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Question Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 4:47 pm

how old were you when you lost your virginity? and how far along were you into a relationship if you were into one? also when do you think is okay to lose it? thanks!

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jusme23 answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 1:10 pm:
I was 15 wen i lost mine i wasnt in a reletionship with the guy didnt even no him tht well at all.I dnt regret it afterall sex is just a thing we do....i dnt see the big deal about your virginity.
I think you shud be aware of the consequences tho, and ready to deal with them.
But in the end its your choice dnt worry what ppl say go for it wen you wanna!

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cHaSsi3x answered Sunday June 24 2007, 3:13 am:
i usually tell people i was 14 when i lost it but i recently realized that i was actually 13. so i was 13. but i was with my boyfriend of 6 months. he was 16. we were at a friends party and ended up having sex in her shower. but i think it's okay to lose it whenever you are ready. it's your decision and i don't think there is a certain age. 10 or below is a little weird though, i'd usually say 13 and above.

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GalPalNessa answered Thursday June 21 2007, 9:53 pm:
Well, i'm 18 years old. soon to be nineteen, and am yet to lose my virginity. And currently am in a relationship that has lasted over a year and 7 months...
As to when? when both are ready phisically and emotionally prepared not for the sexual part, but for the consequences.
When the moment comes its just something that it'll feel right, that you want to be with him, and are ready for the moment in every way =)

VB

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heyimcaro answered Thursday June 21 2007, 4:04 pm:
i'm sixteen, almost seventeen, and my boyfriend is seveteen. we're both virgins, and today is our two year anniversary (:

we decided that even though we're emotionally and physically ready for sex, and love each other to the extent that it wouldn't bother us, we're not ready to deal with the consequences of it (pregnancy). we're also both christains, which affects part of the decision. but we basically do everything but sex, so it works for us. i think it's only okay to lose it when you KNOW you can deal with pregnancy or any medical condition that could affect the rest of your life, and of course, i think you should love the person.

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soendearing answered Wednesday June 20 2007, 10:33 pm:
14.
5 months, and we're still together today, just passed a year and 9 months 2 days ago.
I think it's okay to lose your virginity when you are planning on spending to be with the other person for a long time, and you are ready for the consequences of sex.

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Andreaaaa answered Wednesday June 20 2007, 7:41 pm:
Here's the way I look at it.
Save your self for your husband.
That way you can share something that special with him.

If you wait, you won't regret it :]

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lbwhite89 answered Wednesday June 20 2007, 7:26 pm:
Well I'm 17 and I haven't lost my virginity yet. It's a personal choice...and a good one at that. I'm glad I'm still a virgin. It's not like I'm one of those people who are waiting for marriage, but I am waiting for a time that I won't regret in the future.

If you lose your virginity between 13-16, you will most likely regret it. Most do. High school relationships hardly go well, and most high school boys just want to get in your pants anyways. And after they do, they're onto their next conquest.

You have to wait until you're ABSOLUTELY ready and make sure you KNOW the person...very well. You don't want to get screwed over and forever regret doing it in that way.

Obviously if you're asking this question you aren't 100% sure you're ready. Don't do it until you know you're ready.

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orphans answered Wednesday June 20 2007, 7:24 pm:
I was 15 when I lost mine. Actually I'm still 15 and I wasn't even in a relationship. That makes me sound like a whore but I'm not. It was me and my best guy friend, I'd always liked him and cared for him a lot. I knew he cared for me too, he'd do anything to make me smile. After he broke up with his girlfriend, we started drugs and we would mess around and it happened one night. I was his first as well. Now we're going out, and we can still have conversations with each other like we did when we were only best friends. I think it's okay to lose it if you really are devoted to someone, care for them, and love them.

I do regret that I wasn't in a relationship with him when I lost my virginity, but I don't regret him being the one to take it. For as long as I've known him he's always treated me amazing. I know our relationship isn't only based on sex. He takes me places and we always have fun whether it's at a restaurant or miniature golf. He's always helped me with my problems even if I don't know what's wrong. So I'm glad I lost my virginity to a guy like him, even if we don't last.

Also, I do think any age below 16 or 17 is too young to have sex, yes I'm admitting I was too young.

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runawayxlove answered Wednesday June 20 2007, 7:17 pm:
Hey, well i was 13 when i lost my virginity. It was to someone that i have been dating on and off for two years, but havent broken up in 7 months with him at the time. Its okay to loose your virginity if your okay with it. If your not ready and not comfortable with doing it, then dont.

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