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I have to throw my sister a baby shower does anyone know any good game ideas. (link)
ok well there is a game that you pass around a toilet papaer roll and everyone guess how big the belly is of the lady having a baby and they tear off how much they think and then at the end you measure to see who got the closest.


Any ideas of what kind of outfit i should wear to a fall out boy concert? I'm going in late spring so it will be warmer. thanks (link)
i think that a pear of shorts and a tank top would look cute.


well i know this guy and he he kinda nos me but i like him but i don't know if he likes me. but he already knows that i do like him and i need a way i could ask him out or what guys do when they like you. so does anyone have advice? (link)
well first of all you dont ask guys out!!
and if a guy likes you then he usually wants to be around you and stuff like that..


Okay heres the deal. i can do a front handspring and a round off and a back bend. and on the trampoline i can also do in addition to that a front tuck and front flip. i cant do a back handspring but i can do a back bend. does anyone have any advice on how to do this without going to a class? p.s. i'm also going to get gymnastics mats and the trampoline has a net around it. i am 14 (link)
try working on your backbends a little faster and you will eventually get the spead and the tust of yourself and maybe get someone to help spot you when your trying your backbend and try to flip over right after you do your backbend if you arent able to flip over and if so then just go a little faster on back walk overs.
hope that helped.


Anyone know any cute little organizing tips for a girls bedroom ----- my lil sis (shes 11)??????? (link)
I think its cute to get those dressors but instead or drawers you have these material like soft baskets that slide in and out to put your clothes in and they stay hidden and there are extra shelfs on the outside. Its really cute.


im really pale.
and i want to do a tanning bed.
i need some info. on it.
im 13 years old and my friend said you have to be 14 years old to do it. is that true?
and like....
how do i convince my parents to let me do it.
thankss!!! (link)
Just tell your parent that you want a little color or you could use self tan. Thats easy.
You dont have to be at least 13 in some places.


13/f okay well we have established that. Well here's the deal, I got my phone stolen, and didn't realize it, but I told my parents, so now I want a new phone, but my mom doesn't think I'm responsible, and I don't have any money. Should I try to earn it, get it from my brother, or just wait until my birthday or christmas (link)
You should try to earn some money and see if ur brother will lend you some extra to help pay for some of it.
Just maybe do some work or something to show your parents that your responsible.


I MAY have left a tampon in, and accidentially put another one in while the first was still in but i am not sure. I know that's horrible but is there a way to see if one is still in? Would the string be hanging out still? Help =/ (link)
I have dwont his before on accident and i just looked and there were 2 strings so just look and try to pull one of them out and then pull hte other. It may hurt afterwards but its fine., it doesnt hurt that bad i dont think. but just look and pull which ever one you see and then try to get the other one out.


I was molested by a family member of mine when I was little. I don't remember what happened at all and I've questioned my sexuality since I was 11 or 12 years old.

I've been afraid of penis' since I started fooling around with guys at 13.

I don't know what it is but unless I'm "under the influence" I can't muster up the guts to go down on my most current boyfriend.

Now, I've done it before but every time there's a new guy involved, I freak out.

I really feel like I'm being selfish to my boyfriend. I've also talked to my sister and him about it, but it just seems like there's nothing anyone can say to make me feel better about the whole thing.

What in the world should I do? (link)
maybe since you were mollested when u were young then youve just had a little bit of scraedness in you still. Its common to be scared after something like that happens and i would think anything about it that much. I think that it will all be fine in a few years but since you dont remeber what happened a while back ago then maybe somthing happend that you dont know of. You never know, but i would just give it time and maybe the reason that you freak out with a new guy is because you have a nervous feeling that he could be someone going to molest you. your body just may think that since it happened to you before that your scared that it will happen again and you never can be too sure about a person.


hi im about 5 10 1/2 tall and weigh somewhere between 185-190 pounds..i want to lose 10 pounds then satrt lifting weights is 10 punds good and whats the quickest way to lose it along with dieting? (link)
just stay away from bread and eat healthy.
I think that 10 pounds is enough because your tall and you dont want to loose too much. But just eat healthy and maybe excercise but it looks like you are already wanting to do that but part of you weight may be muscle so i wouldnt loose too much more.


when girls wear girl boxers or boy shorts, do you guys wear underwear underneath? i'm just wondering. i know it sounds stupid. haha. but yea. i was just wondering. anyways. yea. and is it weird to wear girl boxers and stuff? (link)
yes you can wear any type of underwear. It doesnt really matter, just whatever you feel like wearing.


Can someone give me some advice on what I should do to my hair?
I can't even comb my hands through my hair! If you watch the search for the next pussy cat doll, my hair is like that girl's thats really poofy.
Anyone know any shampoo that doesn't give volume? I really love Pantene but it gives your hair volume (link)
try using bed head.
I dont think that it gives you volume but it is really good and it come in other things like conditioner, makeup (ect.)
but i would try that cause that helped me cause my hair would friz and get poofy.


OK well I asked you guys for pictures today..and I got my haircut...and its way too short. I hate it. & I dont have any money for extensions. Help!?! What can I DO!! (link)
Well just put like a clips or more in your hair and style it really cute and it will make it look even better. Just remember that it will grow out and you can try something new so i wouldnt worry too much about it just style it really cute and people will like it. Mybe put it up half way or the clips on the side. Thats really cute to do sometimes.
hope i helped


I just started indoor tanning. How often a week should I tan??
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If your not burning then you should tan maybe every other day but if you getting a little or alot or red or pink then i would go maybe twice a week. I try to go every day but i wouldnt suggest that many unless you really want to get tan in a short amount of time which is my case. But just be careful only to increase by 2 minutes everytime if your not getting burnt or if you are then depending on how bad you get burnt then u need to decrease by 2 minutes for that time or stay the same until your body has gotten used to that long or strong of bed.


Is this okay to do?I've always heard it's better to shave with warm-hot water,but whenever I do I get all cut up.I tried cold water today and there weren't any problems but I think I heard something about having a chance of getting ingrown hairs or something like this... (link)
It is better to shave with warm water, becasue shaving with cold water can give you ingrown hairs and rashes or bumps on your legs so I would just be careful when shaving with your razor and maybe you need a new one, cause the blade might be dull. So i would try to get a new razor if you can and use warm water from now on.


please help, i got a really bad haircut- short and uneven. please give me tips or styles i can use until i get my hair fixed thanks! (link)
well trim it up or have your mom help you or if you dont want to do that then i would suggest if its too short or really short than you should put clips in it or berettes are in style now for people at my school. Or if you dont like that idea then u could put it half way up or you could even spike the underneath part to give you a more funky look. Hope i helped.


What brand of hair products would you say is the best? and from that brand, what would be the best shampoos, conditioners, sprays, etc. for naturally frizzy, wavy, curly, knotty, puffy hair?

and also, names of good hair dryers and hair straighteners/curlers would be appreciated! (link)
For frizzy hair or non frizzy hair i think that Bed Head is the best and it comes in alot of good smells. Bed head comes in everything for any type of hair so you can usually find it in a beatuy store or any place that has name brand products. It works really good and smells really good also. You can basically get anything your looking for in Bed Head stuff including make-up.
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I recently broke both of my arms, I had a terrible dislocation and fracture on my right elbow and both bones in my left forearm are broken. This happened in a rock climbing accident(i've been climbing for 5 years and I decided to go without a rope one day) Anyways, the injuries aren't too serious and the bones should heal and be even stronger by the time it's done healing. However, I do have a serious dilemma. With both my arm in casts, how do i wipe my own butt when I go to the bathroom? (in case you're wondering, it took me a looong time to type this question) (link)
omg i was in this situationa and the doctors didnt know wut to dao (not that i asked them how i should) but they said that i was one of the first people to break both arms in the exact same spot.
But all u have to do is lean forward and easily slide your arm through the front of you or if you do it the other way then stand up a little and reach your arm behind you and carefully wipe from behind. It should get better and if u have any other questions about how to do things with your casts then just ask me. Castlechik06@aol.com
or go to my advice column ilysm_4321


I really want to go to some cool resort over spring break but I don't really know of any places that are good for teens (not school-age kids).

I know Atlantis isn't that good...

soooo any suggestions would be appreciated. (link)
ok well i dont know what age your talking about but Miami is fun.... if your in highschool and like to party. If your around the age of 14-15 or younger than the mall of america in miniapolis is a bunch of fun.


what are some ways to lose 10 pounds?like,what excersices to do and stuff like that,besides running.




thnx in advance! (link)
All i can really say is that just dont eat as much and maybe some crunches and just get more active.
If your not that active then you should just go jump on a trampoline if you have one or go outside and hangout or play something outside. Just cut back your eating and get more active and you will start to loose weight an if you eat alot of junk food then you need to start eating healthy too. But its not always about the excercising, just the way you eat and spend your time during the day. I hope this works cause i havent really had to loose any weight but thats true what i said.




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