okay well one of my best friends has a gf that he likes a ton.they have been tgr since september,they are perfect together.but he knows i like him,and he asked me to hook up and do stuff with him.i really really really want to,ive liked him for so long!does this make me a slut?
I mean, i've been here. But, sometimes dignity is just more important. You know what I'm saying? I hope you kinda see things clearly, and from other peoples view. Make the best decision for you. If you think its the right move, and your not afraid of what others may think, or say, then hey. go for it. But, to me.. it sounds like you know, that isn't right.
AgonyK answered Sunday June 10 2007, 11:18 am: it does no offence its not your fault hes using you and hes cheating on his gf thats not fair trust me get another guy whos sweet and not a hooker trust me its not worth it [ AgonyK's advice column | Ask AgonyK A Question ]
nonamecat answered Sunday June 10 2007, 12:33 am: It won't make you a slut, but it will make you an enabler. Meaning, you have enabled him to cheat on his current girlfriend. You are no better a person than he is. [ nonamecat's advice column | Ask nonamecat A Question ]
cHaSsi3x answered Friday June 8 2007, 2:46 am: if you really want to sure go ahead. i've hooked up with one of my best friends boyfriends a few times, then she found out about it and we're not best friends anymore. i don't think it makes you a slut, it just makes him a manwhore =]. but consider the consequences, the girl will probably dislike you very much and the guy is probably feeling pretty lucky that he has a girlfriend AND just hooked up with another girl. [ cHaSsi3x's advice column | Ask cHaSsi3x A Question ]
disasterxwoah answered Friday June 8 2007, 1:56 am: You slut ? NO
Him untrust worty & a little asshole ? Yes
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Just be careful, and if you are friends with his gf then I wouldn't. That would make you a little of a bad friend. [ disasterxwoah's advice column | Ask disasterxwoah A Question ]
TheWallflower answered Thursday June 7 2007, 11:55 pm: It wouldn't make you a slut
xOx_LoOvE_xOx answered Thursday June 7 2007, 11:30 pm: Well SLUT wouldn`t be the right word but somewhere close to there.
Just think about it like this, if you were his girlfreind & he wanted to do stuff with another girl how would that make you feel?
If he likes you truly he would break up with his current girlfreind & go out with you.
Also, would you regret it in the future?
Hope I helped [ xOx_LoOvE_xOx's advice column | Ask xOx_LoOvE_xOx A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Thursday June 7 2007, 11:29 pm: I don't think it makes you a slut, but considering he has a girlfriend, it sure would make you just as much of an asshole as he is.
Come now. You don't want to be an asshole, right? Find a guy who isn't perfectly happy making you his "on the side".
Both you and his girlfriend deserve a better guy than him. Even if he is your best friend.
XoXoXoXo77 answered Thursday June 7 2007, 11:27 pm: not a good idea. that means he will be cheating on his girlfriend. and it will be YOUR fault. if you can live with that then go ahead.. [ XoXoXoXo77's advice column | Ask XoXoXoXo77 A Question ]
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