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:( i need help. please help
15/f please i need as many answers as possible.
help me.
ok...i had sex yesterday...unprotected. and i have a few stupid questions first...
is there any way to know your pregnant without a test?
how long after sex do you have to wait to take the test?
is there anything i can do/take that can prevent pregnancy even though i dont know if i am?
i know the pill(morning after)
is there anything i can do to make my period come faster?
so basically he doesnt know if he finished in me...he said he felt something so he pulled it out, but there was nothing when he did that. could this just be a feeling? orgasm??
also...hes 15...is he like fully making semen and stuff? he doesnt even have hair on his face or...much anywhere else so does this mean he hasnt finished puberty?
how long during sex does it roughly take for a guy to "squirt"?
i heard of maybe something you can drink that kills sperm?
idk :( im so worried and trying not to think about it because i know ill just breakdown. please be honest and tell me everything you can to help me.
and if you have any advice how to kepp me going right now...
thankyou so so much. thankyou.
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Relax and wait for your period. If it doesnt come then take a test! You SHOULD NOT be having unprotected sex AT ALL!! Use condoms! Get on the pill (if you're not pregnant). Grow up and be responsible!
One stupid mistake can change your whole life and for a child to be born with two parents under 16 is cruel!
I'm a young mum and i know its hard! But my baby was planned when i was 18!
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im gonna write in capitals so you can see my answers to all your questions
is there any way to know your pregnant without a test? NO. UNLeSS YOU WANNA WAIT SEVERAL MONTHS AND HAVE A BIGGER BELLY, AND THROW UP AND GET SYMPTOMS.
how long after sex do you have to wait to take the test? ABOUT A MONTH, OR JUST A LITTLE BEFORE YOUR MISSED PERIOD
is there anything i can do/take that can prevent pregnancy even though i dont know if i am?
i know the pill(morning after) THE MORNING AFTER PILL IS GOOD. SINCE YOUR FIFTEEN ONLY, GET AN OLDER FRIEND TO BUY YOU ONEE =]
is there anything i can do to make my period come faster? NOPEE. DONT WORRY ABOUT IT EITHER. STRESS AND WORRYING ABOUT IT MAKES IT COME LATER.
so basically he doesnt know if he finished in me...he said he felt something so he pulled it out, but there was nothing when he did that. could this just be a feeling? orgasm?? IF HE ORGASMS IN YOU, YEAA HE CAME IN YOU. OR FINISHED IN YOUU WHATEVER YOU WANNA SAYY :/
also...hes 15...is he like fully making semen and stuff? he doesnt even have hair on his face or...much anywhere else so does this mean he hasnt finished puberty? HE CAN STILL GET YOU PREGGNANT!
how long during sex does it roughly take for a guy to "squirt"? DEPENDS. ABOUT 10, 20, OR 30 MINUTES.
i heard of maybe something you can drink that kills sperm? YOU COULDVE USED SPERMACIDE. BUT OTHER THAN THAT I DONT THINK SO, BECUASEEE BASICALLY FLUIDS GO INTO A DIFFERENT CHAMER THAN YOUR VAGINA. LIKE YOU KNOW YOU DONT PEE OUT OF YOUR VAGINA
i hope that helps you out a little! best thing to do is to take the morning after pill. as soon as possible!! like i said above, get an older friend to buy you one if they dont sell them to minors where you live.
but you really shouldn't be having unprotected sex =[ but i wish you the best of luck and keep me posted!
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First of all, it is not possible to get pregnant from precum ([Link](Mouse over link to see full location)) unless they didn't pee since they last came, so ignore that post. However, depending on whether or not he came inside of you, there is a high chance of you being pregnant. Next time you use pulling out as you method of birth control, MAKE SURE HE PULLS OUT. If he did come inside of you, take plan B (emergency contraceptive), or get an emergency IUD from a hospital. Both must be done within 5 days at the latest. If you don't like condoms, either take the pill or teach him how to hold his juice haha.
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To clear a few things up:
*You COULD be pregnant.
*He DOES produce sperm - it doesn't matter if he hasn't got facial hair etc.
*Every guy is different depending on how long it takes him to ejaculate. Other factors will also help, depending on how turned on he is.
*There is NOTHING you can drink to kill sperm.
*You CAN'T make your period arrive faster.
*After having unprotected sex, you can take the morning after pill within 72 hours. The sooner you take it, the better it works. but since it's now Christmas eve/day (depending where you are in the world), I'm assuming you won't be able to get hold of it.
Secondly, you really shouldn't worry. Worrying will only delay your period.. and that will just make things worse.
Wait for your period to arrive. If it does, great - and never let it happen again. If it doesn't simply take a test. From that point onwards, you will get advice on the options you have.
What's done is done. There really isn't any point in worrying right now. I know it's an awful thing to go through, but in the mean time whilst you wait, try to relax.
It's not the end of the world, okay?
and.. try to have a Merry Christmas.
Good luck
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First, calm down and consider your options.
There is honestly no way to tell if you're pregnant or not without a pregnancy test unless you don't receive your period in the course of a couple of months.
You cannot immediately take the test right after sex, because in order to be pregnant, the egg must be fertilized.
YES, there is something you can do. It is a shot called emergency contraception that must be taken within a course of 72 hours after sex to prevent pregnancy. However, the longer you wait, the bigger chance there will be of a pregnancy.
Your body does what it wants. There is no way to make a period arrive faster.
Even when guys pull out before they orgasm, you can still get pregnant due to pre-cum, which still contains millions of sperm [remember, it only takes ONE to get you pregnant].
It doesn't matter if a guy has hair on his face or not, he still produces sperm just like you produced eggs when YOU were in the womb.
Every guy is different regarding length it takes to get to orgasm.
Don't ever listen to sex rumors from friends or anything else. There is nothing you can drink to kill sperm; the only way to lower pregnancy chances are with condoms or birth control.
Talk to a parent or adult you trust [for instance, a teacher or counselor]. Do NOT be afraid that they will get angry, I'm sure they'd be even more upset if you didn't come to them.
See a doctor and discuss your options with them.
I hope this is a lesson learned. PLEASE have safe sex next time.
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