with him until you feel your completely ready or stay true to marriage or something

xo erica

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ok i know its all unlikely your pregnent from a guy having some jizz on his hands then fingering you...but has anyone heard of a particular case where this did happen? or can someone find a story about this happening to somoeone online for me? thank you so much!

i read in a magazine that its not true because once the sperm is like outside or w.e and not in u it dies instantly after a few seconds or something


xo erica

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im 14 and im a virgin. and im dating a 17 year old guy who fucked almost every grl he met. he says he changed every since "something happend". he says he really likes me and hes not gonna presure me to do anything. but i dotn know ... i really like him but i dont knoe if he likes me back. or if hes just using me. its not that im scared to lose my virginaty. im just a lil worried about losing it to him becouse i dont know if hes gonna still feel the same towards me or if hes just gonna throw me aside.... :-/

well my friend was in the same situation dating a older guy and she had sex with him and he stayed with her after that but soon he broke her heart. you should wait and if he cares about you like he says he does then he'll also wait. wait until your completely ready and not nervous to have sex. hope i helped


xoxo erica

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