i want to do IT like im not even going to lie. it does matter who it is i have a boy in mind but idk yet. i don't feel comfortable naked i know im very flat chested and i skinnyy, but everyone say im pretty if i had a butt which i need to get so any help with that. and how do to get this guy actuallyy 17
yoyoman43 answered Thursday December 27 2007, 1:03 am: And has he shown any sign that he is interested in you? And why would he want an inexperienced 14 year old girl when he can have a fully developed older girl that is experienced rather than a 14 year old bimbo unless he is some kind of pervert. [ yoyoman43's advice column | Ask yoyoman43 A Question ]
Melody answered Monday December 24 2007, 10:13 pm: Anywhere from the age of 13-15 you are probably going to be having weird sexual urges that you aren't able to explain, and it's normal. But that doesn't mean you should act on these impulses, especially with a 17 year old. And yes, seventeen is too old for you. He has matured and you have not. Just allow these urges to pass, and don't act on them.
DefinedEyes answered Monday December 24 2007, 1:35 pm: You know, I do believe it is normal for you to have these feelings. "Lust", desire for someone. It's part of our nature I guess.. and its stronger for some, and less for others. Apparently since you're only fourteen its quite strong for you. I highly suggest that you do NOT, just find someone to sleep with. I know you said you have a boy in mind, but there is more to a relationship than just "sex" and "doing it", have you asked yourself the appropriate questions? Are you READY to have a baby, and care for it? Do you have plans for college? Do you want to get an STD? There are so many STDS out there, and yes their are medication for some of them, but many of them.. are still undiagnosed, and there is no cure for them. And if you are not comfortable with your body, don't have sex with someone. You need to love yourself first, before you should even imagine having sex with someone. When you're older you will understand what I'm trying to explain. And I know you think you are ready, and that it's not that big of a deal, but it is. You may be pretty, but sex is a personal, emotional thing. Just wait until you truly understand the concept of it, and when you are really really in love. [ DefinedEyes's advice column | Ask DefinedEyes A Question ]
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