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ok im 13 years old and i think i might be bisexual...i've had ALOT of boyfriends(like more then 30) I just moved from NY to LA Cali. I have a friend that is bi and latly when i hang out wiht her i feel these weird feelings for her. What should i do????

I rate4 HIGH!!

~LiLy~

Eperiment with her. If shes a good friend, talk to her about that you are not sure about whether your bi an ask her if you two can try experimentin to find out. What's the worst that can happen? either you find out that you really are bi and you hav A LOT of fun with your m8 or you find out that your not bi and are no longer confused. Theres no harm in trying new things isthere?

hope i helped!

chris

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Hi!! im new to this website and Im 15 years old. I was just wondering if I should shave my vagina or do I leave it like it is. I have never been told yes or no, and I am too embarassed to ask. Thanks...I will rate high.

Hey, its ur choice whether you want to shave it or not and it doesn't make a lot of difference if you do or don't. However most boys like it shaven and if you are going to have and oral sex its better to shave it too. Also i don't think you can get crabs if you aint got any hair on it. So i recommend shaving but it doesn't make a lot of difference if you don't shave.

hope i helped!!

chris

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i need as many ways as possible OTHER THAN SEX to materbate or have an orgasm asap please.
thanks loves

go to ann summers dey hav lots of stuff there. or put u hand up there and find ur g-spot, stimulate it by rubbin or vibrator, then ull orgasm

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I've figured out that i am bi...but i am a christian..and i realize how wrong it is...and i hate myself for it...im trying to change myself.....but its hard for me to completely stop liking guys....but its so wrong...in the bible it says that doing stuff with another guy is an abomination..and they should be destroyed..that scares me..so i am trying to fight it off..i have a gf...and she's helping me thru it too...but my ? is...is it really wrong to be bi?..

No definately not. Its perfectly ok to be bi. Just ignore the bible and go with your feelings. If you like men go for men if you like women go for women if you like both go for both

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ok well i have been going out with this guy for a while now and every thing is going really good but i want to take it to the next leave and i dont know what to do can anyone help me

p.s. i dont really know how to give a guy head or like how i am supposed to let him fingure me can anyone help me please?

I dunno bout givin hed cos once a girl tried it on me but it just felt awkward so maybe u shud read up on that and practice on bananas.

But fingerin all he has to do is put his finger under flaps an near the top wiggle the clitoris an it supposed to feel gr8

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Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne

Well u shudnt freak out or anything theres nothing wrong with it.

Just sit him down an talk to him about the risks both physically and emotionally about sex an buy him sum protection too like condoms and a lock for his bedroom door

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I'm a chick.. I always stay with my best friend when she is home alone.. latly she has been asking me to experiment with her.. we have made out/french kissed.. you know, nothing "down there".. but she asked me if I ever wanted to experiment "dowthere" so we did.. just fingering.. but now she wants to emo.. what the fuck do I do?!?!

If u feel comfortable then go ahead. Wots the worst that can happen? but if ya dnt wanna then say no.

Its only experimentation and theres nothing wrong with that is there.

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Hey, im really scared about doing stuff sexually with a guy because of some of the stuff with my body..do guys care what a body looks like? i have stretch marks on my boobs because they grew so fast..and i have little dots on my but..and i dont know why? i just wanted to ask you if a guy cares about what his girlfriends body looks like to do sexual stuff with her.. i havent done anything yet...but im scared of what might happen when we do stuff..thanks!

Hey a guy wont be botherd with little things like that so don't worry and go ahead if u want to. Unless its a realy stuck up asshole who thinks hes perfect. Nobody's perfect

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how are you supposed to know what size condoms to buy?

They are all the same siz an they strecth to fit ur penis lol. its one size fits all.

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Hey everyone. I have an embarrassing problem that's really taking over my life.. it might seems small to some, but it's not at all. I have bad stretch marks, and they're making me majorly self conscious... around everyone. I have them all over, but they're especially bad on my stomache and sides. They're taking hold of me and my boyfriends relationship. Does anyone have any home remedies or in-expensive products I can use?? I'm using palmers cocoa butter right now. Should I use it every day?? Please give me advice, i'll rate high. Thanks so much

Cosmetic surgery is the best way

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hi im pilze i just wanted to ask....how old are u again....and do u love in new york...just wondering....thnx good luck


~pilze

who is this directed to? u shud go to their advice colum an ask it their. not do it publicly lol

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I was having a conversation with a guy about sex between the same sex, and of course he was very excited to hear about my girlfriends and I open mind in the subject. After I told him about a personal experience, he felt free and conferrable to tell about his with another man. The feeling of disappointment and discuss was automatic, and he asked me to explain why? where is the difference? why was it okay for me, and so wrong for him? I was out of words, there where no explanations, this has never been open for discussion. At this point I think that maybe if I can't be open minded about both ways of same sex relationships then I need to rethink my ideas of two girls together.
How does everyone feel, and if the same as me, how would you explained. why do we accept to girls and not two men?

Maybe its because girls seem all huggy an kissy anyway if their friends so it seems ok

i hav no problem with any gay relationships with girls or man so i dnt mind theres nothing rong wid them an its not their fault they r gay.

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Okay, im thirteen and i have a boyfriend who is the greatest thing in my life right now, hes so suportive towards me..and i really would like to spend the rest of my life with him and i know alot of people are gunna tell me that im 13 and alot of things are gunna go on in my life that might change and i dont even know what love is, but trust me i do i know exactly what it is thanks too him, but anyways...we both wanna go further..cause we both have the same feelings for eachother, and i wanna go further but i dont know how far..i mean we have made out alot...and like fingered..whats next? help me and ill rate you

I think next u shud hav oral sex a 69 is best cos u both hav pleasure at the same time

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I'm and 18 year old female,not a newbie to having sex, about 3 diff partners including my current boyfriend... thing is, whenever I have sex, no matter who it is or what position (guy or girl-I'm bi) I just get nothing from it. Not even the beginnings of an orgasm. I do okay on my own, I'm satisfied anyway, but when it comes to sex I have to fake it since I just can't get there. It feels good, and I enjoy the act just no climax ya?

Anything I can do about this?

Its the symptons of herpes I think u shud go to a hospital straight away

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Okay.. well there's this girl at school.. and she told EVERYONE i have herpes and that i masterbated in front of everyone and that my boyfriend is only going out with me because i pay for his weed and alcohol *WHICH ISNT TRUE* HE PAYS FOR ME! And NON of this is true.. she is saying all of this stuff because MY boyfriend was her best friends X boyfriend.. and like my bfs X hasn't said ONE word to me about me and my bf going out.. it's just her best friend is sticking her nose into my business and this should be between me and courtney *his ex* The funny thing is.. is that.. my bf.. has been in love with me for like ever.. and we dated before him and courtney got together but i STOPPED talking to him for multiple reasons *mainly all because of me* but like.. he didn't even ask courtney out.. his friend asked her out for him.. and he didn't wanna say like.. no i didn't want him to ask you out.. because that would of hurt her feelings.. so.. he NEVER EVER called her and they only went out for two weeks.. but they never spoke once throughout this whole two weeks.. well.. one night i spent the night with him.. and i didn't even sleep in the same bedroom as him.. i slept out in the living room with his mom watching movies all night.. *my family knows his whole family* and my mom KNEW i stayed there.. so then those 2 girls automatically ASSUME that i slept with him.. and HES A VIRGIN! ugh.. i hate school drama.. well yeah.. i have no clue what to do.. this is the stupidest situation in the world *i think* but it's not cool of those two girls to start rumors about me just because i got my man back! Dumb whores!!! *sorry this was really long lol*

U shud confron the girl who spread rumors and slap her round da face or spread rumors about her

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I'm a great advice columnist but i guess every advice person needs some advice as well.

Ok so about a month ago my sister and my brother in law came to visit us and i was sleeping (it was night time) and I remember waking up for my brother inlaw touching my leg. I didnt think much of it but after that I kept on thinking about it. Well i was at their house and last night he said he was sorry, and i didnt know what he was talking about and i was like for what and hes like I touched you in a place that you shouldnt have been touched by me (higher than my legs) I dont know what to do! because I mean I dont think he was doing it for more than a sec cuz i think i woke up right away but I dont want to tell my mom and dad because my dad would kill him and they would say something to my sister and then my sister and him would probably get a devorice and my sisters really happy. I mean that was the first time but I still cry about it like i feel so violated and i dont know what to do. I cant sleep cuz i think about it. All I do is cry about it. Please help me please!

I promise i'll rate a 5 no matter what! Atleast your trying to help me.

Hi I think u shud tlk to him about it an find out how ,long he did it for. Maybe it was just a split second accident.

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This is a really.. stupid.. question.. but.. here goes anyway:
I want to buy some condoms (im a girl) and i think its kind of embarrassing.. i mean.. i dont want everyone to know im having sex. I cant drive.. and if my sis or parents found out i was buying them.. they would KILL me.. Anyway.. when i work up the nerve to buy them.. whats the best kind to buy... i prefer lifestyles or trojan.. so whats the best.. and cheapest at that.. to buy

thanks!

Go to a public girls toilet i think u can get em in there. or ask ur b/f to go in public boys toilets their 2 pound from a machine or free from a chemist

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okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers!

Tell then ur teacher gave it to everyone in the class cos u were bein taught sex education.

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ok so i am 13 years old and i have been since november 16. I am really self concious about my breasts because like all my friends are a size A and i dont even think if i am a size AA (i've never tried one though) I mean when you read this you might think that i actually have breasts but they are small. But i acutally really dont. I have only 2 small like bumps when i look at myself in the mirror. and when i look at myself from the side in a mirror it is literally flat. nothing sticking out. And i have had my period since July. please help!

dont worry everybody grows at different speed ull just hav to wait until they grow

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okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to

Go to a chemist an ask for the pill an dnt tell ur mum. Or just use a phenydome or a condom. ask ur chemist for details.

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