about

my name is chassidy. but please call me chassie. i'm really outgoing and i love to have a good time. i like to party and get down with my girlies and we always have fun, no matter what. we're all pretty different. i cheered in high school, and i played volleyball. now i'm in college, living it up! i love most kinds of music and i love my car. my stang is my baby. i am with the love of my life, bobby. he is 24 and i'm 18! my parents and lots of people don't like us being together, but i just say fuck the haterz! i love my best friend, brandi. she completes me and i would die without her, she's my roomie along with candis and caroline. i like chanel. i love horses and riding fourwheelers. i'm a sexual person. i don't care what people think about me, and that's perfectly fine. i like to help people. i'm a secretary now at a bank. i love my family and my favorite color is pink. i love my hometown of new york city more than anything. i'm from manhattan, but i'm currently in texas. i love my boyfriend, friends, my job, family, animals, alcohol, sex, music, and my life.

advice

Okay...
I really want to have sex but iam really afraid tha my paretns are going to find out or my friends!
and what if i get pregnant!
i mean i will use a condom but you can still get pregnant but all my other friends never got pregnant when they had sex but could and it would ruin my whole life!
i need help PLEASE!

~Sandy~

if you really wanna do it, then do it. no one will find out, unless the person you have sex with tells someone... but if you can trust him with that and he's the kind of person that won't tell anyone then go for it. i've been sexually active for 5 years now and i have not gotten pregnant. just be as safe as possible and most likely nothing will go wrong. good luck hun :).

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i guess i was just curious for a girl if having sex without a condom feels better than having sex with a condom? like having a guy cum inside you i guess? i'm not planning on having sex without a condom it's just a question, so please do not lecture me on using condoms, kthanks.

i personally like it without and so do many of the guys that i've been with, but i don't do that often for safety reasons :].

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ive been with my bf for almost 9 months were both 17 and he has a really small penis and he was nervous about it i kept telling him that i love him and tried to reassure him and recently we started having sex and the 3 times weve had sex it didnt last that long he kept losing his erection i gave him a handjob but i couldnt get him hard again and he is really embarrassed
about it what can i do to help him? are there any good positions we could try?

aw he shouldn't be embarrased. it's actually really normal. but first foreplay and oral is a good way to get it going. it may actually help it last longer and it will pleasure you better. and then here are some positions that i found on a website that MAY be able to help you.

1- The doggie
I think we can all agree that this is the mother of all positions. Not only do you get full penetration, you also get the scenic route. For an even tighter feeling, open your legs and have her close hers, and get her to arch her back and relax her head and shoulders on a pillow.

2- The snake
Have your girl lie face-down on her stomach, legs straight out and closed. Place your genitals just under her butt and spread your legs on either side of her body, knees bent (keep your torso upright). Be careful not to let your weight drop on her, and make your way inside. If you like, prop her butt up by putting a pillow under her hips.
Note: She may initially have to open her legs in order for you to get your penis inside.

3- The rabbit ears
As your woman lies on her back, bring her knees to her ears, have her hold her legs there, and penetrate. The fact that her vagina is in plain view and easily penetrable allows for great in-and-out movement. I recommend that you put your hands (or a pillow) under her butt and hold her up as you watch yourself going in and out.

4- The V-formation
As she lies on her back, make your way inside her. Then, lift her legs in the air, hold her ankles, and spread her legs apart, forming a V. After a while, rest her legs on your shoulders and manipulate her clitoris while you continue penetrating her. Or, you could hold on to her hips and slowly pump in and out.



hope all works out!

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is it healthy to repeatedly have sex?

i haven't died yet ;)

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hi im almost 17 and im real worried my penis is really small ive never been with a girl im to embarrassed do girls care? what can i do to make
it bigger?

there really is no way to make it bigger, atleast no safe way. just don't worry about it. if you are worried about it it will show when you first have sex that you're worried about something. be confident with who you are and love yourself, girls find that extremely sexy.

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Does anyone think a 14 yr old having sex would be slutty? If she has been with this guy for a year, or even less than 12 months, but more than 4? and them knowing each other for 2 years?



This is not about me, I'm just wondering, and no offense to any 14 yr olds, it's just that some people call sluts now-a-days for wearing skirts, or too much eyeliner.

Anywho...you think it'd be better if she was 15? And she knew the consequences, and had was taking birth control, had condoms, etc.


Give me your opinions, thanks!

age is just a number. i lost mine at 13 and am still very sexually active, and yes i tend to be a "slut" and i am the class whore. but people are going to judge me no matter what, so i've learned just to do whatever the heck i want. if that person wants to have sex, they should do it whenever they feel they are ready, not when the world tells them they should be ready.

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14/f

i want to do IT like im not even going to lie. it does matter who it is i have a boy in mind but idk yet. i don't feel comfortable naked i know im very flat chested and i skinnyy, but everyone say im pretty if i had a butt which i need to get so any help with that. and how do to get this guy actuallyy 17

if you don't wanna change your body, then just be really confident. guys find confidence very sexy, or atleast my boyfriend does, and he's 4 years older than me. i'm not perfect, but i flaunt it like i am. but if you do wanna tone yourself just do some simple work outs. just start talkin to the guy and be really flirty and confident. good luck hun!

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okay,my boyfriend and i were having sex one night and he ask if he could put his penis in my ureathra (i dont think i spelled it right) but he said he wanted to put his fingers in first. to warm me up then work his way in to puting his penis in. should i let him? is that safe?

omg, ouch. that is not physically possible. that's where you pee out of. it is wayyyy too small. i don't think he understands what he's talking about.

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Okay so I am 14, and so is my boyfriend. We are so in love with eachother, and I know that. I really think I'm ready to have sex with him, but I feel like I'm too young. Can anyone tell me how they knew it was time? And what it was like? Thank you (:

i think you'll know when you are ready. i lost mine 5 years ago when i was 13 to the person i was talking to at that time. we just started making out and it just kinda happened. it was pretty good from what i remember haha. later we dated for like, a year or two. i don't regret it at all. i wasn't mature at all though, so that might have helped my situation, but yea no regrets for me :).

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So I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and we've been messing around lately. He wants to finger me but I'm a virgin and I don't know which hole his fingers would go in and if it would hurt. what does it feel like? how would he do it?

he can finger you in whichever hole you prefer haha. most people prefer the vajayjay. but it may hurt the first few times, but after you get used to it, it feels amazing! ;).

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Okay so I've read that the guy MUST wear a condom while receiving a blow job... WHY??
aRnt condoms to prevent pregnancy??

f\15

the guy doesn't have to. some people want them to just to be safe. condoms don't just prevent pregnancy, they also prevent STDs. and STDs can be transmitted through oral sex too.

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This is really embarrassing here goes im almost 17 and well my penis is really small and im really worried if somethings wrong ive never had a girlfriend been to embarrassed to look for one
i read somewhere you can get pills and stuff to make it bigger do they really work or is there something else i can do? im really worried

don't take pills. that isn't the right way to go. nothing can magically make it bigger. and i don't think your girlfriend is only going to be your girlfriend for your penis size. it's probably fine the way it is.

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how old were you when you lost your virginity? and how far along were you into a relationship if you were into one? also when do you think is okay to lose it? thanks!

i usually tell people i was 14 when i lost it but i recently realized that i was actually 13. so i was 13. but i was with my boyfriend of 6 months. he was 16. we were at a friends party and ended up having sex in her shower. but i think it's okay to lose it whenever you are ready. it's your decision and i don't think there is a certain age. 10 or below is a little weird though, i'd usually say 13 and above.

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so when me and my boyfriend have sex, i never orgasm. it feels really good, and i love it - but i just don`t get off. i get off when he goes down on me, etc., but not during sex. what`s wrong? am i doing anything wrong? i don`t understand why i don`t get off... i`m 17 btw. any suggestions or answers would be helpful! thanks

a lot of people don't orgasm through actually sex. some people just orgasm by having oral sex, and some people are opposite. try new positions and see if that helps any. it's perfectly normal though!

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every time my boyfriend and i see each other we have sex like 3-4 times in one day, we see each other either everyday or every other day.. is there any risks in having sex to much like health wise?

i do the same thing. i really don't think there's much of a difference in how many times you have sex. you have the same risks everytime, you just do it more often.

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okay so my boyfriend and i will be home alone on thursday at his house.. and i'm sleeping over. any ideas of what to do that are fun and interesting? and if it helps we have done everything.. oh & he has a pool okay thankss =) any ideas are great!

skinny dipping is the funnest. you can have a lot of fun ;).

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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =]

i lost mine when i was 14 at a friends party with. it was to my ex boyfriend, i've had around 5 boyfriends since him and had sex with each and every one of them. i'm currently single. but i don't regret things in life. things happen because they're supposed to happen. and i did love that guy and still do. i have had sex with him since we've broken up, and he's a really good friend of mine. i don't regret it at all.

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Hey this is really embarrasing..but i'm 13/m and my pens is a bit more than 5 inches long. Is that normal? And how can u make ur penis bigger?

PLEASE ANSWER! I WILL APPRICIATE VERY MUCH!!

you aren't finished growing yet. and it's perfectly fine anyway.

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okay well one of my best friends has a gf that he likes a ton.they have been tgr since september,they are perfect together.but he knows i like him,and he asked me to hook up and do stuff with him.i really really really want to,ive liked him for so long!does this make me a slut?

if you really want to sure go ahead. i've hooked up with one of my best friends boyfriends a few times, then she found out about it and we're not best friends anymore. i don't think it makes you a slut, it just makes him a manwhore =]. but consider the consequences, the girl will probably dislike you very much and the guy is probably feeling pretty lucky that he has a girlfriend AND just hooked up with another girl.

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hey i was wondering if guys prefered a girl who shaves down there when fingering instead of a girl who does not shave

most guys i've been with have liked it clean shaven. i prefer it too because it's a lot smoother when they do it!

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