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i dont know what to do


Question Posted Monday December 24 2007, 1:53 am

well me and my gf tried sex for the first time we were both virgins and it felt really good for me but it didnt feel good for her she said it hurt a little bit on the edges and it felt good when i was all the way in and i dont know if i popped her cherry or what...i dont know why it dont feel good for her i dont think im big enought to pop her cherry what do i do? does your cherry have to be popped for it to feel good??

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yoyoman43 answered Thursday December 27 2007, 12:52 am:
HELLO! If you went all the way her cherry had been popped. The reason it hurts is because she was a virgin. Obviously it is going to hurt. You both have different sexual parts. Another thing you are inexperienced so you probably don't even know how to please a girl yet. Practice on her and eventually you will know what to do. The more you have intercourse then the more you will get to know her in an intimate way and will be able to please her. But it is obviously going to hurt her the first couple of times. It is common knowledge.

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Melody answered Monday December 24 2007, 10:16 pm:
A girl's first time having sex is never any fun. It's always going to hurt whether it's a little bit or a lot. The slang term "popping her cherry" actually means "ripping her hymen." It's a thin piece of skin located somewhere inside of the vagina. When it rips, it hurts. After it rips, it still may hurt until she gets used to having sex. It doesn't mean you are bad in bed, it just means you need to give her time before it physically will start feeling good for her.

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thelaura answered Monday December 24 2007, 1:00 pm:
It probably didn't feel good because it was her first time. It's normal for that to happen. It might not feel too good for the next few times either, but after she gets used to it, the pain will go and she'll enjoy it more. It happens to alot of people if they aren't used to larger things being inserted, so it's nothing to worry about.
Also.. if your penis went in all the way, her cherry is most likely to be "popped". It could have popped before you had sex with her anyway.

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