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Ok, for about 2 months now I got white stuff in my underwear, and always feel wet. I think its discarge. I haven't had a period yet but I don't know when its comming. Should i tell my mom or just leave it be?

That's just your cum(sperm). It's normal to have this.

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i have never had a crush on girls just boys i wanna have sex with boys. with girls the same and i fantasize about doing stuff to them tell me what is wrong with me this is the worse i have ever felt in my life. i rate high if u help me good

it all depends on your age take it from a bisexual and you're not techinically lesbian your probably bi.

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I'm a virgin. I thought I would start out with that.

I am 15 years old and I masturbate sometimes. But the thing is, after I do it, I feel really guilty and stop and don't do it for about a month.

It feels good when it's happening but after, I feel sick to my stomach.

I have never had a boyfriend and I'm not sexually active at all besides masturbating.

People say it's normal but it's not really publically accepted for teenage girls.

I just want to know if it's normal how I feel.

it's totally normal.

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Hi,

My name is Todd, I'm an only child, and I am 15 and in High School. I have a really good friendship with this girl who has some problems. We're not really dating, but she's a really nice person and she's very kind, however she's depressed quite a lot.

I found out that she cuts herself since I saw cuts on her arms, and when some people asked she said it was nothing. I knew something wasn't right since she's never usually been cut like that. I didn't want to tell her that I think she's cutting herself, since I don't want to make her feel worse, but I just wish I could do something to make her feel better.

I always listen to what she has to say (although it's not much [as she says]), and I always try to do great things for her like get her gifts and make her feel better.

I know, from what she told me, her family has issues since she isn't really given much attention. It's not that her parents are mean, it's just that they don't really care about her. She also has two older sisters (who have children also) and one younger sister, so things get hectic over there, from what I know. Her two older sisters occasionally come up once a week or so, and she is left to babysit her nephews and niece.

I always try to let her know that I care about her 24/7. I'm going to invite her over to my house this weekend since she's been to my place before and my parents are happy to see her. Plus, it's a lot quieter. :-)

I know I can't "give" her my family, but I want to do as much as I possibly can to make her feel better and less depressed.

I'm concerned because I don't want her to commit suicide, since that would kill me. ;-(

If you have any advice or solutions you can give me, PLEASE TELL ME.

One of my ideas was that if her family doesn't do anything for Thanksgiving, I was thinking of having her over for Thanksgiving, since my parents won't really be doing anything since my immediate family moved away.

Thank you very much! :-)

Just tell herthat you'll always be there for her and that you'll do anything for her that should help.

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Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering about something...
I know its normal and not exactly their fault and everything, but when a girl goes through monthly stuff, what are we, the guys, supposed to do. I really don't mind it, but sometimes I feel like I need to help out my g/f with whatever the problem may be...but I can't. Should I just be there to talk and listen? That's what I've been doing so far. I mean I can't think of any good advice other than lie down, take some medicine, try to relax, and stuff like that. Should I try to help, or just stay out of the way? Is there any way I can help or no? I know I don't or ever will understand what it feels like or anything, but I'd still try to help with anything. Will rate, thanks in advance.

no there's not really a way that you could help out. All that you can do is tell her that you're there for her.

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ok. im 14/f. still a virgin and ive been thinking about having sex with my boyfriend. like when he hugs me from behind he'll just start humping me. and i know i tell him to stop but i like it. l.o.l. and he always puts his hands up my shirt. and i like it. but im ashamed of my body. i know im not fat...but i just think i am. i think my legs are at least. but... i dont know what to do. and i dont think thats all he wants from me. but i dont know....i masterbate alot and it feels good. and i want the real thing now but i dont know about it tho.
please help me.

my advice to you is go for it,but don't do it just because you think he wants to do it. Wha ti am saying is dont do it just because he wants to.

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When my boyfriend and I start to get intimate and he starts rubbing me, would it be so wrong if I took his hand and well, guided him to where he should be rubbing? Or would that offend him?

slowly move his hand 2 the spot while rubbing his hand.

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i want alot of honest opinions on these 2 questions.
1)what do you consider a girl that has had sex since the age of 13? Had another bf when she was 14 then had sex with another guy (cheated on her bf) she barely knows the 2nd time they hung out together?

2)what do you consider a guy that screws a girl he hardly knows the 2nd date, knowing she has a bf?? will rate 5s for honesty!!

1.hoe

2.just being a guy.

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I masterbate alot how can i chill out on doin it cause i do it alot

do it with with the opposite sex.

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i had two dreams of me getting raped. i it wat does it mean and wat should i do help me plez.

you need to be careful around people and always be sure about your surroundiings.

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My boyfriend and I had sex last week and my period usally comes on around the 24 or 25. It is the 27 and my period still haven't come on. I have been have cramps and back pain. So am I pregnant or not?

ya your pregnant

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My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year. . i found out he had been "talking" with a few other girls.. he says he hasnt done anything with them but come on, we all know some guys just cant admit things ? Him and i have been sexual but once i found out about the other girls i just didnt have the drive to want to do anything with him, but once i did. . well, now i have a huge buldge in the back of my throat and its inflamed. It hurts to swallow and seems kinda; pussy if that could be ? What do you think it could be? Maybe, and HOPEFULLY just bronchitis or something of that sort. Also, even if it could be something else; my mom doesn't know that him and i have been having sex. Even though i am 17.. she would absolutely freak. Advice.. please.

u might have ganoriea

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13-f ok i was having sex and my dad walked in.. what do i do i havnt seen him since and i wa but naked head to toe and so was he no blankets and .. idn please help !! i rate HIGH

Sit down with your dad and tell him that you're sorrry and that you used protection. Tell him that it won't happen again. Just remeber next time you have sex do it at his house.

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I am kind of scared because one of my friends got sexualy harrassed today, a guy lifted up her shirt in the hallway. One of my friends says that her boyfriend tried to rape her or sexually assalt her in the bathroom, she wont tell me if thats true. What should i do to get her to answer me, and what should i do about her harassment??

Just sit down and have a talk with her. About the sexual harrassment thing tell her to tell an adult. about the boyfriend situation she should tell that boy off and set him straight. it sounds like right now all she needs is a good friend, maybe shes waiting for you to come to her aobut the situation.

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can a girl get pregenent from anal sex

ya, its the same thing as doing it in the front it still goes through your yaha.lol.

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When a girl fingeres herself does it hurt? How does it feel?

No it doesn't hurt well it kinda depends on how far you stick it in. and it feels good.

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How am i supposed to use a dildo and where do i get one?

hey all you do is stick it up your yaha (pussy) and start moving it in and out. you can usually find one at an adult store or wallyworl (walmart). if you cant do neither of those just use your finger or if you dont wanna do that then you could od the pillow trick just rub your pussy across the pillow and it feels good.

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ok well i have this really hot niebor and we like to insult me like flirting. well one day i was on the porch at like 11 he just pulled up in his drive way.. he is 16.fence and he started to make these sex noises like he was fucking me .. but i just wanna no if that means he likes me

I think he does.

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I have a ten-year old sister and she has a bf. One day i caught them making out. I didn't make much of it. When I came back she was sucking his penis. I don't want my sister to be a sex addict but how do i confront her about this?

hey, no offense, but my advice to you is let her learn her own mistakes herself. If she gets pregnant if she ever takes that big step, that'll be her fault not yours.

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how do you know for sure you are ready to have sex?

if your horny and you know get some dick or a dildo if you cant afford it finger yourself or use the pillow trick

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